I don`t really like Japanese girls.?
This is the typical been-in-Japan for about 6 months and have-the-whole-world figured-out type. You are either a woman or a man who feels alienated and homesick and you blame it on the Japanese for not being deep like you. Japanese women are not to be blamed for your friends' lack of popularity. I guess if you sit around moping and thinking everyone is a shallow, racist *****, then, surprise, surprise, you may not be the most popular person either. They may reciprocate the disliking, is what I'm saying. Nobody likes a whiner. And then you play the game, if I wasn't a foreigner, will people like me? Are you saying they DO like you now? Maybe you and your friends have no personality. OK. So if you weren't pretty, there'd be nothing to you. Other than whining about it, you could perhaps work on being more human. There are Japanese people, like Americans, who judge by looks. However, Japanese women, like any other, are much more about feelings, emotional connections, than looks. I studied this in sociology. Women always judge much more on "the inside" than the outer appearance, than men do. Oh, you can't speak Japanese? Then its your own fault. How can people get to know you if you don't even have the respect for them to speak in their own language? Let's say 2 teachers start at an English school: One is 24, and looks like Hugh Jackman. The other is 44, and looks like Steve Buscemi. The older guy is energetic and charming in his own quirky way. The younger guy is a bit thick and thinks every woman should spread his legs for him, because that's the rumor he heard in Australia. Some girls will spread their legs for him. However I guarantee that the older guy in my scenario will make more friends and be more popular with the ladies. The handsome dude may do well too, if he isn't wasting his time on the internet crying about his predicament.
Is it wrong to date a girl based on looks?
As much as id love to make rude remarks about your question; ill have to agree with it. If your just getting started in the dating world; i would just go to clubs, hook up with hot girls (or if your drunk any girl) because honestly, every guy in this earth needs to get through that phase before they can ever settle down with someone. Even if you get into a serious relationship, you will end up wanting to experiment before marrying or anything. So i would get that experience, have fun, not be tied down and after a few months when youve had your fair share of girls and partying, then you will feel ready like you can commit yourself 100% to that one special girl. I would still talk to the girl, because possibly there might be something between you two that you might be missing out on. Maybe shes everything your looking for in a girl; but you never know til you find out. But meanwhile still experiment around unless things are official; which i would make your objectives clear to her how you just want to have fun while your still young for a little bit if you end up liking her. But just go have fun;). Im 16 and have to say ive already gone through that phase. Kissaholic over 60 hot guys and i used to be a girl version of a player. Now im happily in a long relationship; Best of luck!
What was your best lesson of, 'Don't judge a book by its cover.'?
This incident happened just three weeks back.So one day, just as I was sitting in my class, a girl came up to the desk next to me to talk to my friends (who she happened to also know). She was extremely pretty, with long curly hair and a beautiful smile. Her accent exuded sophistication and class. After conversing for a few minutes, she went back to her place. I immediately developed a girl crush on her, and I also admit that I was slightly envious of how well she carried herself.This was during the lunch break. After the class resumed, she was asked, along with a few others, to come up on stage to debate a topic. Keep in mind the class had 350 students. She got up on stage, and was the last person to speak. And, just when the professor asked her to talk, she broke down. Her hands and legs started to shiver, as tears streamed down her face. I turned to my friend to ask what happened. She replied that she was extremely scared of speaking in public. She couldn’t carry a conversation with more than a few people. And every time she had to deliver a talk, she would break down.My professor calmed her down and slowly encouraged her to speak a few words.A few days later, when again, she was asked to speak, she got a panic attack. She sobbed uncontrollably, and her best friend had to take her home.The impact this episode has had on me, I can’t put in words. I have always known that people are complex, and can turn out to be very different from what you think of them. I have also met a few people that have reaffirmed this truth. However, this incident made me think about how we perceive ourselves, and how others perceive us. It made me want to deepen my awareness about myself, and how I could become better at least at masking my flaws from the world.An awful thing which I ought to mention here- while this happened, most of the people sitting near me loudly opinionated about what a pompous bitch she was. They couldn’t stop talking about how she was creating drama.I honestly cannot fathom why some humans have to be so hateful towards others. I don’t know if she is receiving medical attention to resolve her issues, I really hope she is. My heart goes out to her for putting up with all the hate.
Please answer best answer gets 10 points?
If i answer do i get the A in the class too? or just the ten points? Read the book or get the cliff notes. If its too late for that then take the F and learn your lesson
What is the correct thing to do when a female bends over in front of you and you can see down her shirt?
I had friend, a girl, who was not my girlfriend, she had a boyfriend. I was single at that time. We hanged out together a lot. There was some sexual tension between us, but since she was in relationship nothing really happened between us.One day we were driving in my car. She had a polo shirt with all top buttons unbottoned. It was hot. Every time I would look to my right, I could see her perky breast and her nipple, covered, but completely visible from my angle.I tried not to stare, but it was in my peripheral vision all the time.We stopped at a red light and I had an impulse to just go for it. I leaned to her, opened the shirt to release the full breast and took her nipple into my mouth. I expected a slap, a yelling, but she did not react. I must have kissed, sucked and licked her nipple for about a minute.Drivers in other cars probably saw everything.At green light (I don’t remember if she said anything or if I noticed it), I straightened up and we drove off. Neither of us said anything all the way to her home (some time later she said this was the sexiest part). Her breast remained uncovered. She only fixed her shirt when we turned into her street - her parents or neighbours could be outside.Nothing really changed between us. This didn’t ruin our friendship, and it never progressed further. The sexual tension and some teasing remained between us though.So to answer the question - don’t do this unless you feel very strongly it will be accepted. I’ve never done something like that with someone who was not my girlfriend except that one time.I have looked many times, tried not to stare, but was still caught several times. Reactions were varied - from stern looks to smiles or even a wink. So I guess some women do it intentionally, but you can’t really know until you see their reaction.
My parents want to set me up?
theres this guy that my parents, well, my mom, really wants me to go out with. his name is mark. but she knows that i do NOT like him, at all. okay, yea, hes Bible-smart and good with little kids, but that doesnt mean i have to like him. right now, i like this other guy, his name is dan, and hes the total opposite of mark. hes daring, and cute, and he has a great personality. we get along great. whenever i make a comment about him to my mom, she goes says something along the lines of "go out with mark." once, we were sitting in the car and shes like "you know, your sister says that mark is an excellent young man. hes a real Christian, unlike that dan of yours." i got really offended, becuz dan is Christian, but he doesnt spend his time all over his Bible and stuff. hes not like the pope or something. and mark reminds me of someone my dad would hang out with, like old people and stuff. idk what to do about this. cuz my parents are really set on us going out, and he seems to like me, but i dont like him.
Do you judge doctors by their physical appearance?
Physical appearance is a broad term.If the definition of physical appearance encompasses facial features, skin color, physique, and the likes, then no, I would definitely not judge a doctor (or anyone else for that matter) on the basis of their physical appearance.However, if personal hygiene and the general conduct are woven into the definition, then I think I would change my answer. These traits have an effect on the first impression and by extension, an effect on the doctor-patient relationship.Having worked in the clinical field for a couple of years now, I subject myself to the general rules too. And if I were to meet my primary care physician for the first time, I would expect him/her to extend the same courtesy.It would be off-putting to meet a doctor, say in the hospital setting like the emergency room or the intensive care unit, with a wrinkled lab coat/scrubs, unkempt hair, large visible tattoos, piercings on unusual body parts, bad odor, grown out nails and so on. This would make the doctor seem out of place. It would hinder the establishment of a healthy relationship.Body language is another important part of physical appearance.A doctor who frequently appears too busy and has a tendency to scurry through the appointments, who barely attends to patient concerns and rarely provides a satisfactory answer, would come across as uninterested. Someone whose conduct is too ‘business’ like.Whether it is a hospital setting or clinic based setting, if the doctor fails to make or maintain eye contact or if the conversations with them feel rushed, patients would not be able to trust them with providing optimum care.None of this has anything to do with what the doctor chooses to wear, casuals or formals, stilettos or sandals, makeup or no makeup. It is not about judging the book by its cover. It is about the establishment of a favorable first impression. It is about providing comfort, kindness, warmth, and respect.After all, when the patient first walks in through the door, how the doctors present themselves is all they have to go by.
Whats the avg. carat size engagement ring? Whats yours?
1.25-1.50
I need to get rid of a hickey on my neck before my girlfriend sees it.?
Not a Joke. Please don't judge... I never cheated. A girl I danced with at a pool hall/club last night did this to my neck when I danced the last dance with her last night. I only danced. No Kissing, No sleeping together. SHE did this to me. I only danced with her. Nothing more.