My boyfriend won't let me have friends?
I've lived with a guy like this. He didn't want me to leave the house, no friends, he was ok with my family but nobody else. He was always having his friends watch the apartment and follow me if I went to the store or somewhere because he was sure I was going to go see some other guy. Guys like that can become physically violent. Some are just verbally controlling, but in all the relationships with men like this I've seen (and my own), they mainly turn abusive. In my case, the guy started out with little comments that at the time I didn't see as controlling. When I moved in, it exploded about three months later. Then when words did not stop me from going to the store or chatting with online friends (girls for that matter), he went physical. Please evaluate this relationship, I wouldn't wish that he takes it a step further and hurts you (even if you think he wouldn't do such a thing- by the fact you say he doesn't even like your mom to ask you to help her, it's a huge red flag.) I would get out of there ASAP but that is just me and my opinion coming from being in that sort of relationship. There are places that can help get you out (even if you have pets- they have foster families that care for them until you are able to get them) if you have nowhere else to go. Good luck!
How can I get my ex boyfriend to become my friend?
Well he didn't reply bcoz he is upset with the decision , well when there is a mutual break up only then there are chances of being friends but when only one partner ask for the break up then that means only that partner is ready for the break up and the other is not , for you feelings are fading away and it's not ur fault only status of relationship depends on both gf and bf , I do not know what's exactly the reason behind ur break up but since you have taken that step and he didn't want things to end like this , he won't be able to become friend with you, and seriously how can it be possible to hide the feelings , you just can't hide ur true feelings , today someone is saying I love you , u r my life etc etc and next day how the same person can talk to you like an acquittance or a friend , people have gone mad in an attempt to forget their past but it's just not possible ,the only option is to fight and fight and fight with ur past every single day until you become strong enough to let go, if you don't wanna drift away or lose urself. True feelings just don't die even if you give it random names - friendship , relationship etc
How to be just friends with a girl who has a boyfriend?
Be honest. Tell her you like her, think she's a great friend, and would like to hang out. Also, tell her that you're aware of her relationship and that you don't want to come between her and her boyfriend or cause any problems like jealousy issues. If she's cool with that then start hanging out and build a friendship. Don't go into it with any more expectations than that, and tell her you think it's best if she's honest with her boyfriend that she has a platonic male friend she hangs out with (or ask her to be that honest). After that, over time, the friendship will go where it may. She may remain faithful to her boyfriend; just accept it and wish them both all the best if that's the case. Or, she will enjoy spending time with you, learn your personality and decide for herself if you're a nicer guy than her boyfriend; it does no good for you to make the judgment that you're "cooler" since it's her heart and mind that must make those choices. If she does feel that way, maybe her heart will start to fall in love with you...after all, romantic lovers who are also best friends have the strongest relationships. If that should happen, always voice your concern that you don't want to be the cause of their breakup. It must be her decision. When you said they are two hours apart, you didn't say whether it's her boyfriend who moved away from your area for college or if she is the one who traveled to your area for college. If the second one is true, keep in mind that when college is done she will very likely go back home, and then you'll be 2 hours away from her.
My boyfriend and my best friend hate each other. What should I do?
My bf & bff totally hate each other. They liked each other at first, then I don't know what happened! They started hating each other a couple of months ago and it just got worse: I all ready had plans to go with my boyfriend, but my best freind came and asked if I would go to the library w/ her. It was only going to take an hour and my boyfriend wasn't going to be there for a little while yet...but he didn't like that idea. He got mad and as I was trying to explain to him on the phone, I think she got fed up with it and she said that she would just go. She called me and said that until I straighten things out w/ him getting mad & all, she was just going to stay away. I sent her an "I'm sorry" card, but I still haven't heard from her. I'm afraid that she hates me now. My boyfriend has tried to comfort me, but I am just worried. They both tell me that I shouldn't let the other push me around. I love them both and I don't want to lose either of them. They both mean a lot to me.
My boyfriend wants to have sex with my best friend, what can i say to make him possibly stop mentioning it?
He constantly mentions how he would like to have a threesome with my best friend and I. My best friend is very beautiful and lots of guys like her so I can understand why they go for her. This is her; http://i141.photobucket.com/albums/r73/steffi__boo/n690180555_4333402_7347.jpg and then there's me. I'm 5'6 and not super thin and sometimes I'm embarrassed by myself: http://i141.photobucket.com/albums/r73/steffi__boo/0241_edited-1.jpg what can I say to my boyfriend to maybe make him stop mentioning it. i understand that he probably will mention it to his friends anyways but it only bothers me when he says it in front of me.