Am i a hopeless case?
From the age of 9 i had been overweight and women have treated me like an absolute piece of trash my whole life. Always said mean comments to me, Always ignored me and every girl i had ever had a crush on has just rejected me. At school i was always laughed at by every girl and looked down upon. Now i am 24. I have lost all my weight (6 foot, 175 pounds), i have a bachelor of science majoring in computer science. I work in a great job earning 72,000 a year, working as a web developer and run a small web design firm on the side. Now thing are different, women all seem to be all over me. It seems like I'm meeting new women every day who like me. The thing is i have these feelings of resentment towards women because of my childhood. I feel very bitter towards most women in general because of the way they have treated me in the past. It's like now i'm successful and nice to look at, they all of a sudden treat me well. All i can think is how shallow they all seem. I almost feel like going out and sleeping with as many women as i can, just because of my resentment towards them. Sorry if this is written poorly its 3am and i cannot sleep. So how do i fix myself?
My family is a hopeless case. PLEASE HELP ME.?
Please help me. I have been enduring this for a LONG TIME already. I don't want to be my family's shock absorber anymore. My family is a hopeless case and I feel guilty for saying this about them but this is the truth. I don't know if I'm just pessimistic or it's true that I can recall more negative happenings than good things that happened to our family. We are a middle class family, we eat 3x a day, live in a comfortable home and I am DEEPLY GRATEFUL for all the blessings that we have. However, my mom and dad is in constant fight with each other, in 24 hours/day, they fight 18 hours/day 7x/week and sometimes they drag us in between their fights, they also yell at us. It's a living hell. My brother is such an OC (not diagnosed) and if somebody "accidentally" touches one of his things, he will THROW FITS! he will yell at you and say a lot of bad words! he will get mad at the small things (and I think he got this behavior from our parents). I AM BREAKING APART. I feel guilty for feeling the need to leave them (I am already in my 20's), I "could" leave them but I feel guilty about it. I am much happier with my friends and consider them my real family even though I know that they have their own and I'm sure they are happy with them than me. I feel like I can still find somebody somewhere to make me feel loved and secure or I think I'm better off on my own to create my happiness. Should I follow my happiness or should I stay and live with the toxicity, as long as I am guilt free?
I have autism. I was diagnosed at the end of 9th grade. However, before that, I always had some form of therapy. I am now ending my 12th grade year. The reason why I am writing anonymously is I feel like my teachers, and autistic therapist actually read my answers that I write. It's sort of a fear, or you can call it onset schizophrenia haha! (I am requested to answer questions that connect to my life far too much)I have been taught to recognize all human behaviors, all body languages and I have been taught on how to handle over 100’s of possible scenarios for over the past 5 years to the T. - It is to the point where I can learn someones nervous, lying, etc triggers… in literally a matter of minutes.However, even though I know all of that I am still being taught on different social “issues” like “how to take credibility for my actions” reason: I accidentally parked in front of a fire hydrogen, it got blown way out of portions and then I had to sit with the head of special education (my teacher told my special ed teacher who then told my autistic support teacher who then told the head of special education department then it later was passed to my mom and other various teachers) and explain to them that it was 6 A.M in the morning, and that it was an accident. - They essentially wanted me to make a false confession saying that I deliberately parked there and then wanted me to apologize.It has to be hopeless, no matter what I do there is always, ALWAYS something I need to learn to do better. Autism is a word, we no longer recognize the person, but the word itself. Then the symptoms associated. Put it into a box really, I saw a few people saying their autistic and proud, I have to ask, why?Autism is a hopeless case, medically and psychologically. We are groomed to feel the normal way. Through therapy.
A tricky answer for you. It is not the presence of consonants but consonantal sound . Rule says:....... “A” is used as follows:1) Words which begin with consonants (including y, and also h when it is pronounced)Ex: a horse, a girl, a dog , a human being, a historical place,A hopeless question. ( ‘h’is pronounced here )A hopeless suggestionA hopeless venture.A hopeless situation.There may be situation where ‘the’ is used before it.Ex: Put an end to the hopeless campaign.Note: ‘An hopeless’ if at all you have read anywhere , think how it was possible.‘An hopeless.......’ was perhaps possible if the letter ‘h’ was not pronounced or it was silent. Is it so? The correct answer is : ‘an hopeless.......’ is incorrect and ‘a hopeless....’ alone is correct.If you can quote the different situations as you have read, let me think and answer you . till then my version holds good. Do not apply , a ,e, i , o ,u etc., here.It is better to be polite in asking answers, don’t over instruct. If still doubt persists , let me see.
I feel i am dumb and useless?
so depressed so given up like a hopeless case i could barely write all of this even though i realize that asking this question online to bunch of people who know me at all is all in all one another dumb thing to do but frankly speaking guys lol i have faced and experienced so much embarrassment up till now that i can really laugh at myself for the rest of myself keeping rest aside the other ppl who laugh at me for who i am. i just think that i am useless and dumb never got good grades always failed i have no special talent that i can say hey i am Just best in this thing i dont look good i dont think i have a good personality i know i know what a sad f**k right? i laugh at myself what else what a loser i mean i know it i heard it all i faced it all and i even get suicidal thoughts at times and i am coward . i get panicky and screw things for myself i mean the thing i can do well i screw them too so F**ked up what a waste of life? all i know is i am totally confused clueless of whats happenin around me and all the ppl i see everyday seems to be strange to me. i dont even know if i have any friends or the one who are are they actually my friends. i have absolutely no idea about anything. i see everyone in my class better than and then i feel like whats the use of trying ? when i already know i am a failure and then the world i for only the stronger ones and weak wont survive. i dont know where to start or just what is with me everything is everytime messed. God exists?
Are ugly girls hopeless if they're quiet?
You can tell you're an ugly girl when you experience neither bullying or compliments in middle school. I, personally, am a bit of a quiet, but very nice, somewhat ugly girl (though not horribly so, I have some good points such as a nice bone structure, facial and otherwise, and I'm healthy weight wise) who laughs very easily (though not at someone being a jerk /=) And is a bit clumsy, as well as fairly intelligent (not exactly a genius either, though!). And, though no one knows it at school, I kind of want to be with someone, if I do get together with anyone, who is very nice, but doesn't seek purely to protect me. I just really like to be the one protecting, you know? Oh, and I keep my standards high. I avoid obvious jerks like the plague. Guys... really aren't into me. I don't act nearly as... well, I'll just say obnoxious as the other girls towards the guys, but they're showered with attention. I don't mind that much, I think I'm aiming to be single for the rest of my life. It's a goal, really. It's just depressing though when you realize that people don't think you're a high enough standard for them /= Is it really hopeless for ugly girls?
Waited.What else was there to do?Imagine this life to be a monstrous dice throwing competition, being played with 10 billion dice.(The uncertain elements in my life, and yours, are more than 10 billion. But what is the point of being more hopeless than that we already are?)Imagine, the rule is, certain five dice have to turn ‘6’ together, to achieve what you wish to achieve.But they are not turning ‘6’. Not together. Not at all.Throws after throws. Years after years.Imagine they are NOT turning ‘6’, despite expert advice, confidence hacks, improved techniques, and, being constantly encouraged by the loved ones. Now they are tired too and a little disappointed as they have been rooting for you for a long time.What will you do?You will play. What else?Are you too tired to play? Then you will wait.Till the strength comes back.For another throw.Even if it's futile.As your brain and all the dice experts in the world are in agreement that nothing more could be done.If you truly believe that uncertainty exists; or, remember that you knew about its existence once upon a time- before being hopeless and tired- MAKE THAT THROW.In that monstrous uncertainty that brought you hopelessness and misery hides a teeny weeny, infinitesimal probability of success.You may call that hope.
Could you be arrested for telekinesis?
LOL. I love this! Okay, since telekinesis does not scientifically or legally exist-- note, I use the terms scientifically and legally-- but if one had the power of Darth Vader or a scanner and used it to kill someone in front of witnesses or even a cop, that person could never be convicted. No DA in his or her right mind would try to go into court and argue that the decedant was killed through psi or scanning techniques. Too many people like many of the folks here simply would not accept any evidence and any half-decent defense attorney would argue that there is no evidence of any kind of physical trauma that could be caused by the person on trial. In other words, it would be a hopeless case. On the other hand, certain other crimes caused by TK might be proved through the backdoor route: a telekinetic person launching a brick through a window, no; but a telekinetic person caught robing a jewelry store would be convicted because they were caught with the stolen goods. How they got them is immaterial. Several other crimes might be possible using psi gifts like telepathy, telepathic hypnosis ("pushing"), teleportation, psychopyresis, telekinesis (cheating at roulette), and possibly even precognition. But since there are so few people with such gifts, the law will never catch up with "psi criminals" which is truly ironic as the law is usually faster to change than the brain dead people in mainstream science. All it takes in a court of law is evidence beyond a reasonable doubt. However state legislatures are made up of the same kind of brain dead people who make up mainstream science, so don't expect any kind of changes soon. :-)
This might be because you have examination phobia. Many students suffer with this.Examination is termed as a fearful thing by teachers, parents and society. Everyone makes the students conscious about exams since the early classes.Therefore a sense of fear is created in the subconscious mind. If you mindfully observe that nothing serious happens during the examination time. Whatever a student studies throughout the session, he gets the appropriate result of the same.So try to observe and analyse your feelings. Do you really need to worry about exams and results? If you are well prepared, you will get good results. And if you are not so well prepared, you will get not so good results. Still you have plenty of options. Students who are not good in studies, also have good career opportunities. In any case your future is secured.So try not to take the things very seriously. Life is to celebrate every moment as far as possible.In addition, drink plenty of water, go for walk or do some exercises, eat nutritious food and download an app headspace and practice it.