I did something I really regret but I can't confess?
My parents wouldn't let me go to this party unless they could talk to the parents. So I got my friend to use her phone to text my mom and pretend like it was the parent. Well the girl whose phone was used- her mom found the texts and called my mom. Now they are trying to figure out what happened. My mom asked and I made up a lie that maybe her phone had been hacked. I know my mom is trying to believe the best in me but my lies are unraveling by the minute and I don't know what to do. My mom is downstairs trying to figure out what happened and I am upstairs shaking because I know its over and I'm going to be caught. I can't come clean now because I've already lied so much. This is the worst thing I've ever done and I know it will break my parents' trust in me for a really long time. I don't know what to do or how to stop feeling so guilty. Please say something to help but don't tell me to confess.. I know I'm not strong enough for that.
I did something I really regret on webcam...?
I've never done anything like this before, but I showed my boobs to a couple of guys in a chat room. Now, I'm really paranoid that someone recorded it and it will somehow get back to my friends and family. I'm that type of girl, I don't know why I even did it and I can't stop thinking about it... All the guys were telling me how pretty I was and I've never really been told that, so I did what they asked. I hate myself so much right now. I swear I'm not a whore or anything- I've never had sex, I've never even had a boyfriend! What are the chances this got out? Since I'm not 18 can I get in any type of trouble if it gets out? How can I forgive myself and forget about this? I just really need some advice right now...
I keep doing things I know I'll regret later. How do I stop?
It's called self control. You can't just go around doing and saying whatever you like whenever you like you're going to end up regretting a good portion of it. Take the time to think about things you do or say before you act of it. Everything you do and say is going to have an effect on your life, before you do or say something way out the pro's and con's of said action and see if it'll be a positive thing in your life. If it's going to have a negative effect then don't do/say that thing. With time you'll get better at it and you'll be able to make those decisions in split seconds. If you're really depressed tell an adult and get some professional help.
I feel regret and guilt over something I did in the past. I feel I am not that good person. What should I do? How do I gain that trust and belief in myself again?
Hi,I don’t know what exactly happened so i cant comment over how to compensate, but i can sense that you have realization that you have done something wrong and this is the first step that you are already doing something to improve the situation. there are lot of people who do mistakes infact sins without having any realization for their acts so trust me you are at better place.. Guilt is the worst feeling and i can say that because i have spent 5 nights without sleeping when i was feeling guilt for my deed.Think about it ,what can make the compensation. work on it. Do something which can make someone feel better. Good deeds always works!See you cannot do anything about the past. the all you can do is try to rectify your actions. you feel sorry, accept it. make confession to someone what have you done you will feel light and something will come out which can help you to overcome from this.You are a nice person this is why you are thinking this much. Don’t feel disappointed and worthless. trust yourself you are better person and you can do things which can make you better person.Everything is in your hand. you jut have to try. when you will make someone smile you will start feeling okay. Feed to the needy people,try to talk to people who are suffering with problems,spend time with your family the way they reciprocate really sooth the soul, Read a good book to divert yourself are some of the thing which can make a person feel better in these situations.. Best of Luck!
If you love something should you set it free? Did you set it free? Did it come back?
why would you live with regrets? Love is freedom...you stay with the person and make it work out of your own free will. He is not with you today, and that his choice...there's nothing that you could do or could not do to make him stay. The bottom line is if you love someone you'll find a way to make it work. Trust don't regret anything, you did the right thing. If he doesn't come back then its not meant to be...its that simple.