Why is it so easy to love someone who could care less about you?
Typical "running bunny". We often value something we can't get/achieve more than something we can easily obtain. Due to emotions of rejection, attraction and hope we form a glorified picture of said person. Hope makes us believe to be true. In reality you should focus on facts. And facts can be often quite opposite of imaginary visage of such person. That's why your heart say "yes". If he treated you badly, he would continue doing so. Unless you're a masochist, that's not an good option. I advise to focus your attention in to future and not dwell in past where you will not gain anything. He will not love you anyway and couldn't value feeling you have for him. It's a waste of time. Your time especially. That's why your mind say "no". Try to find someone who will treat you as good as you would treat him. Then when your mind and heart are in harmony you will understand happiness. Only if both mind and heart say "yes".
How do you tell your heart to stop loving someone?
pull it out, put it on a table, and threaten it with a gun... no... not rlly.. that would be thick, all you can really do is use your mind to overpower your heart... heart says "i love them" head says "there is no point, love them instead," after a while, the heart will learn from the head, and give up,
How can you love someone without trusting them?
You can’t. You truly, truly cannot.Trust is the basis of love. If you can’t trust that that person will be there for you, that he has your best interests at heart or that he will be faithful to you and honest to you always, that person has demonstrated that he cares more about himself than he does you or his relationship with you.You can’t feel safe with that person. You can’t feel free to be fully yourself to that person. You will feel betrayed and become self-protective. Always guarded. Your relationship will become a game - a manipulation game of strategizing and maneuvering. You will never “win” this game.Never.You will always be wondering what he is up to. You wonder what shoe will drop next and when. You will pull away and distance yourself. You stop caring. At least you tell yourself that you don’t care. But deep down, you do. And it hurts. It won’t stop hurting.This isn’t love. This isn’t a place you want to be. If you do not fully and completely trust your partner, do not continue in a relationship with them. It’s a difficult decision to make, but the earlier you do it the better. You do not love them. And, despite what they say, they do not love you either. You want to love them. You want to love who they could potentially be, but not who they actually are. If you get married, you will be married to the here-and-now version of this person (or, more likely, a much-much worse version) not the potential ideal of that person.If you don’t trust them now, it is very unlikely you ever will. And without trust, there is no love.Listen to your inner voice. That is something you can trust.Best of luck to you.