My ex girlfriend's best friend likes me... HELP?
If your ex girlfriend is a good friend to her she wouldn't mind you two going out. You and your ex are over and she's dating or doing whatever with that new guy. If she gets upset that's not your problem or her friends because she supposedly "moved on" when she didn't and that's no ones fault but her own. If you two like each other don't let your ex come between that. As I said if she's a good person she won't get jealous or try to come in between it. If her friend losses that friendship you and her know for a fact that she was never a true friend after all.
My friend likes my ex-crush?
I've been liking this guy for 3 years. In 5th grade he seemed pretty interested in me, In face my best friend Amy even told him I liked him. When we were alone he asked me if it was true, an I couldn't reply since the teacher interrupted us. In 6th grade we got different classes, and turned out he got a girlfriend. I was really heartbroken because everyone was always talking about it, and everyone knew that I still liked him but I guess they forgot. His sister is actually one of my close friends, and he said that i was "okay" he said I'm not ugly. Anyway, After his girlfriend dumped him he immediately got back together with his ex. She literally told me to stay away from him, behind his back. I didn't say anything in response. In 7th grade we got the same class. Our last names start with the same letter so we had to sit everywhere together since most of our classes the seating list was ABC order. We talked alot, and turned out he started liking me. Soon, we started talking on FaceBook. He asked for my number, and so I gave it to him. At first he tried to hook me up with his desperate friend. Then he ended up finally asking me out. Turns out he had a different girlfriend at the time, and he was asking me out. Not wanting to sabotage a relationship, Or start problems with her.. I told him to break up with her first, and get back to me. I prayed and asked the lord if it was a good idea to go out with him. If not, Send down rain. And it starting pouring. I declined his offer, and then told him to break up with her first again. Soon, He switched classes,and we totally lost contact. He started dating my ex-bestfriend. Then she dumped him. Now my friend likes him, and she's known him longer than I have. She asked him if he liked me, and he said no but then he told her to tell me a little bit. And she asked him why. He replied with, "So she won't feel bad" That was pretty heartbreaking. When we see each other in the halls with our classes he used to look at me, but he doesn't really pay attention to me anymore. When his sister found out my friend liked him, She told me not to try to compete with her because he doesn't like her, He likes me more. My friend is a really nice girl, and I don't want her to get hurt because of him. He's a real jerk, and now he's going to find out and break her heart. What should I do? If he asks her out, She'll say yes. I might have a bit of feelings left for him, but I don't want her to be a rebound girl.
Should i go out wit my best friend's ex?
Give it some time, then go with your heart. sounds like the both of you need to get over your exes first before starting a relationship. also, your best friend might be bitter with you for going out with her. it doesn't sound like she was in love or it was a long term relationship, so she'd probably get over it soon. if not, she's not truly your friend.
Is it wrong to date your ex's best friend?
The flat out, less complicated answer is hell yeah it is.Well, under certain circumstances. ( I’m gonna get so much crap for this)I once dated this guy who was 21 when I was 18. I thought he was pretty cool, coming from someone who had JUST graduated high school. We were coworkers for a few months, and then one day, he confessed his feelings to me. We dated on and off for almost half a year, and let me tell you, it was awful. He had a lot of emotional problems. He didn’t know how to love me. Some days I was his girlfriend, some days I wasn’t. He brought up having an open relationship and polygamy a lot, which I refused since that wasn’t my cup of tea. He held me on a string and used me for emotional support and sex and company; the list can go on and on. I started to feel like I wasn’t worthy of love at all, as if my only purpose was to be a puppet and a mother to someone who didn’t even try to fix his problems before entering a relationship. To this day, I feel ashamed for allowing myself to accept anything less than the love I deserved.And this is where I finally answer your question.In the place where I worked, I had another coworker who was best friends with my ex. I absolutely loved hanging out with him. We would go on hikes, play video games together, spend hours talking about how much we hated our current relationships and helped each other out with that. It was completely innocent, he and I thought nothing of it… at least until we were both single. He was a caring guy, I could tell he loved me in a platonic way. But he gave me everything I needed; support, love, friendship, a shoulder to cry on, and so much more. Eventually, I told him how I felt and it turned out he felt the same for me. But we could not be together until he talked to my ex. He was uncomfortable with the thought of dating his best friend’s ex girlfriend without talking it through first. I waited about a week until they talked. My ex had told him that he saw it coming, because he was caring for me, because he was capable of loving me. A year later, he and I are still together and I’ve never been happier.Under certain circumstances, it is ok. If you have the opportunity to be happy, do it. But be careful, don’t be devious. Do it because you cannot see yourself with anyone else. There are plenty people in the world.
My best friend's ex-boyfriend likes me... what do I do?!?
Dating friends' exes is treacherous water. It's kind of circumstantial. If he broke up with her (and especially if this was recently) don't act on anything, unless she's over him, and perhaps is with somebody else now. If she broke up with him, and she's your best friend, don't you think that's kind of a red flag that he's not as great of a guy as he seems to be? If you know the guy well, and are mutually interested in each other, my best advise would be to let your best friend know that he's interested in you, and ask her what she thinks of that. If she seems like it's no big deal, let her know you're kind of interested in him as well, if she doesn't outright ask you if you are. Just be honest. If it's something that's gonna put you on thin ice with your best friend, you've got to wager your friendship against a relationship with a guy... Good luck, hope it works out! =D
Ex best friend trying to steal my life?
My ex friend was one of the reasons that me and my exboyfriend broke up. She was like grow up to me when I confronted her about it. I was in one of my classes and everyone was like tell her to back off and leave your exboyfriend alone. I tried saying it nicely but she doesn't understand that all he wanted from her was friendship. She had thought that he liked her. I mean that is a little absurded because she was always mean to him. She called him a doofus and just never really liked the guy. Then when I had told her that I liked him she was all like now I like him too. I mean he was mine until she came along and ruined it. He wants to be friends but I still have massive feelings for him that jsut won't go away. I mean we are going to be hanging out at the football togehter and I don't know what to do? What should I do about my exboyfriend and my exfriend?
I have a crush on a guy and we're best friends and he likes me back! But he's my best friends ex boyfriend and she still likes him. Should I tell her?
So, you and your best friend like each other, but he's also your other best friend’s ex-boyfriend? That in itself seems like a disaster waiting to happen — not even in terms of romance, but I'm sure it creates a weird triangle, especially for your female friend, who has to be okay with you being friends with her ex.Okay. Anyway.If you tell the female best friend about your feelings and how you want to act on it, she might be very hurt. Still, you could just go for it and begin dating him — but prepare for potentially losing your best friend. How is she supposed to watch her ex, whom she still likes, fall in love with her best friend? That's an awful feeling I hope I never have the displeasure of experiencing.Another option is to just ignore your feelings for the time being. Maybe she stops having feelings for him; or maybe you and the ex find out that you aren't really compatible, and it wouldn't have worked out anyways.It's a messy situation. But if you can't ignore your feelings, you need to talk to her. You need to ask her if it's okay, because if you love her, you will respect her decision. It sucks, but that's what you can do if you want to keep your friendship.
I fell in love with my best friend's ex and we are in love with each other. I am feeling uncomfortable to face him. How do I handle this situation?
Hey there,You have landed yourself in quite a difficult situation; Ihave a teeny weeny crush on my ex-girlfriend’s (currently, one of my very bestfriends) closest friend. But you haven’t mentioned the terms on which your bestfriend broke up, the reason, if he still likes her and all the small thingsthat matter.I believe that the best way to proceed would have been toatleast tell your friend before making the first move, or tell him if she madethe first move. But now that you guys are in love, I would suggest that youtell him that you “like” her, and would want to be together. Your reaction should be based on how he reacts, if he isviolent- then talk to your girlfriend and decide what is better for you, if heshows like he is okay when you know he isn’t- spend a day with him doing whatyou guys do. It’s never okay for me to lose a friend over a girl, because ofthe Bro Code.�\w�"
Is it okay for my girlfriend to have a male best friend?
It all depends with your girlfriend. What kind of a person is she? If she has many guy friends and doesn't fear telling you about them, especially the ones who hit on her, then it may be OK.But if she has few guy friends, and doesn't tell you about them, that is a red light. If she has many guy friends it means she knows how to handle herself around guys. She knows boundaries. If she has few guy friends, it means she doesn't really know that much about guys, and one of them may just sweep her off her feet.My best friend is a girl who has a bf she loves. Normally we talk about almost everything. But when it comes to her rship, she changes the subject. We can only talk lightly on it. She doesn't even tell me about her rship problems. She sorts them out with her bf. She also refuses to flirt with me, lol. If I initiate it, she laughs and either leaves me on read or changes the subject. She her boundaries.She has many many guy friends. She's overly friendly and knows how to handle herself around them. Even those who hit on her, she knows how to refuse, and they still remain friends.So, yes she can have a male best friend. But you need to be confident that she knows her boundaries and won't end up falling for him. And the amount of communication she makes with you and attention she gives you should be twice as much as what she gives him.Good luck.
My best friend's ex loves me and I kinda have feelings for him too, what should I do?
Its totally depend upon your relationship with your best friendYou need to get insight of their life abt how their breakup happened?Is she feeling the bad abt those things? things are disturbing her related to his ex?everything is important because sometimes the more you deep go more you explore and more good decision you can make!!!at the last I would say that if they seperated happily then it will be nt an issue ,but if not ,you will see the pain in your best frnd eyes!!ball is in your court now!!