My father hits my one year old brother, what can I do?
Go to a trusted neighbor's house and call the police. Use their phone and tell them it is an emergency and that you only what to talk to the police. Be prepared to give the police as much information as possible. Be prepared tell them how often your father does this and if there are others in the family who have seen him do it. Also, if possible, give them the phone number or name of the baby's doctor who may want to examine the baby. Unfortunately, this is not an isolated case. You will not be the first to report this horrible abuse. You should ask the police to not disclose the fact that you called. It is hard to judge how your father will react and I believe the police will support you. Be sure to return home immediately after making the call so that your father will think you have been at home all the time.If you report this, your dad will hopefully get help since there is something wrong with him when he does this. You and other family members may also get some counseling if you ask for it. Everyone in your family is a victim in these cases.You will feel so much better after you make that call.
What should I do when my brother hits me?
My Indian brother is the same. He was verbally and physically abusive and has slapped, punched , kicked me; called me a 'bitch' and much much worse. I've cut him off from my life and my heart. I no longer speak to him or acknowledge that he is alive and do not consider him my sibling. Your parents are cowardly. The typical Indian parents who favor the son and indirectly shift the responsibility for his violent behavior on to your head. Mine were the same. It's NOT your fault. Your brother has mental issues and he is venting on you, using you as a punching bag. Your parents are NOT protecting you as they should. By blaming you and not rebuking your brother, they are reinforcing your brother's violent behavior. My advice is IGNORE and STAY AWAY from him. DO NOT let him hurt you physically. STOP talking to your brother. PRETEND that he does not exist. Keep your interactions with him minimal. If he tries to start an argument with you DO NOT engage him, ignore him, go to your room and lock the door. Study hard, get a job and move out.
What should I do if my father and brother hit me sometimes?
It’s illegal!Domestic violence is currently defined in India by the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act 2005. According to Section 3 of the Act, “any act, omission or commission or conduct of the respondent shall constitute domestic violence in case it.But, it’s India, we don’t report such cases due to social & family pressure.I can remember someone messaged me, seeking advice for similar problem but of different form.I will try to put same prospective here.You cannot got to police but you can certainly talk to your mother and explain her your feelings. It’s very effective, just like you share all sorts of issues like periods, personal feelings and all. Talk to her. Tell her how disgusting it is. It’s not just hitting but your emotions, self respect and self esteem is going down. Convince her politely. Ask her to talk to your father & brother. Take your time and watch. But most importantly Be Strong.Still, if situation persists, call this hot-line number 1091. Experts will do the necessary counseling. This is last resort.As a man, I really feel ashamed. I am really sorry.PS: I was about to leave Quora today. No reason, it’s just ‘me’ thing. But this question made me to re-think. Thank you.
My brother hit my mom?
Ok, our house needed cleaning BADLY!!!! So, when we woke up my mom made me and my brother start cleaning up. We where cleaning for about an hour and my mom came in. Then my mom told my mom to put something in her room (I dont know what) but he went in the bedroom with an attitude and my mom started yelling something like "DONT TRY ME!!!!!!!" Then I heard her hitting him (I got REALLY SCARED!). Then I heard him say in pain "Aaaaaaaah S***". Then he said "Im tired of you hitting me B****". So I ran out the door (in basketball shorts and no shirt and) and went to my neighbors house. I was BANGING on the door but no one answered. I looked down the street and I saw him running (I thought he was running away). I went back to my house and my mom opened the door and she had blood on her and she said "THIS B**** JUST HIT ME IN MY MOUTH". (I'm gonna make this shorter). He went to my friends house, we found him there, we called the police, and now hes going to live with my dad and he and my mom have to go to court. Plz help Im only 13 and my brothers 17!!!!!!
What should I do if my father beats my mother?
I feel very bad when I remember of this type of moment happened with my mom which my dad suppose to do same thing.I was tolerating this from past 3 years then my limit of patience have crossed then I've taken action against this. Said to day “Back off otherwise I'll do anything” he gave me bad words and pushed me again I said “Back off now it's enough” again he did same thing and I got uncontrolled and start hitting him and pushed him away he felt down and start screaming loudly then he was started making noises to attract neighbors of my besides. No one came in middle of our argument cause everybody know my father that how was he treating us. Then after hitting him I took my mother to local police station to give a compliant of this so we will be secure of giving first compliant.Then after giving compliant when I back to home he was not in the house went out even I grabbed his mobile phone cause he will call unnecessary people in middle of this fight. After this my dad never hits my mother. Then he felt guilt that my son hit me cause I made a mistake and did over.This was my experience which I shared with you. Dude it feels really bad when we see our mother is tolerating this. When we are still alive to safe them. Get up and raise your voice and take action. Don't get afraid of relatives and other people's they are just to have fun and watch action and nothing else. Please give me update if this works.
My brother hit my stepdad.?
My little brother, I'm 19, he's 15, punched my step father and gave him a black eye. This is basically how it went, my brother is kind of large for his age [not overweight, tall and muscular] so he is quiet a tough kid. My step dad came into his room before school and told him to get ready for school, my brother told him 'I'm going to do my hair and go a lil late'. My brother has been taking most days off school this term, so my stepdad got pissed off and yelled, so my brother pushed him out and slammed the door, and proceeded to sit down. My stepdad then opened the door, told him to get up and asked him if he wanted to fight, and grabbed my brother. My brother gave him a punch to the face, and my sister and mum tried to break it up [I wasn't home at the time or I would of torn them apart]. Then my stepfather said 'Punch me again', so he did, the first punch broke his nose, and the 2nd gave him a black eye, according to my mum, my sister, and my little brother. My stepfather yelled at my brother the next day and said he is an unappreciative brat and should be ashamed, my brother told him to **** off and that he isn't our dad so he has no right to touch him [I was at home] but I didn't say anything. He later went to work, and called my mum while he was at work and said 'I am going to push charges against your son for punching me?'. What do I do in this situation, as I am currently taking care of this family, not financially, but am the little guardian over everybody, since my dad is no longer around? What do I do in this situation, I dislike my stepdad also. Can he push charges against my brother? [My mum won't call the police onto him, she has a stressful enough life as it is.] Any opinions will help, and the quicker the better.
My dad hit my mom so my brother hit him...?
My dad was hitting my mom so my older brother who is 17 hit my dad. Do you think its wrong? I don't but then I do, he probably would've hurt my mom badly if my brother didn't do that, but then I feel bad because he is my dad but he should've NEVER laid a hand on my mom. Help me and please tell me what you think :/
My dad beats up my little brother?
My dad always hits my little brother, it used to be just like a smack but now hes 11 he punches him and shoves him around. My brother is a bit bratty and hes always bad in school but i actually think theres something wrong with him because i'll ask him why he does it when he knows what our dad will do, and he says he forgets and he cant help it and i really do believe that he cant help it or he'd stop. My dads just really cruel to him sometimes and he plays mind games with him, after he hits him and my brother will be crying, he starts hugging him and says he does it for his own good and all this other crap to make my brother talk to him again. And my step mm knows as well and never does anything because she doesnt care as long as its not her kid. Just today my brother scratched his name on someones car and my dad grabbed his hair and started shaking him and punched him a few times and she did nothing. And then was like 'why dont we all go out for some food' like nothing happened and they did as well but i just stayed home. I do think my dad feels guilty so i dont know why he doesnt leave my brother alone then. What should i do? i want to tell someone because im sick of seeing my brother crying but i dont want my dad to get in trouble because he is a good dad most of the time but he just gets mad easily