What can you do when you find out your friend is fake?
Whaddyoumean? Like, s/he’s made of cardboard paper?I might be wrong, but here’s my bet: you’re quite young.It depends. Are you sure?Ditch her/him. S/He’s not even worth it to be asked about on Quora.But…. now. Are you really sure? Don’t go around calling a friend “fake” and ditching them without first checking the situation and, if possible, their POV.Also, be higher then the unworthy person. Anger or any other emotions (much specially strong ones) means that you’re vulnerable and hurt, therefore, unprepared to deal with life, therefore of lower value.Cold slight-disappointment [detachment] is the way to treat people who aren’t worth it. This is being prepared to deal with life.People/things that bring you up and do you good: BRING CLOSER, CONNECT, PUT ENERGY INTO IT!Toxic things/people: repel, detach, freeze, kill with coldness and distance.If that person is toxic, then emotionally detach yourself from them pronto. Time and energy aren’t unlimited, you know!!! Respect yourself by respecting these on yourself. And toxic people are much WORSE then just time/energy wasters.
How can you tell if your friend is fake?
I have been through something like that. My 2 friends had decide to take the bus with me to my home. I did not know the bus routine or even where to stop. My frids took a car ride from another girl, and told there was no more room. but the car was a really big car with enough room to fit 2 more people. THe point is that what u experienced is a backstabbing. I have gone through many of them. Try to find out more things about your "friends" by people who are your acuantainces. If you really trust another friend, then u can get help from that person too. I would sujggest getting help from an acquaintance since they don’t know u very much, and would just help where they can, and move on rather than get nvilved in the situation. The last thing u need is someone else getting involved because in the end, u will be the one who will get backstabbed Once u know enough about your friends, U CAN DECIDE WHETHER U WANT TO BE THEIR FRIEND OR NOT.
What should I do if I know all my friends are fake?
Are you sad or feeling bad, this is just the starting. There are many dorks who will be coming in your life on different circumstances and again and again due to reality you will feel low.Listen, actually it happens only because of us i.e. we feel everybody around us is good, they are really caring and we waste all out time on them just to make them comfortable , to share cheesy stuffs with them (some really personal stuffs) but we dont judge them with suspicion that they may turn out to be wrong.But what you said, you are really lucky that you have truth that your friends are fake. Usually our family members keep on explaining and warning is that we should not trust so easily and keep our guards on. But we dont understand that and just ignore it.But congratulations you got it and now you know the reality, now keep your guards on and don't show them you know it. Stay calm and just behave the same and from now onwards stay alert.
Should I forgive my fake friends? What should I do?
Forgive. But never forget. Move forward. And ignore.I always thought forgiving and forgetting at the same time will heal all the wounds they’re giving us. But the pain? It’s still there. We always thought that it’ll never happen again, because that’s what we believed in. That people, our friends, will never do such things. But guess what? They just did. The sad truth of having friends like this is that they’re being contagious at times. They tend to tell other people about us, badmouthing, terribly lying, and just making us their laughingstocks.Forgive they say, always forgive. Because they’re just humans like us, doing ridiculous things that can hurt other people. Why can’t they just reveal their true self? We tend to ask things like these because we can’t just think how can they do that to other people. But at the end of the day, forgiving people like them will lessen the burden. It’s quite tough, but it will be worth it.At this point, I know you’re having an issues. Trust issues just to be exact. We often ask ourselves questions like, “Should I tell them?”, “What if they will just do it again?” and so on and so forth. It’s hard to trust them again, so as to what I’ll tell you, don’t forget. Be wise. Don’t be too comfortable again, telling them your secrets or whatsoever. Keep it that way, because that’s what you gonna do to avoid trouble in the long run. Always, be careful and mindful on what you’re sharing.Then move forward. Go with the flow of life and do not overthink. I know it gives us so much anxiety having people like this, but always move on. You’ll never know what will happen next if you’ll stay there forever thinking what had happened in the past that made them like that. No. You’re not the problem, honey. It’s not your fault. If it happens that you miss them? Go on and have some friends again, because if it’s not you who will take the step, then who else will?IGNORE. Ignore what they’re saying. Ignore what they’re doing. Ignore all that feelings. You can do that. Life doesn’t ends there. If you’ll stop there, you lose.P.S.: Thanks to pieces of advice, Krisha Beral. I learned a lot! Lots of love. ♥
So my fake friend slept with my man. How should i handle this professionally without getting violent? Homewreckers?
Forgiveness
My fake friend threatened to kill me?
My fake friend threatened to kill me because I "betrayed him". He actually put a gun (not sure fake or real) to scare to kill me and said he will cut me in pieces and throw me in river. He said that my girlfriend cheated on me and i asked her about it, and all of a sudden I "betrayed" him. Is this normal or even legal? Is this normal? Also blackmails people. here is his picture, so that you know how to spot similar people. http://cl.ly/image/3u1E2o0n3j27
HELP!! I made up a fake friend?
Wow. My advice is to not dig yourself into a deeper hole with this lie. It doesn't sound like anyone is making inquiries into this friend, so delete the instagram account and pretend none of it ever happened. Just try not to make any similar mistakes in the future. Don't take any action where the chief emotion is jealousy.
I found out my friend is only pretending to be my friend, what do I do?
Menu A) Say nothing, just disappear out of her life and find new activities to do / places to go and people who actually are capable of being true friends. Menu B) Confront her, yell and scream, tell her how hurt you are, and then disappear. If someone can be that phony, I sincerely doubt she’ll be affected in any way by your rant, so I’d choose menu A and not waste any more of your precious life.