I want to prove my sister wrong?????
So is that why you would want to have a boyfriend, to please your sister? Of course not. You are an intelligent young lady, so don't you realize that your sister says and does those things for no other purpose but to annoy you? You have probably already proven her wrong time and time again, but SHE will NEVER admit to it, because that would satisfy YOU, and NOT HER! Your attempts to prove her wrong about you fail because you give her the power to make you fail. So you have a 3.97 GPA, and are striving for a 4.0 (is that even possible?). THAT my dear is YOUR truth. I think it's a fact that you can be proud of. Your sister says that you will not be accepted into Stanford, you suck @ everything, and you need a boyfriend. All of that are lies, and you know it. You are wasting your time and energy trying to get approval from your sister. She is either unwilling, or incapable to give you what you want from her, so stop expecting it. Please the one person you can, YOURSELF.
What the hell is wrong with my sister?
It sounds like she may be depressed. Does she have activities that she participates in and friends that she regularly hangs out with? If not, then this may be a lot of it. For some reason, she doesn't have a sense of responsibility. Your picking up her slack could be part of this. That age is super tough for girls, so it could also just be a stage she's going through.
Would it be wrong to have sex with my Sister-in-Law, if my wife says it's ok?
If your wife is ok with it, than GO FOR IT!! If this is your first threesome, enjoy it! Just make sure you show just as much attention to your wife and you do her sister. If you are going unprotected then make sure you go in your wife and not her sister. You wouldn't want to end up being Uncle Daddy. Have fun with it and Enjoy. If it's a one time encounter Video tape it for future pleasure. If it's a multiple time encounter, your in for a fun marriage!
Is it wrong that I don't like my sister's personality?
Welcome to sisterhood.As long as you are not at each other’s throat, yelling murder and calling each other not so nice names, you are doing just fine.If you think she’s different, try harder to understand her. If she does not offer her own opinion, ask her what she thinks about it. Just because she smiles and nods at everything doesn’t really mean that she agrees. Some people are just like that.I’m one of them. My husband, sometimes, hates me for that. He’s been a rebellious teen all his life. He’s straight forward and prefers to speak the truth right at the face. Me, on the other hand, as a product of helicopter parents, is as sleek as a cat.It’s true, I’m rarely my true self. I’m always agreeable, like a mirror that’s always smiling back at you, I don’t have a image of my own.It takes a very special person for me to open up. Someone who constantly stood up for me, who taught me that it doesn’t matter that people doesn’t like you. You need that kind of support if you want to open up and be your genuine self. For some people, people like me, who lived a good part of their life making themselves likeable and agreeable to everyone, it’s tough. I was afraid that people will stop liking me.You’ll have to be more supportive of her and less judgmental to her if you want her to open up to you.
Is it wrong for me to date my sister's ex-husband under these circumstances?
My sister treated her husband like crap. He was a good man. My sister is one of those people who feels that the world owes her something. My sister never really had a real job, her husband worked and took care of her and the kids; gave her everything she wanted. She was abusive to him verbally. She disrespected him in public. She cheated on him. She eventually gave him crabs & he divorced her. I would always pray for a man just like her husband. It takes a strong man to stay with a woman like my sister. I always felt like we chose the wrong men for our personalities. My ex was domineering and controlling. He probably would have been the type that could keep her in line. I feel that my sister's ex really just needed a woman that had his back, because he works hard. He has a great job, plus he has a small business that he is part owner of. We have been spending time together. At first it was just him picking the kids up from my house while my sister was out with her man of the week. Then we would sit and talk. Sometimes I would fix him and the kids dinner instead of him getting the kids and having to go home and cook or buying them fast food on the way home. Last weekend he came over with tickets for all of us to go see Shrek. In the theather our hands touched and we held hands throughout the entire movie. It was the most romantic thing. I wanted more.
Is there something wrong with my sister? What do I do to help?
It sounds like your sister might be suffering from depression and crying out for attention. That's just my guess. I'm not a doctor I'm just giving an opinion. But some of these actions that you're describing about you're sister are telling that. Maybe she needs to speak with someone. I don't know. I hope she's okay physically, but mentally she does sound like she needs to see someone and get help. Hope everything works out for her.