My dad threatened to hit my mom?
My dad has been very stressed with work lately and is taking it out on us. My mom is also depressed because of the loss of her mother and she also has a very painful issue with her back. She will need surgery and she gets angry and stressed by a lot of things. She is crying a lot lately after everything. She and I both have anxiety. Today she was asking my father for help with using her computer and she was blaming him because he forgot the password for a website. (She does this "blaming" thing a lot). Well my dad got really angry and said to her why don't you just ask me nicely! your always so accusatory! My mom was fighting back saying she was just frustrated and she needed help. My dad screamed F*** you. And acted like he was going to throw her computer. My mom said Don't even think about throwing my computer! Then he threatened to punch her. She said oh are you gonna punch me now?!!?! If you punch me! And he responded what are you gonna do. She screamed Then I'm going to leave you!! You can't do that to me!! (This all happened while I was doing my homework in the other room) Then she came out of the room crying and I followed her into another room and hugged her for a really long time. My dad has done this before and I think he does it because my mom doesn't listen. She will get angry and yell at people for little things and she doesn't understand that it hurts us. I wish they had a way to mutually understand each other because I love them both dearly. Please help
Dad is Threatening to kill my mom..HELP?!?
My parent have been married for about 24 years. My dad has been abusive in the past to my mother and he even broke her nose once. He's verbally abusive, and he hasn't hit her recently, last time was about back in September. Lately, hes been acting very strange and calling her constantly, checking her phone, checking her every move. He even checks her underwear everyday because he thinks shes cheating on him, which isn't the case. My father is an alcoholic. And Now hes threatening to kill my mom, or "turn her into pieces" like he said..he told my mother that and she said "well, you're the one who'd be screwed because you'd go to jail" and he responded " i wouldn't have to worry i'd just kill myself too" and i seriously don't know what to do. My mom lives with my dad and my younger brother[7] and younger sister [11] and they don't deserve that, none of them do. I wish there were something i could do. I live with my older sister and we're trying to figure out ways to avoid this scenario. Please help me, suggestions, advice..anything. its my mom's life at stake and possibly my younger siblings.
What should I do when my mom is threatening me?
You need to give more information as to how she is threatening you. If she says I'm going to ground you if you don't…., or I'll take away your phone if you don't…. Those are reasonable parental guidelines to make you follow her rules and you need rules and guidelines. You may not like it but society has rules too and she is trying to make you a successful person. However, if she is threatening your physical wellbeing by threatening to beat you, lock you away, deprive you of food or shelter or worse and if you think she means it then that is abuse. Please clarify.
My mom threatened to hit me, I said...?
My mom threatened to hit me, I told her to go ahead and that I'd call somebody. Then she asked me why I would do that, so I could "bust open" her nose again (a year ago she jumped ontop of me and for self defense I hit her wherever I could, and ended up giving her a black eye and maybe a broken nose. She hasn't let me hear the end of it since) ? Then she threatened to take me to juvy (I'm 15 now, was 14 at the time) because she took pictures of herself with her black eye when she had it and would use it as proof to turn me into the police. I told her to go ahead and turn me in. Then she basically insulted me (she's very verbally abusive) and hinted that I'm lazy and fat (I'm like 5 lbs overweight but veerrrrrrrrrrry insecure with myself and she knows very well that any jab at my looks will make me not want to leave the house for days) and I'd love juvy because I'd just sit there on my "lazy a$$". She's in my brother's room now and I'm in the den, and she just came down and saw me crying. She asked what's wrong with me (like she had no clue, which ticked me off) and I just told her to go away. Then she said she woudln't until I told her what happened. Then I said, "You happened! Just leave me alone or I'll get up and leave the room". I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice or input on my situation and how to cope or deal or fix this problem/situation. I'm so upset right now and tears are streaming down my face because I just want a normal life (I have a semi-physically abusive father, both of my parents verbally abuse me, depression, body dysmorphic disorder, and addiction to self-harm) and parents that would never even think to touch me. Someone please help :( I'm only 15
My mom threatens to hit me, is it abuse?
My mom has threatened to hit me when I raise my voice when she gets me mad by yelling at me for different things. She told me to yell at her one more time because she would hit me because she is allowed, but I am only 15. Is this considered child abuse? Also, I have mental health problems (I'm not challenged but I am depressed and I am emotionally unstable) and I throw fits sometimes even though I'm 15 going to be 16. These usually start on off days when someone makes me mad and people continue to upset me leading to an emotional break down. In these fits both my parents have hurt me. My dad has smacked me across the face, grabbed my neck in a pressure point, and has also slammed me against my bedroom door. My mother has grabbed my pony tail almost pulling my hair out (or at least that's what it felt like) and has said that she wasn't pulling but because my hair was in a pony tail and she grabbed around the hair tie she really was. My dad also talks down on me calling me mean things and has even called me a whore because I kiss my bf out front of my house. He also calls me a ***** and tells me that I'm worthless. Is any of this considered child abuse?
What should you do if your dad threatens to hit you?
This is a hard one, without knowing the entire situation its hard to give a correct answer, but I will try. First I have a question for you to think hard about, it makes a difference. I am not taking his side with this question and I am not accusing you with this question. Here it is. doing this ongoing fight you describe, do you ever even not intending to do so, do or say anything that would cause your dad to become up set or angry, do you after being told to stop, not stop. Does your dads threats start out as slight anger and escalate as you argue or is it highly aggressive and violent from the very start. Think about that and then answer yourself honestly. You dont need to answer me or any one here, just yourself. If it only starts light and escalates as you argue, try changing the way you react to him, if this does not work and he continues in this manner, turn him in to school officials, police, or child wealfare because he has an anger problem which untreated could become dangerous to you and your family. If his anger is completly threatening and violent at all times right from the start, turn him in to school officials, police, or child wealfare because it has already reached the danger point and you are the one it is focused towards. I am serious about turning him in, I had an anger problem a few years ago. I was treating my step daughters exactly how you describe. Mine started as slight agitation and escalated, I realized before it became dangerous and got help. If I hadnt got help when I did it would have become very violent and dangerous. Do not wory about what your mom will think of you for turning him in, your doing it for her and your siblings as well as yourself. Think about it, if your not doing or saying anything to agrivate him then you have no choice but to turn him in, its either that or you or your mom or one of your siblings could end up dead, most likly you because it seems to be directed mostly at you. Dont think too long, get help ASAP. You can contact me on my profile if needed, let me know that you are ok.
My mom is threatening me with a knife, is it normal?
Most certainly it is not.I assume you mean she is serious but if she is out of control she wouldn't threaten you, she would just grab it and use it. I would say that it is just an emotional outburst.She is clearly not ok and troubled over a number of things she cannot put under control and/or understand.Dont call authorities.You will cause so much more problems to her and yourself.Try figuring out what is the problem, why she acted like that.She clearly needs someone to talk to and express herself, someone she trusts. Be there for her, she really needs you.
What should I do if my mom threatens to beat me?
You need to contact child and youth again and tell them why you lied and said you were okay so they can reasure you. They're their to help and save you not to send you to a demon family! My friends mom was fostering this adorable little 6 year old whose..... well lets just say she's a lot of work! But the kid has a MUCH better life now and so does the mother and my friend! Now the kid is adopted and is much happier. If your still not sure about foster care ask your mother (when she's in a good/decent mood) why she is so horrible to you and tell her that just because she was beaten when she was a kid it doesnt mean she can beat you. Tell her that she is abusing you and that if she carries on then you are more than happy to go into foster care. And also while your at it ask her why she hates you (she probably doesnt cuz she's ur mother but just see what her reply is) See how she reacts to that. I expect she's lying to you about the foster care cuz deep inside she doesnt wanna loose you cuz she's already lost your father. You need to make her admit that she loves you or at least that she cares about you. GOOD LUCK!!!! XX No child/teen or anyone should be treated like you are being treated. You shouldnt have suffer from bloody noses. Do something NOW!!!!!!! before it goes to far.
My mom's boyfriend hits me and threatens me? What should i do?
I don't like my mom's boyfriend. One day were nice the the next were fighting. I TRY to be nice with him and be friends but he gets on my nerves and controls me like a f*cking soilder. Today we had a fight again. Then he punched my head hard while we were in the car driving home after i just had a WONDEFUL day at the mall with a friend. Then at home he grabbed my arms and pushed me against the wall and sreamed at me. Is this illegal? My mom and her boyfriend have been togeter for 5 years but keep breaking up and making up. He cheats on my mom alot and lies but my mom is always so stupid and forgive him for everything. When i was little, he choked me cause i didnt want to take a shower at the time he asked me. I told my mom but she just said he was trying to scare me, he wasn't choking me. BUT HE WAS. What's called, hands around a person's neck squeezing it? Yeah, its called choking. My mom NEVER listens to me if its about her boyfriend. She's always on her side. Idk what to do. I told her boyfriend if he hits me one more time i am calling the cops. Then he took my phone away and said its not illegal. he beats up his son all the time and asked the cops if it was illegal and the cops said it wasnt so now hes gonna beat "the living ****" out of me. Please help? Im so deppressed with him around. Im happier when hes not here screaming at me and telling me what to do all the time. Hes not even a friend. hes more like a stranger to me. We never do anything together.. Hes always too busy in my moms bedroom with her f*cking.