What is the saddest thing that has ever happened to you?
The day that I opened a book that my husband had been reading, and a letter fell out. I read the letter and discovered that he'd been having a full-blown affair with my best friend . They had both been looking me in the eyes, and lying and cheating every week for 2 years. That day I realised that life wasn't going to be the way I'd imagined it - and a hole opened up in my heart which is still there to this day.
What is the saddest thing that has happened?
Well the saddest thing that has ever happened to me is when my husband of twenty years left me in my weakest point of my life for another young lady he left me suffering from a disease with three disabled children and three teenagers and had the audacity to put my disabled daughter in a facility cause I can no longer care for her cause of too many surgeries in my stomach in a matter of a year he put the disabled kids in facilities and the fine three teens with his brother and took me to ny city to stay at my dad's house and seek medical care in nyc for the disease I'm suffering from after one week he disappeared and sent me a cheap message in viber messages saying he was so sorry but he had to do this and leave me cause he wants kids that are not disabled and he said please forgive me and that was it….that was the worst day of my life I felt like I was dying like the air in my body was being sucked out by force and I fainted thank God for my dad and my family were there to pick me up i stayed hugging any body I would find near me even wen I slept it was brief and I would awake panicking and my family new the drill they would immediately hug me hard and rub my back I suffered alot.I don't know how I made it thru but I did and I still have night mares of that moment and wen I do i cant go back to sleep even sometimes I don't sleep scared I might have a nightmare .
What is the saddest thing that has ever happened to you in church?
As an atheist the saddest thing to happen to me in church was the fact itself that I ended up in an Orthodox church against my will and as a part of MANDATORY excursion from a SECULAR school without any parental consent on an hours’ notice: “Hi, kids, today’s geography lesson is canceled, we are going on an excursion! Where exactly? Well, it’s a surprise!” So the surprise was an unpleasant one and when my mom learned about it later, she was really pissed off. For my part, I really hated the experience. The church was crowded and pretty suffocating anyways, and I had respiratory problems to begin with. But all this nice start was topped of by the fact that we were required to fully cover our hair when inside and I (and some other girls), being brought there on such short notice, had no better option of doing it that putting on our heavy furry Russian winter hats. I kept taking my hat off, but was repeatedly scolded to put it back on and felt like I was going to faint. We really envied the boys who were required to take their hats off. I still don’t know what the boys (among whom there were a number of Jews, Muslims and members of the Armenian church) thought of the matter. I believe though that most kids thought it was just another part of the official idiocy in Russian education in the 90-s, on a par with official denunciation of communism.
What is the saddest thing that has happened to you this year?
On the day of Dusserah, there was an argument with my dad and mom because of my younger brother.I supported him because of the fear that he will leave from home though he had done a mistake.As a surprise My dad asked me to get out from the house. At first I didn't care much about his words. he again asked me to get out or else he will decide further on my decisionSo I left my home on that day and waited till next morning.I didn't get any call from them..I called them but they didn't gave any response. So,, I went to home again. My dad got furious by seeing me and asked me to get out once again by saying "Siggu Leda Ra neeku bayataki po”.I looked for a Hostel and stayed there for 10 days,I got depressed completely. At the same time I quarreled with my best friend.Every day went very slow as I have no other person to talk.. and I have some ridiculous project partners in officeAfter 10 days I went to home once again.Due to the presence of my Grand mother, they asked me to come inside.But my parents are not talking to meAfter that I even got selected after attending an interview.They didn't even respond for that.But I know they are happy.Next day My mom was unable to breathe I was very tensed and we immediately admitted her in hospital.Doctor said "No need to worry She is fine". After that when we went to meet doctor. As only two persons are allowed inside,My father waited until my younger brother arrived who went out, I was standing behind my father He didn't want me to take inside to talk with doctor even in that situation also.I was shocked and almost cried but I am happy because My mother is safe…Next occasion is Deepavali, I brought some crackers and asked them to come up and celebrate. But they said that they are not interested..But after 15min when my brother asked them then they are ready to celebrate..I am happy at that point of time because they are celebrating..It's been 1 month and they are not even talking to me not even a single word..I don't have any person to talk neither in office nor home..The hardest thing in life is Not talking to someone you used to talk to everyday. whatever it isEither friends or familySorry for bad english
What is the saddest thing ever happened to your family?
I AM REALLY SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR FAMILIES AND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING YOUR STORY WITH ME.. THEREFORE I WON'T TAKE BEST ANSWER FOR THE QUESTION BECAUSE ALL ANSWERS ARE THE BEST. THANK YOU AGAIN
What is the saddest thing that happened to you as a child?
When I was 10 yeas old, I got kicked out of a camp. But not only that, I was told by the camp administrator, herself, that I was being kicked out for being bad. She told me that I was a “bad influence” on all the other little girls because I was “weird” and “full of mischief”. They told me that I didn’t belong there and that I was bad. That was the saddest moment in my life as a child.After I got kicked out of that camp, I believed that I was bad because they had instilled in me that I was bad. Therefore, I acted bad because I believed that I was bad. My grades suffered as a result of it, I had constant temper tantrums and would be disrespectful to my parents, and I would actually try to do things to be seen as even more rebellious because I actually thought I was bad. I almost lost everything.Moral of the story: NEVER tell a child that he/she is bad.
What is the saddest thing that had or could happen to you?
I am doing engineering now this happened few months back.First you need to know few things about me.I topped my 10 board exams with 95% marks.I was a introvert and was above average boy.So screwed my JEE mains thanks to my coaching class. But I had high hopes from my board exam and CET. My parents too had high hopes from me. My brother scored well marks so it was expected from me too to score good marks( indian parents mentality. When are they going to understand everyone has different brains?)Results came out, I was numb. I had screwed it too and for the first time I had suicidal thoughts. But that's where friends come in. I didn't talked to anyone for days. I was feeling guilty for letting my parents down. But my parents and friends supported me I told me it was OK to loose some time, do better next time.That was my lowest point in my life up till now. Well I got admission in an average college. But I got over myself and I am happy now.