Boyfriend doesn't want me to be a cop..what should i do?
well every time i talk to my boyfriend about me becoming a cop in the NYPD he always disagree with me. Sometimes i feel that he thinks i can't make it. We both goes to the same college, since he wants to be a detective and i'm hoping to be a forensic scientist... i always wanted to know what it feels like to be a cop, and i'll do anything to get that... Well there is this police training program that everyone is registering for that will start in a few months.. it's a lot of physical training, and whoever passes it, are allow to go off to police academy... My boyfriend already signed up for it, and now he doesn't want me to go.. i really don't know if it's because i'm a girl.. or is it just because of the vast amount of guys in it.. I just feel like to go against his opinion and do whatever i want.. i just don't know if that will be too disrespectful for the relationship.. sometimes i just don't give a f**k.. but i really feel a lot for this guy.. ANy advice on what i should do.. thanks in advance