Someone said my eyes are my best feature, what does that mean? (pics)?
They're big and brown and your brows look really good that's why they are your best asset. Keep those brows looking good and you'll only have to wear mascara. They are like frames for your whole face and your eyes.
How to convince her she's beautiful, and not the "ugly sister" ?
heyy. so recently i've been really worried about one of my sisters. i have a pretty big family (5 sisters, 2 brothers). i am the oldest of my sisters, i just turned seventeen. i have a pair of twin sisters, and they're both sixteen, the one below them is fifteen, and then there's one that's thirteen. the one i'm worried about is my fifteen year old sister. she has always felt left out of our little "sisterly group" (that sounded extremely gay, sorry). she's different than us in every conceivable way. for example: i have almost black hair, and violet eyes. [yes. they exist. they're just rare] the twins are both blonde and blue eyed, && my youngest sister is blonde and green eyed, while my fifteen year old sister thinks she's "plain" and "boring". she has brown hair, brown eyes, and extremely fair skin. i think that's a gorgeous combination, but she constantly calls herself ugly. i really, really, really, really, REALLY do not want to sound conceited, because i'm the opposite of that...but all of us, except for my fifteen year old sister, get called beautiful and get compliments a lot. and i know when she's with us, and being compared to us, she feels absolutely hideous. people have called her ugly a handful of times before, right to her face. her "boyfriend" even said to her "you know..you really got genetically phucked over, big time. your sisters...hot. but you...you're disgusting. i can't believe i even asked you out. what was i thinking?" i feel so bad for her :( and i just don't know what to do about it anymore. i constantly tell her that she's beautiful, and compliment her. or if she says something she hates about herself, i convince her otherwise. but when i say that, she says "you're the most beautiful sister, and i'm the ugly sister. it's easy for you to say that because you don't have to be trapped in such a hideous body. leave me alone. i can't stand being around you." and then she usually is about to cry. does anybody know what to do about this? i really feel like i need to do something :( thanks.
What are 3 examples of something hidden in plain sight?
I don’t have three for you, but I do have one.My grandma misplaced her glasses one day and was looking all over for them.My aunt came in and asked what Grandma was doing. Grandma of course told her she was looking for her glasses, so now they were both looking.Eventually my mom came in and found the two of them looking all over the house.“What are you doing?” she asked my aunt.“We’re looking for Mom’s glasses.” my aunt replies.“You mean the ones on her face?” Mom asked, solving the situation.
What advice would you give to a woman who doesn't think that she is beautiful because she doesn't fit into beauty standards?
I don't really care if a woman thinks she's beautiful or not. What I care about is how much she thinks her beauty has anything to do with her worth.If a woman thinks she's plain looking but doesn't care because she's confident and comfortable in who she is, and knows she's a rad person, then what's wrong with that? Not everyone is going to be as beautiful and so what? That's not unhealthy.If a woman knows she is beautiful but thinks it is the only thing about her that gives her value, and the only reason she is worth anything at all, and without her beauty she is nothing, then she'll be riddled with insecurities, she'll be in a dangerous place, she'll be anxious about her beauty and that's not a good thing.So who cares whether she thinks she is not beautiful? Compared to who? You might think she's beautiful, but you don't need to convince her that she is beautiful, just that you think she's beautiful.But more importantly, she should know that she is rad. Beautiful or not, it doesn't matter. That has nothing to with her value.
Is it wrong that I resent my mom and dad for being ugly?
Uhmmm… do you realize that at least 50% of young girls in North America of ANY race or racial mix, also think they are hideous and ugly?Do you realize that a LOT Of people consider full African American women beautiful, just the way they are?I just took pictures of a woman I know who is part black, part North American First Nations.I thought she was fairly plain looking as she dresses in t-shirts and men’s overalls and does not wear a smidge of makeup.Well, I was taking pictures of her for her artist’s portfolio (she is a very talented carver and painter) and had to look really closely at her, and was looking at her in good lighting instead of under the harsh florescent lighting in our painting workshop where we normally see each other.As I looked at her more intently as I was photographing her, I was stunned by how attractive she was and how much personality and beauty was in her face.Tomorrow, I am going to our workshop again, and I am going to get permission from her to post one of her pictures so you can see it.I can guarantee you… if you were being photographed in nice lighting, like my friend, with a photographer who was willing to really look at you and your facial structure and find the light that brings out your best features, you would see some really beautiful photographs of yourself.Hopefully I can post those pictures for you tomorrow. I am fairly sure my friend will agree.
Do wives somehow forget that their men really enjoy seeing dresses, heels and babydoll nighties worn around?
I will wear what I want, when I want... And if it is cold... You aren't seeing crap!!! I wore a dress and heels out on Saturday night with my honey for a friend's birthday in the city... But don't ask me to wear next to nothing when I have been working, taking care or a baby, and exhausted... Get real!!! Flannel PJs in my drawers... As my mom once said... "If he wants to buy those slinky little nothing things, then he better be wearing them..." I don't see HIM wearing sexy little outfits around the home... He is in t-shirt and sweats, then so am I... It is called EQUAL RIGHTS!!! *** ADD: I'm with Indy Girl... If his butt wants me at the gym and eating right (like I am) then HE should also be using that expensive gym membership and eating the good food in the fridge (and remember there is something called PORTION CONTROL!!!)