Do you love your husband/wife more than your kids?
i feel bad for some of you peoples spouses. they deserve better. The only reason some of you have kids is because someone was tough enough to put up with you and you pay them by putting them second. that is just sad. You would die alone and live your old age alone if it wasn't for your spouse. good thing im lucky enough to find someone that loves me more than anything else in the world and puts me first always. I just hope everyone that deserves it is also lucky enough to find someone that would always put them first and love them more than anything in the world. i put him first also.
Do some women love their husband more than their children?
Naturally, I haven’t conducted a study of this question, all I have is my own experience and what ten men have shared with me over the years. In my case, and seven out of the ten husbands’ cases, we definitely felt that the child or children came first in our wives’ affections. The other three fellows either felt loved more than the children, or more or less equally by their wives.Furthermore, I and three of the other husbands felt we came in second to our wives’ love for her family. This really became intolerable. Her mother and father, grandparents, aunts and uncles, etc., taken as a whole, came first, and we were second. Once the first baby was born we were relegated to third place. One husband put up with this arrangement, but for me and the two others it was the death knell of our marriage. My guess is that this situation is fairly common.
Do you love your husband/wife more, or your kids more?
That is so hard... You are right you do become one.. and honestly, I feel horrible admitting this, but if we were in a car accident and I lost my husband I would feel worse than if I lost my child.. Not because I don't love my children, I do, more than anything in the world lol, but because If I loose my husband, my children don't have their father we don't have our family.. if my husband we lived we could always have more children if we wanted.. not that I would replace my babies or anything, but just being able to reproduce with that same man would mean a lot.. I can't even explain it.. I know it sounds horrible though..
Are men really attracted to their wives after marriage?
It's strange this question popped up.Just YESTERDAY I was in the computer accessory store with my wife (together 13+ years now) just browsing. She walked off on her own looking for something. I was just loitering around when I saw this really nice looking girl rifling through some items. I was checking her out big time but I was mindful that I had no idea where exactly my wife was - didn't want to get caught, if you must know.So I looked down one aisle, no wife.I looked down another aisle, still no wife.Took a quick peek at the girl again, lovely; panicked, I looked down a third aisle. Still no wife.Then the girl turned around and said to me, "Baby, should I get this?"Yeah, that girl I was scoping out like a hornball teenager was my wife. I left the shop scratching my head. Couldn't make heads or tails of what just happened.I chalk one up for my mind going soft.
Why do most husbands love their mothers more than their wives & put their moms 1st?
Even nice men will still love their mothers(and even fathers) more than their wives. Why is that? Why do they put their parnets before their wives? even though they made a vow to their wives and NOT to their parents? Is it b/c a mother's a mother for life; you can ALWAYS get a new wife?
Should a mother put the kids first or her husband first?
This question is very tricky. But with that said I've always looked at it as my kids come first over any man whether it's a boyfriend who is not their father or their biological father. As a mother you probably will be put in that position and they'll be times where you Will need to look at both sides whoever is right is right and who ever is wrong is wrong. I recently went to a wedding where the bride's parents did not show up both mother and father of the bride are still married were invited but the father has a very big issue with the groom. The mother of the bride soon posted on social media that she stood behind her husband and therefore did not go to the wedding because of that reason. I personally take offense to a woman putting her husband who is not her flesh and blood over her child who is a being that knows the beat of her own heart. I love of life and the husband is conditional to what each party brings to the table where as the love of a child is unconditional or should be unconditional.
Should my husband love me more than he loves his niece?
I guess I should point out that he criticizes everything about me- clothes, what time I eat lunch, what books I read, what I wear, how I answer the phone, you name it. In the meantime, he constantly talks about how beautiful his niece is with her long blond hair, (he emphasizes the pretty blond hair all the time- I'm a brunette!) how great she is, smart, talented, athletic, sweet, etc. I mentioned that she seemed a little spoiled (gets anything and everything she wants,) and he went crazy telling me that she deserved to be spoiled because she was so perfect. I asked if he would love his own future children the same way, and he said he would love his children the same as his nieces and nephews, NOT more! Let's just say I won't have children with him any time soon if he wouldn't love his own kids more than someone else's! He now says that he wants a divorce because I don't love his niece as much as he does. I didn't say anything bad, she's nice enough, I'm just not as charmed as he is
Do you believe that a marriage bond should be stronger than the parent-child bond?
I think probably the majority of women would say "blood is thicker than water" and choose their parents or children over their spouse, however a marriage bond is not water. A marriage is about becoming one entity lasting until the death of one of the spouses. Granted, if a husband was to divorce his wife, then that is one thing but, if a woman was to leave her husband and take away his children that she bore to him or if she decided to play the harlot or go live back with her parents because she did not like her husband, this would be a great breach of a sacred contract. Once a woman is given away by her father to her husband, it should be a bond stronger than steel and blood. What do you all think?
MEN ONLY: do men love their kids more than their wives?
Men love their children but I do not think that the bond will ever be as tight as the experience of motherhood, sharing that life with your body, and of childbirth. Early in our marriage we struggled through a miscarriage, and I can tell you that while I was upset, my emotions were nothing compared to the devastation that my wife carried. After a month or so I was ready to try again and almost erase the memory by becoming pregnant again... It was almost six months before my wife wanted to have sex and found herself in a place to try again. We have three kids now and that was years ago... so from what I know, women feel love for children on a depth men will never know. It does not mean that we do not love our kids, take pride in being great dad's... but motherhood is different.