My girlfriend hits me in my sleep..
That is a really tough one. I was in a very similar situation. I ended up eating fast food 5 times a day and gained about 50 lbs to get even, and kept belching and being gross till she finally left. That's how you gotta do it man. Trust me it works. Then as soon as she is leaving you tell her you joined the gym. It will really piss her off. That's what i did.
What should i do when my girlfriend hits me?
I have never laid hand on my girlfriend intentionally. i did sometimes give my girlfriend bruises accidentally although. yesterday, i got in a big fight with my gf of 4 years. She started hitting me and scratched me. now, i have several pretty sharp and deep scars on my arm. I bled a bit as well. I also have bruises. I didn't hit her back cuz it didnt seem right. I just let her hit me. What am I supposed to do? hit her back?
My girlfriend hits me?
As some others have said, don't hit her, at all. This sounds like the start of a really abusive relationship. Your best bet is to RUN LIKE HELL! Get away from this female right away. If she does something like this now, what will she be like in the future? Are you willing to bet your life on that one?
Should I dump my girlfriend because she hits me?
domestic violence is never acceptable I don’t care if it’s a man who hits his girlfriend or a girl who hits her boyfriend. It’s unacceptable period.I was in a similar unhealthy relationship. It was a ticking time bomb and I didn’t even see it coming. Every relationship has it’s ups and downs but once domestic violence enters the picture you should dump them before they ever have a chance of doing it again because 9 times out of 10 it will happen again. And next time it might get even worse. Once someone hits you, there will always be a risk of more domestic violence to come. I have rarely seen or heard of this happening only once in relationships. Once it happens, it’s time to get out, it’s better not to risk it. No matter how much you loved this person or how much they claim to care about you no one would ever do that to a person they claim to love.No one who loves you or cares about either in a relationship or as a friend would ever do that to you. They would never hit you, they would never cheat on you or lie to you, use you or manipulate you. Do not let yourself be treated that way your own health and sanity is more important.This is someone who is emotionally and psychologically disturbed so much so that they cannot control their emotions or handle their problems in a civilized manner. To have healthy discussions and process their emotions or handle difficult situations in a healthy way. You may have fallen in love with this girl but she is not good enough to be in a healthy relationship with you. No matter what is going on in her life no matter what the fight was originally about she ruined any chance of having a healthy relationship you shouldn’t even remain friends with this girl because she may still lash out at you again.
If my girlfriend hit me, should i break up with her?
our relationship has been very healthy and stable for the past seven months (when we started), but yesterday we just had a little quarrel and out of nowhere she smacked me in my face and then left. i feel horrible now. should i break up with her?
Why does my girlfriend hit me?
Today, I was sleeping and I missed a call from her. So she came to my house and when I opened the door she punched me in the eye. She always slaps me and punches me when something doesn't go her way and once she squeezed my balls so hard I passed out for a few hours. I'm getting to the point where I'm about to uppercut her in the chin what should I do?
Why does my girlfriend hit me?
Why does my girlfriend hit me?What precisely are you expecting here? Are you expecting to find out the actual and specific reasons why she hits you, or are you looking for a list of possible reasons why one person hits another? I ask, because the only way to know why YOUR girlfriend hits YOU, is to ask your girlfriend and get an honest answer. All you can expect here on Quora are guesses and lists of potential reasons.She might hit you because....you hit hershe is abusiveshe was raised to believe that hitting shows affection, like being the only girl raised in a large family of male childrenyou might ignore her to the point where the only way she can get your attention is to hit youyou told her it is OK to hit youyou verbally abuse her, and this is her responseshe is mute and cannot speak, and this is one of her more limited forms of expression... shall I go on?We don't know anything about you, and we don't know anything about your girlfriend. We don't know anything about your relationship. We don't know anything about what happened prior to her hitting you, or how frequently she hits you, or how she physically hits you (light open hand versus heavy closed fist, etc).All we know is that you asked this simple question, provided NO details whatsoever, and you seem to expect people to give you pertinent answers without having information to work with.If I had to guess... I'd say that your girlfriend hits you out of the frustration born of you constantly expecting her and others to be able to read your mind. I don't think that is the real reason, but that's based on the available evidence at the time I am answering this question.
My girlfriend hit me for the first time, should I stay?
I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 yrs, we had planned our future together with respect to marriage & children. We love each other incredibly and she use to treat me well. 4 days ago ,she hit me once, a slap in the jaw when we were arguing in the car.It hurt for 2 days. I still love her but i am confused if she loved me then why did she lose control and hit me ? She said she is so sorry and it will never happen again but I hear once physical violence starts it never stops what should I do.
My girlfriend hit me. Should I forgive her?
No, you shouldn’t !Please, do not believe those people who say you should, those people who say it must be your fault.We live in a world that has progressed enough to not blame a woman for being harmed by her partner, but it is still too conservative to apply it to situations where men are the victims (assuming you’re a man !).I regret I have lost Martyn V. Halm’s answers about domestic violence, for they were very interesting and could’ve helped you. What I remember is that each time he had been with a woman who hit him, he told her (not verbatim) : “next time you do this, I leave”, and he did. He also said that women were more prone to use objects as weapon, to offset the strenght gap between a man and a woman.Oh, wait ! I found something for you. What is it like for a man to be physically abused by a woman ?Whatever gender you are, please, please, do not forgive her… Leave her, or prepare to live next time she hits you. Focus on keeping yourself safe. Whatever gender you are, abuse is abuse. Especially if you’re a man and you don’t find enough answers that concern you, just look up the advices given to women abused by male partners.I’m sorry I can’t help more. I’m not qualified to talk about domestic abuse, and I wouldn’t let myself make approximations on such a serious subject.Good luck. Stay safe. And remeber that there isn’t a single situation that legitimates one is harmed by another.(P.S.: please avoid punching her back, though)