What Kind Of Services Does Women Helping Women Do

Do you think men should stop helping women?

Should women stop helping men?Both your and my question feels weird. It completely sounds one sided.We are social animals. We depend on each other for most of our stuff. We can't do anything without taking the help of the others. There is always someone connected with anything what we do.Now coming back to your question.I think that no one should stop helping anyone. In this world of social medias and internet people have stop caring about the others because they are busy with their own virtual world.The mutual feeling and caring is the thing that we really need in today's world.Because you'll never know what will be the gender of the person that is going to help when you will be in such a bad situation and when you will need help.Hope that answers your question.Aryan.

Why does everyone talk about empowering women and helping and hand-holding young girls but nothing about helping and empowering men and young boys? Men and boys need empowerment too.

Empowerment is all too often a completely meaningless buzz-word. However when you talk about the existence of real programs dedicated to providing assistance and help specifically to women, where no such programs exist to help men, there are two reasons:Because women are legitimately disenfranchised. A sad reality in many places.Because of the erroneous belief that women are disenfranchised,Don’t believe me. No doubt your government creates lists of gender indicators for your country. Read them. Or before you doubt what I’m saying read ours.Yes, click the link and read it. At least read the overview. You’re a Quoran, right? An intellectual, you love knowledge. So go gain some knowledge. Don’t just assume you already know. Here is the link again. Educate yourself.I challenge anyone to show me how women in my country are a disenfranchised minority in need of special aid and assistance. That is the position of the credulous, condescending and ignorant.

What kind of woman is OK with helping a man destroy his family whether he's married or not?

Someone who has no self esteem or self woth. Someone who only sees what they think they overwhelmingly need more than anything else in the world and hopefully it will make them whole. Phew. That was heavy, but unfortunately true in many cases. I can only speak from my experiences, (I have also been one, to my everlasting shame). The women are often carried along by stories they desperately want to believe, to justify what they are doing. Eg. “ my wife doesn't understand me” etc etc… .. they are nearly always delusional, eg. “they're only staying together because of the kids, I mean, he even sleeps in a separate room from her”, etc.etc. the list is endless, the price, overwhelming. I know it is a wrong thing to do, but pity those women because even if they get the man, they will always be miserable.

Does supporting women make people SJWs?

No. I am a minority female who fights for equality and social issues but I’m against SJWs. It’s very different. Fighting for equality, social issues in our societies and supporting whatever you want is one thing. Being a SJW is another.In my opinion, a SJW is someone who is blindly passionate about fighting for equality for their own selfish uninformed reasons. It’s done to boost their ego and moral superiority and not because they truly care about the suffering groups. Sometimes what these SJWs push is completely against what oppressed groups want. SJWs don’t listen. They assume. SJWs only let minorities who fit into their narrative speak. SJWs accuse other minorities with different opinions (like any human being would have) from theirs of having internalized misogyny, racism, etc. SJWs, ironically, are very regressive instead of being progressive. They are not open to new ideas. They are only open to their own limited ideas formed in their echo chambers. SJWs also often do not look into statistics and data. They don’t research. They parrot back “facts” from other SJWs.They are a thorn to progression and true equality which is why I am against them. You can support equality for women but it’s not true equality if your judgement is based on false narratives and facts. Let’s say someone told you that Kid A had more than Kid B and you didn’t try to verify it through any other source to see if that’s the case. You didn’t try to figure out what other reasons could make Kid A had more than Kid B other than discrimination. Based on that faulty assumption you took a certain amount from Kid A and gave it to Kid B. In your bubble you have contributed to equality but in truth Kid A might have earned it. Kid A probably never did have more than Kid B. In truth, you didn’t contribute anything to achieve equality. In the process of that you discriminated Kid A and favored Kid B.So, research before advocating. Otherwise, yes. You would be a SJW. You would be hurting women and true equality other than helping. Equality is not simple. Figuring out if there’s discrimination cannot be done lightly. You can’t just look at uneven numbers attached to gender on a paper and start yelling discrimination. Figuring out a way to achieve equality without hurting either gender is even more difficult. It’s not just some facebook post and a tweet that goes, “I support women”. It’s deeper than that.

Is voluntarily helping women to lift heavy objects a form of gender bias?

Yes, it is. I am a small woman, barely 5 feet tall and very "femme" (i.e., I pretty much always wear skirts, dresses, or tunics, I have long hair, colorful and frilly clothes and accessories, etc.). I'm also quite good at lifting and carrying heavy things.* In middle school I earned the nickname "Ant-Woman." This isn't necessarily because I'm super-strong, but more because I know how to lift (from the legs!) and I have confidence in my strength. I don't like to make multiple trips or waste time finding a dolly, so I'll often carry heavy loads and boxes around the office. It really, *really* bugs a lot of men to see me doing this. They'll often try to jump to my aid, and have even caused messes when they try to take boxes out of my arms rather than ask if I need help. It's really, really annoying, especially when I see them not even think to help a man in the same situation, even if he is not much taller (and is more lightly built) than I. When your first instinct to seeing a woman carrying or lifting a heavy object is "oh goodness, I have to help her!" it's most likely because you have a conscious or unconscious impression that women are weaker than men, should not be doing physical labor because they are too "gentle," and/or that she is not able to make a good judgment regarding what she is capable of doing (unless you'd do the same thing with a 6-foot tall, well-built man). Never help someone physically without asking, unless you have reason to think they're in physical danger. Not only because it's likely sexist (if it's a woman), ageist (if it's an elder), or ableist (if someone with a disability), but because often, you're just as likely to make things harder for them as you are to genuinely help.*This is thanks to my brother—he has physical disabilities and uses a  wheelchair, so I've been lifting him up from the ground and into his  wheelchair frequently since I was 12 or so.