Wife hits kids, what should I do?
I am white, and my wife is Asian (Korean) and was raised in a strict Christian home who was frequently verbally and physically abused by her parents for the most infinitesimal infractions (getting Bs on report cards, coming home late, et cetera). It passed on to her -- as she gets angry very easily and not afraid to show it. So our 7 year old daughter came home with her report card today, and my wife started pulling on her hair and spat on her in the face for getting two Bs in English and Geography. When she started to cry, my wife slapped her, saying that she was useless, and how much she regretted not getting a son and whatnot. I started yelling at my wife, saying that she was a bright kid and still young, and she did the same for me: slapped me on the face and kicked me - and now I have a bruise. I'm getting very tired of this nonsense; before, I'd tell her to go ahead and hit me if it made her feel better, but now, she's going way too far. My daughter doesn't need to take this kind of abuse. What should I do? I remember taking my daughter out of the home for rest of that day to get her ice cream and try to help her heal the emotional wounds caused on her by my wife, and she was telling me, "I hate Mommy. I wish she would die." I am living with a literal monster in the house, and now, she's brooding my daughter to become one as well. What should I do?
My wife is a bad mother. What should I do?
Hmmmm....maybe she is at a loss too. I mean, if her son is acting up really badly she may feel it is her fault. She may have depression or low self esteem. It is unfortunate that this is happening. You should talk to her about her drinking and the smoking. It is endangering your daughters and your son. If she won't talk to you, seek help from a counselor (there are free counseling services-if you are not opposed to going to a church, they are free, generally speaking). You should get her family to talk to her too. And get the boy some help, maybe even a school counselor. You have many options. I know it would be hard, but you could call his school very early in the morning (they are usually in the office by 7:30am at the high school my sister attends) and talk to a counselor, or at least leave a message. Being a parent is hard, and it is nice to see that you are making efforts to help your step son. Any man can make a baby, but you are stepping up and being a father to him even if you aren't biological. Kudos to you. Good luck, I am very sorry that this is happening. :(
What should I gift my wife?
Most women prefer clothing, accessories, jewelry, footwear, cosmetics, personal care products or appliances as gifts solely because they are useful. There are others who are collectors of such stuff, they may not use them much but treasure them for the count or value.. Just to show off, at least.There are other women who do not prefer any of these. They are the adventurous kind. The like doing things. Such women prefer experiences. Taking them to fine dining restaurants, hiring a theater for just the two of you for her favorite movie, band, dance recital, 3D, 4D experiences, a spa visit or the extreme ones like bungee jumping, sky diving etc. The list is endless.There are others who prefer surprises. You can arrange for flowers to be delivered to her, you can organize a birthday surprise with all of her favorite people, you can make a video with her friends and loved ones and share the link (After posting it on youtube, with privacy settings properly done - if she doesn't prefer PDA).And if you are a little tight on the money, you can wake up early prepare her breakfast, kiss her on the forehead, offer her coffee, give her a day off from house chores, come home early from office, book a table at a nice place for dinner, take her for a long walk or drive (whichever she prefers), come home happily, tell her how much she means to you, cuddle her in your arms and drift off.In order to nail it correctly my friend, you need to identify which type your wife falls under. Hope she likes your gift, all the best :)
My wife is hungry what should I do ?
give her a snack or just try to do something that can make her take her mind off of things. btw did you know that sometimes when the belly is rumbling it means it is digesting something?.........
What should I do? My wife does not like sex.
Well, that’s no fun.I don’t know the specifics of your situation, but I can throw a few thoughts your way.First of all, have you tried talking to her about it? Have you asked her why she's not interested anymore? If you haven’t at least done this, then why are you asking strangers on the internet?It could be depression, stress due to everyday responsibilities, or, excuse my bluntness, just plain boredom.Some women have a hard time climaxing, and if your wife falls into this category, then perhaps she’s tired of going through the motions and constantly being left unsatisfied. If so, then she’s partly to blame for not speaking up and letting you know what she needs.While having sex, do you try to make sure that she’s also enjoying herself? You need to have a conversation with her. And try to satisfy her first before you get yours.Again, with no details, my answer is all speculation.Here's the truth about why women 'go off' sex in long-term relationships
My wife attacked me, what should I do?
My wife attacked me late last night over an arguement about money. The verbal abuse about how much of a loser I am went too far, she didn't like the way I verbally responded so she came at me. I tossed her aside and she continued to attack. So I slapped her a bit (I regret every second of it). She grabbed my testicles and tried to twist them off so that is the reason I slapped her. My god, why did this happen, I love my wife but she lets the money thing ruin our relationship. There is obviously other reasons that lead to this and we are both to blame. She threatened to call the police on me even after she started the assault so I punched myself til I bled from the eye abd said " if you calll the police I will say you hit me with a pan. (I would never have said that because I have children that need one of us around and the cops would have taken both of us at that point. My life is in extreme turmoil and I am desperate to rectify it. The arguing kept going on so I punched a huge hole in our wall and wish I didn't. What should I do? She would never go to councelling and I think she has hated me for quite some time now. I don't hate her I actually love her but I don't know what to do.
What should me and my wife be for Halloween?
My wife and I need to go to a fundraiser adult costume party where people wear some pretty cool costumes. The problem is that we live in Belize where we do not have access to costume stores or places like Wal-mart. We can get some fabric but don't have much time to sew or make anything too elaborate (we may be able to find a local seamstress). I am black and my wife is white with long brown hair, we are both thin and tall. Any ideas for a great couple's costume. Thanks!
Should I leave my parents for my wife?
Leave wife for parents..you will get wife but not parents. Now she is entitled for divorce if not ready to adjust and take care of your parents.Such worthless girls do not want similar treatment for her parents..and for herself also when she use to have daughter in lawAdvice her to behave properly or seek Divorce.We remove our own body part if not working or creating problem .she is only a wife ..go for one you find hundreds .Try to adjust and reconcil..if she do not behave properly..change her.. defactive body parts needs repair or replacement.Sorry ladies…you also wants services from your daughter in law .. and not ready to give services.