People who don't talk a lot are not confident?
I'll tell you something John, you sound like just from your post ,like the kind of guy who is well adjusted, knows what he wants and is not going to compromise himself for anyone.. A lot of people in this day and time will sell themselves out just to ''fit in'', and act like everyone else.. Guess what , that's not the guy who makes it in this world.. And the guy who is the life of the party,,mostly those guys are just clowns..You sound like when you got something you want to say,, you say it.. Same way with girls.. If your interested ,you follow your instincts..Its not you don't have confidence,,your better than that.. Your not conceited or on an ego trip..Your what you should be.. And when the right time comes,, you make your move , and have your say.. Do yourself a favor, when someone tells you , or implies something about how you conduct yourself,, consider the source!! Not to say constructive criticism shouldn't be taken,, but from what I can gather, Man your not only cool,, your on the right track.. What I'd say,, Your your own man!!! And that's all good!! SOLOMON
What do high school girls like to talk about ?
Between ourselves, we talk about EVERYTHING. With guys, it definitely depends. If you've talked to her before, listen to what she expresses interest in. Popular things like movies and TV shows aren't especially meaningful, but they're good openers, and if you've both seen them there can be a lot to draw upon. You can also ask about classes, teachers, etc. Look for experiences that you have in common, and check if you've got the same sense of humor. If you don't talk to her very often, try to sit next to her in class so you can ask her things casually and build on that.
I miss school alot what should i do??
If I was your mother - I'd kick your butt all the way to the school. If going to school is a choice for you - and you know that it's important to go (you're asking what to do) - then go. It's a choice!!! It's not like somebody is tying you to a chair and forcing you to stay home. You ask "how can I get myself to want to go to school?": again - it's your choice. You say that you look forward to college A LOT (it's two words). If that's the case - then maybe you can use it as a motivator. Because, at this rate - with all the school you're missing - there's a chance that you won't make it to college.
Why don't some kids talk?
Since you mention that “he has had all sorts of testing”, I can just assume that he was seen by a speech language pathologist. What this that professional say?Although “developmentally delay” can mean that the language is also delayed, as for other spheres of the development. What is his development “age”? Does that match the language level? If so, there is no particular issue there.Other than that, some children will “not talk” for various non-developmental reasons:maybe they don’t see the NEED to talk because their basic needs are met: they don’t have to ask for anythingmaybe they have older siblings that are talking for them, so they have no need to talk or improve their current languagemaybe they have VERY stimulating environment, and adults who talk to them a LOT, to the point they don’t have much time to talkmaybe they just aren’t interested in talking because they are just “sufficient” with themselvesEither one of the above “reason” can still be combined with developmental issues. Only a speech language pathologist can do a complete evaluation and give you more accurate explanation of what is going on with your child, and why he might not be talking as he should IF his language is behind his developmental age.
I do not want kids....but?
Lots of people have felt exactly like you do at some point in their lives especially when they were young,some of those people are now parents and some are not and never will be because that feeling never changed. I think most people change their minds,you get a bit older and have lived a bit,you don't feel you would be missing out on anything by having a child because you have done a lot already and you feel ready and want to be a parent but even if you never change your mind that doesn't make it wrong,some people just don't want kids and that is fine. Right now you are 21,you are studying and enjoying having your freedom in life and not being too tied down or having to be responsible for another person so it's easy to see why you don't want to have a child,you might feel differently one day but it's certainly nothing to feel bad about,it's your life and there is no duty to produce a child,live it how you want to.
I dont know any boys !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????
Ok I'm 15 and I go to an all girls school ! I have never even had a boyfriend (so embarrassing) . I hang out with a group of girls and none of us really know or hang out with any boys and we are all really shy ! Everyone else in school has boyfriends and they know loads of guys ! Help me my life sucks ! How do I get to know any boys if I'm so shy and none of my friends know any boys either. My parents think its weird that I havent got a boyfriend yet . Maybe they think Im a lesbian or something . Can anyone give me any advice
I'm black, but I don't have a lot of black friends?
I have a bit of experience in this. When I was growing up I'd move all over the place. Literally every grade I was in I was at a different school. Up until I was 14 most of my friends were predominately black. Thats who I was comfortable with thats who I rolled with. Once I started high-school we moved for the final time. All of a sudden I was literally surrounded by white folks. I make it sound like the worst thing in the world eh? lol. Anyways, I remember at first I hated being there. After the first semester, I made some new friends and pretty soon everything was great again. Every now and than I'd go back to Toronto to see my old friends. I still get a long with them fine. I get along with everyone. I won't lie to you and say I haven't been accused of 'acting white'. To me that's the stupidest thing you could ever say. If I read a book and good grades in school and want a good job, apparently that's white. All it really boils down to is hating. Simple as that. I never looked at it as an issue, I don't think you should either. You're friends with your friends. It seems to me your worried about how you might be perceived by other black folks when you're with your friends and you shouldn't. If they're gonna treat you poorly because of who you hang out with than you probably don't wanna be friends with them to begin with. If you talk to them and they end up being pretty cool, all the better. If not than just don't force it.
Is it true, people who talk about suicide alot, dont actually do it?
The truth is, you can never presume anything when it comes to self harm, on any level. Someone in pain, physical or emotional is capable of taking their own life. It is that reality that you should consider when deciding how to respond. Regardless of whether they are actually planning an attempt, reaching out for help or needing someone to acknowledge they are in pain….. it makes no difference in that moment. Please, always do whatever you are able to let them know…..that you are listening, not just hearing what they are saying, that their life matters to you and others, that you will do what is within your power to find them the help they need. Trust me when I tell you, you never want to wake up and find out that someone who made an attempt to reach out for help has taken their life because you second guessed their motives.
Why don't some kids like going home?
Over the long term: Some kids don’t have a great home to go back to. Sometimes their parents argue a lot, maybe they drink or shout. Maybe they forget about their kid, or neglect their needs. Maybe there’s no one home. Maybe they’re physically or verbally abusive. Maybe they don’t like their parent’s new partner. Maybe it’s cold and damp and dark. Maybe they don’t feel safe there.Short term: There’s something better for them to be doing. Things to see, friends to meet, places to go. Especially for younger kids, there’s so much different stuff for them to see, why would you want to be at home doing the same things you do every day? Or maybe they’ve just stayed at their friends house, and realise they much prefer being treated as a guest where there’s no chores to be done and they can play games all day.Without more context on the particular situation you’re enquiring about, I can’t really be specific. There’s hundreds of reasons why a kid wouldn’t want to go home. Some bad, some not so bad. Try asking the child, they’ll know best after all.
What is the psychology of people who talk too much?
Irony is I was searching on the net, “why people don’t talk”. Some are so quiet and such a good listener that it prompt me to understand their psychology.I talk a lot. I am very extrovert. The reason I talk a lot are hereI have lots of ideas and I am not afraid to share, even if it is silly. Cos I think its okay to be silly.I am quiet a confident person and do not shy away from making a mistake.Many a time I make a mistake to make people around me more secure and confident.I have stories to tell and I feel I MUST tell them all.I want to know people.I generally judged my shallow people.I have seen that intelligent people behave and react is avery different way to shallow people. Many difficult people have then naturally opened to me. and thus I gte an access to some of the most secret mind.I like opening people, they have stories to tell.I get turn off by people who use silence to hide their insecurity, weakness but turn on by people who come out clean and express their desire to be more open.I have seen that people who use silence to safe guard themselves are a bit insecure/unsure but then its OK as long as they can trust someone like me to bring the best out of the both world. we can help and learn so much from each other.There are some naturally BOND people who have natural talent to be a very silent listener, active speaker and high emotional quotient/intelligence. Very very few such people. and I am sucker for them.In the end, I talk a lot and most of the time my mission is to open the other person, dissect them, know them well. Understand their deep psychology.But then there are other talkative people who might have some other motive or may be no motive at all. lets say, compulsive talker.