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What should you do to help someone that's been shot?

First and foremost, make sure you are safe. If he took a bullet, there's a shooter somewhere close. If you can't safely help him, stay away. You are worse than useless if you become another victim. Assuming you're safe, call 911 before doing anything else. Get them on the line and put your phone on speaker. They can talk you through it, and they'll get cops and medics headed your way.He should lie down. It'll be easier on him. Determine if there's an exit wound and make sure you treat it too.A gunshot is at least a hole with blood running out of it. You want to stop the bleeding. Direct pressure is how you do that. If you can get a cloth of some kind, or a maxi-pad, on it, so much the better. Don't be afraid to push on soft tissue. You can't hurt it worse than it's hurt.If it's to the torso, you might have more to worry about. Thick plastic over the hole makes a good occlusive dressing. Aluminum foil is good too unless there are, say, intestines hanging out. Foil can cut those.If it's a "sucking chest wound," when it pulls air in when he inhales, you want to prevent sucking but allow blowing. Press on the occlusive dressing when he inhales, loosen one side as he exhales.If it's over bone, including the skull, you've got messed up bone too. Press only as hard as you have to.Keep him quiet. Give him nothing to eat or drink. Stay calm. Pay attention to him. When the medics arrive, do what they say and answer their questions.After it's over, give yourself permission to freak out. Play some Tetris. (I mean it. Tetris. It helps.)If, anytime after 24 hours passes, you have symptoms of PTSD, make an appointment with someone who specializes in such things. Police, EMS, firefighters, and ERs could help you find someone trained in Critical Incident Stress Management.

How can you help someone stop cutting?

Sadly, I can answer this as I used to do the exact same.The best way to help someone to stop cutting is to show them that you actually care about them. Don't pry into their life (nor the reason why they do it), instead just sit there with them and talk about other things. When they trust you enough, they will open up themself. Don’t get all high and mighty the next time you see new scars on them, and definitely don't say that they “shouldn't do it” for whatever X reason. We know that. It just pisses us off and gives us another reason to cut.Love, care, and patience are critical here. Love to show them that there are people out there who care about their well-being and them, care to show them that the love isn’t fake, and patience to show them that you are willing to wait until they feel able to open up to you. This may take a while, but it will ultimately help them to stop altogether.Once you get to that point where they open up willing to you, don’t condemn them. Be supportive, and sympathise with them. Having a judgmental attitude or retiring your care for them will make them shut up and want to cut again. Most cases of cutting come with depression. It is very hard for depressed people to open up about their feelings, as we believe that either people don’t care, or they’ll hate us for feeling a certain way. That’s why people cut—it’s a self-relieving method for all those pent up emotions.I cannot stress how important it is that you don’t judge them. They are a human being with emotions that they don’t know how to cope with anymore. If you can make them feel important, you will have taken a huge leap in helping them.I will mention as well that you shouldn’t say anything about them getting help, like going to see a doctor or a psychiatrist. This will make them feel like they are an abnormal human being unworthy of love from others. Once you can see a great improvement in their cutting, and it has been a couple (I would say wait at least 6) months since the last time that they did, then you may suggest it, but still be very careful about your wording. Perhaps tell them that you care deeply for them and you wish that they could feel better completely.

How do I help someone who hates herself?

If you can find out what is the main root of their self-hatred. It is usually one thing which that someone would change about themselves if they were given the chance by the creator, It’s something they feel causes their downfalls, whatever goes wrong in their lives it’s because of it. Mostly, they’d not talk about it because they feel people will never understand and they may use it to hurt them.This is as much as you can do.Have them realize their strength or good qualities, whether its physical appearance, personality, intelligence etc.Help them concentrate on positive thoughts and positive things such as smiling, laughing, interacting with a lot of positive people and doing what makes them happy.Make them understand that whatever they hate about themselves, someone somewhere lives happily with it. This may help them get some inspiration into loving themselves.If you can demonstrate or inform them about other people who suffer or find themselves in different misfortunes life threw them in yet still manage a smile and live happy life. They may be inspired at the way a rose strives to grow from concrete. They may understand how fortunate they are.Everyone has their own fortunes and misfortunes. Kids in orphanages, the homeless, the abused, the disabled, the disturbed, the rich, the poor. No one asked for anything, it was given, just like that, we have to live with it.Let them understand that whatever thing they hate about themselves they can not change because if they were able to they would have. They should rather look at the bright side, I may be blind but I have remarkable ways of observing and understanding the world in ways none else can. Its our defects, our faults that makes us perfect as a human. The sooner you realize there is nothing wrong with you and start loving your defects, you will be surprise at the disadvantage the defect brought you.Stop looking for excuses to hate yourself because you believe there is something wrong with you, find reasons to love yourself more because you have a lot of things special about you.Because such kind of people have a tendency of being perfectionists, make them understand imperfection is human nature and it’s a wonderful thing, it provide room for change, improvement and advancement, the essence of life is to live, experience, learn and advance.Recommend books which may help them to alter their thoughts of themselves and of life and world, Quora makes good recommendations.

Which is correct, “someone helps me” or “someone help me”?

It depends on the context. If used as an answer to a question such as “How do you keep your house clean?” then “Someone helps me” is correct.If you are asking for help then “Someone [please] help me” is correct.If the latter is the case I strongly recommend that you add please so as not to appear rude.