Why does talking to people drain me?
People need other people. It's human nature, so just make sure to not give up completely on your social life. I know it's tiring, I'm a hardcore introvert as well, but I find that being social is easier in short spurts. Just going to the local park with some friends or hanging out with your friend across the street can help. Just, don't ware yourself out. My best friend lives a lot further away from me than she used to, but I make it an aim to see her at least twice a month. I have a few friends who live closer to me who I hang out with on a regular basis as well. Spending short amounts of time with people on a regular basis should keep you sustained. Even if it's just an hour. Just, make sure not to give up on people, even if it's tiring :)
Why do I drain people's energy?
Ok let me add I am not the complaining type Im also not the super hyper talkative type If i feel necessary I talk but i dont like to just talk for the sake of people paying attention to me. Im not depressed either Im actually happy and i have a killer smile so i use it to my advantage lol. but people have told me that is not like I bore them or something they just literally feel their energy drop after a couple of minutes with me even if i myself am hyper.
Why do people drain me so much?
Every time I'm around too many people for too long, I get extremely frustrated and I feel like crying. Maybe it's because I'm an only child? But, In social situations, I have the capability to willingly be friendly, but not for long. I could remain friendly, but it will be forced, and I detach myself from everyone while my attention is elsewhere (internal). I don't know who to talk to about this. Kinda ridiculous I'm expressing my frustrations over the internet, but I really am beginning to feel hopeless and I truly don't know who to turn to. I used to be worse during my high school years, but have matured and grown to be more naturally social. My natural self seems to always come back and haunt me, however, and I have no idea how to deal with it. I never did know. I suppose I just somehow remained positive and kept my head high. What is your advice for me? I wouldn't like to talk to some pill pusher who thinks shoving drugs down my throat is the only help for me.
I don't like people?
How come I really don't like people?? I have no patience for people walking driving in stores on the phone I would rather be by myself then entertain company, Anyone have this going on? thanks
Do You Get Drained By Negative People?
My husband is the most negative person I know. If one of the children do well on a test, a report card, or complete their chores without being reminded he ignores them, but the very second that one forgets to empty the garbage, comes home late, etc. then he is all over them. He focuses all of his attention on what goes wrong instead on what goes right. He works and conives to avoid what might go wrong instead of working to make something go right. He wears me out. I mean, I am so tired after talking to him that I just want to go to bed and forget his existence.
What does this quote mean.>>>>>>> people drain me .....?
"Drain" means to take things away from. People take away my strength or energy and the best place to be in (state=state in a country or a condition. There is a pun on the two meanings) is where there is nobody else.
Why do I drain the energy of people around me?
If you are under 30 years old and speak to an over 30 year old, “YOU” cannot spiritually dtain another persons “Energy” , lets call Energy (enjoyment of life electricity).If “You” are over 40 and you decide to speak to a person under 30 years old, then “You” are in an incorrect environment “IF” you are not engaging in a commercial transaction, having sex, or in an employer / employee relationship. No exemptions here.In an incorrect enviroment as described above, then “you” are (yes) draining the under 30 year olds “energy”. (Enjoyment of life). Male male or male female, or female female it doesnt matter.If the other person is over 30 and so are you, “oh well” then both of you are drainaing each other so give yourself, and each other a 4 hours break each day, 7 days a week.Remove your presence at least 500 yards away during those 4 hours.
Why do I feel drained of energy around people?
Well, I am the same way and I am not an introvert. I am a clinical social worker and this is quite common in my profession--I describe it as being "sucked dry". It has been described to me by a senior colleague as being like a sponge. You soak up other people's negative energies and emotions and carry them for them. People in the helping professions are more likely to describe this feeling because of their nature. I would wonder if you are the type of person that everyone goes to for advice or for comfort/support? If so, IMO this makes you suseptable to this. You might want to do some research on energy work. I will tell you however, that I haven't yet found a way to prevent this from happening to me. When I feel it happening, I get out of the situation as soon as I can. I too don't like being in large groups of people for this reason. Hope this helps.