Which is correct, "need a help" or "need help"?
Use "need help" (no "a"). If you need a helper (a person to help you), then "a help" is a little more unusual and might be workable but only in speech (since the listener can confirm with you).
Why do people only call you if they need your help?
As annoying and disappointing as this is, it’s actually a compliment. They call you because they have enough faith in you or consider you reliable enough to help them achieve what they need.Unfortunately, we tend to reach out to those we trust most when we want to vent, need something, or are in crisis. When things are going well, we are a little more self-focused and tend to bask in our glory. Kind of the same reason you find people kneeling down in church crying hysterically in crisis praying for a solution, but rarely see people thanking their God for all that is well in their lives.Role modeling is a great way to help others change bad habits. Maybe try picking up the phone and reaching out to one of these offenders just to chat about your day, a new Netflix series etc. without asking them for any favors.The best thing (other than hit “send to VM” when these habitual “users” call ) is to listen to their request, pause, think and then teach then “teach them to fish” vs giving in to whatever their demands may be. For example:Desperate Debbie : Omg. I have no money, my car is out of gas, I need to buy cat litter, and I want to purchase a house in the HamptonsYou: (Pause, Think (or at least give the allusion that you are thinking by pausing if it’s a ridiculous request) I’m so sorry to hear that Debbie. That must be so stressful, luckily, I just learned about this site called “indeed” online where you can pick up gigs to help with cash flow!Then change the subject
I need help. I love so many things and do not know where to head , how to make time for it all. Please advice ?
I want you to help me organize my life and take it one at a time. I really do need your help friends. I am doing the following things. I am trying to lose weight. Yoga and exercise Trying to get more religious by praying and attending prayer every now and then. Studying for the GMAT Trying to get pregnant;-) hence have to eat well. Getting an HR certification (once a week classes but have to study for that too) What I dream about doing along with the above. Volunteering with a domestic violence company I know, once OR twice a week Getting a part time job Going to fashion design class once a week Starting my own home based fashion business. Going to religion classes once a week I want to do alllll of the above, but the part time job is not on my priority list. Please help me. I need an organized list and honest advice about whether my life would be too chaotic with all these things and should I make it simpler.
I Need help, What should I do?
Im in big trouble. It all starts in my Tech class. We were given an assignment and i didn't complete it in the time we were given. Because I was not finished, i took someone else's "Kali do cycle" and said it was mine and handed it in. The old teacher thought he saw this kalido-cycle before and when i was giving it to him to get marks, he held it up and asked the class if it belonged to anybody. The person that it belonged to did'nt say anything, because he did not want to embarrass me in front off the whole class. I got the marks for the project, and later in the class the person came over to me and said he was very annoyed and that he wanted me to tell the teacher after class, that i had taken his Kalido cycle. I was too scared to confront my teacher and say that I lied to him about the project so i didnt go. I told the person that i went and that i got in trouble for it. He believed me and that was the end of that. The next class i was sick and my teacher called my house. He knows.
Is it correct to say "please let me know if you need help" or must I use "whether"?
De’Veon, here is an explanation about whether versus if from a blog I wrote in 2018:Whether ... or not & if | Ruthless Editor Kathleen WatsonWhether and IfWhen using informal language, if and whether can be interchangeable:I wonder if Ben is going to the baseball game.I wonder whether Ben is going to the baseball game.(Both sentences question Ben’s plans to go — or to not go — to the baseball game.)When you’re expressing a choice between two alternatives, use whether:I don’t know whether Ben is going to the baseball game or the basketball game.(Ben will decide to go to one game or the other.)When you substitute if for whether in the same phrasing, you create a statement with a different implication:I don’t know if Ben is going to the basketball game or the baseball game.(Ben could decide to go to neither.)Consider how you would use vocal emphasis if you were speaking each of the last two options:I don’t know whether Ben is going to the baseball game or the basketball game.I don’t know if Ben is going to the basketball game or the baseball game.Whether or notNow consider these examples that show how or not affects meaning:Let Ben know if you would like to go to the baseball game.(This statement requests that you contact Ben only if you choose to go to the game.)Let Ben know whether or not you would like to go to the baseball game.(This statement requests that you contact Ben in either case.)
I need your help I accidentally 40lbs of mangoes what should I do...is this dangerous ?
We will need to know what you did with the 40lbs of mangos.
Mathematics' calculus I can't do. Need your help. How to do it?
At a certain factory, the daily output is Q(K) = 600K^1/2 units, where K denotes the capital investment measured in units of $1,000. The current capital investment is $900,000. Estimate the effect that an additional capital investment of $800 will have on the daily output.
I have lost myself somewhere Quorans and I need your help. What should I do?
I used to have that feeling sometime back. Then I came across this:All that is gold does not glitter,Not all those who wander are lost;The old that is strong does not wither,Deep roots are not reached by the frost.From the ashes a fire shall be woken,A light from the shadows shall spring;Renewed shall be blade that was broken,The crownless again shall be king.I have pasted this at my home and my office where I can see it whenever I want. It does help me a lot. I hope it might help you too.I used to feel worthless some time back, was having panic attacks and depression (though I never believed but according to Doctors). Then, I decided to take back hold of my life.This I did by changing my daily routine. I was not doing any exercise. I started doing exercise. I starting finishing the works which were left incomplete. I started reading books again. I started playing games again. I started doing those things again which used to give me pleasure. I started doing MEDITATION.Do not stay lonely out there. Just find a friend, a mentor or someone with whom you can share your stuff.Do not compare your life with others. If you are healthy, have a roof over your head, have food to eat, then, believe me, you are better than a great lot. You just need to take charge of your life. Focus on what you want to achieve and remove distractions. Be the captain of your ship. Don’t give up. Listen to good music, watch good movies and start afresh. Every day is a new start. Take Charge, Live Large!Hope that might help.
Hey guys HELP i need your advice ...why does he do this?
First, there's two sides to every story but since I'm only hearing your side then that's the side i'll deal with. It sounds like your boyfriend has two personalities if he's just changing on you like that. He could have issues that he's not dealing with and if that's the case, you won't be able to do nothing about that, he will have to deal with that hisself. Whatever his problem is it's all about him , you are not the problem, you are just a tool for his venting out whatever he's going through. I wouldn't suggest you move on or nothing like that because this is a time in his life that he needs you. You will have to be the one to bring this thing out of him. Sit him down( when he is not mad at you) and just ask him ,"what's wrong"? GOODLUCK!!