My husband wants me to quit smoking.?
I am 30 years old and have smoked on and off for 15 years. I am not a serious smoker and only smoke (now) maybe a max of 3 cigs. a day. I was smoking when my husband and i met and when we married. He is now insisting that i stop. His reasoning...it stinks and he hates it. My reasoning... i only smoke 3 a day (1 w/coffee n the am, one after lunch, and 1 after all the kids go to bed at night) and I enjoy these 3 cigs a day. Should I give in and let him tell me what do do with my own body or should I stop because he thinks its stinks?? FYI - Everytime I smoke there is a HUGE fight that follows!!!!
Why do boyfriends get angry talking about marriage?
I've been dating my guy for 2.5 years now, 1.5 of it has been long distance. He has an awesome stable job a few states away and I'm graduating soon, looking for jobs now, too. I'm mainly looking in his area so that we can end our long-distance when I graduate. But here's the catch: I want us to be at least engaged when I move in! I've brought it up a few times to him, but not really too intensely. But tonight I was getting frustrated because of some things in my life and told him that he shouldn't expect me to find a job near him if we weren't at least engaged, and that the last thing I wanted to do was keep on doing long-distance for years until he was finally comfortable getting married. Then he asked me if I was trying to break up with him. I just said, "I'm talking about marrying you and you think I'm breaking up with you??" Lol. Anyway, he got really upset and angry and said that he would much rather talk about it in person so I rescheduled our conversation to when he visits this weekend. Why do guys get so angry talking about getting engaged ~.~ I don't get it because it's supposed to be a happy and exciting thing but it seems he just gets mad at me about it...
Me and my husband argue every day, he is ungrateful & criticises me about so many things. I feel depressed!?
We have a small baby and he never offers to get up during the night to feed her, it is always me that does it. He works during the week and said he will do it on a weekend but not once since she has been born has he done this. He might work monday to friday but I'm a full time mum all week including saturday and sunday. I have to actually ask him to feed her before he will do it, and even when I do ask him if it's during the night he will pretend he is cloth-eared or whinge about it. I try to give him advice when he is changing her nappy because he hasn't read any books about how to do it, i.e wash front to back so not to get infected etc.. and he snaps at me and says DO YOU WANT TO DO IT THEN IF U KEEP TELLING ME WHAT TO DO! and he won't take advice, i am trying to tell him to help and for our daughters sake but he doesn't like being told what to do. He is ungrateful that my family want to buy her presents and just appears so unappreciative and won't help me think of things to tell them to buy her as they ask what they can get. However, if it was his family then he would go in a right strop if i wasnt interested and was ungrateful. He calls me miserable and says I have to make an effort to make friends as I have only been living where we are for 2 months, yet the people I want or try to make friends with he bitches about and doesn't like, so i can't win. He says my face looks like a smacked ****, when I can't go round all day grinning like a cheshire cat! He makes me feel so crap and that does make me unhappy and make me not want to smile or have a reason to smile. I just think he wants someone else and thats all i can think about, that he would prefer someone who always smiles, is happy and perfect and that he wouldn't dare talk to anyone else like he does to me. How can he love me when he calls me these things, and a moody cow, you don't talk to someone you love like that. I am so unhappy and need help before I get depressed, because I can see it going down that road and i don't want my daughter to come from a broken home :(