What should I do if my boyfriend keeps accusing me of cheating on him (which I would never do to him)?
He is in fear of it. Complete total irrational terror. Some would say that is an indication of a “guilty conscience”. However, I have known that fear and exhibited that behavior myself. I have never cheated on someone though. His own fear could lead him to be cheating himself.First of all don’t take it as an issue with you. Second of all don’t placate his fear by giving up your personal power. He will gladly trade all kinds of your freedoms for his security. Find a way to make it clear his fears and behavior is not ok. Force him to deal with it. Be patient with him.I am pretty “blunt” about it these days. I respond with statements like: “I wouldn't dare take advantage of another person like that!!! If I wanted to f*ck someone I would either leave you or bring them home to share.” or “Well if you think that you might as well just leave now” or “What!?! Are you cheating? Is that why you are accusing me of that? Maybe we need to change the parameters of our relationship!”Also, I make it a point when I start dating someone that jealousy is intolerable to me.
What Should I Do With Him?
OK my ex-boyfriend likes me and he is countinually flirting with me. But he has a girlfriend! And His Girlfriend has become a freind over the past few months ( like since november. My ex and i broke up in october). Not being able to help my self i flirt back even when her cousin is around. I don't want my ex to break up with my friend for me cuz that would be harsh. But I really wanna go back with him because we had a very serious relationship and we both wanna countitue it but I dont want the reason of him breakin up with her to be me because that could hurt our friend ship! Im really counfused please help me.
I'm in love with a guy but he doesn't love me. What should I do?
One side love quite normal among both genders but bad thing is that it is really very frustrating when the opposite sex doesn't loves you back.In my opinion first try to be good friend of him instead of jumping in the love. If he loves someone else then it would be very difficult for you. DOs/Don't -Don't ask him again and again -Don't show him your feelings frequently because he won't understand your worth if you are easy for him. -Most important, talk to new people and engage yourself in activities. It will help you to overcome your obsession for him and you will realise your selfworth.-If you understand and know your worth then you can figure out who deserves you. -If he never fall for you then don't be upset because it means he can never understand you and your feelings so better be with someone who can feel your feelings. All the Best!