My friend is mad at me, what should I do?
Ask them why they are mad at you. (If they refuse to tell you, it is apparently their problem. Nothing will get resolved if they just ignore you)If it is something you did wrong, you can either apologize or explain yourself. Do whatever works in the situation, but be sure if you are explaining yourself to explain the situation/misunderstanding/etc. in a logical, convincing way. Don’t just spew/yell/scream pathetic shit.If they continue acting like they are mad at you even after you apologize (or explain yourself) than just walk away. Wait for them to leave their state of self pity.Above all, just stay calm as another human being that is “mad” at you should be nothing to lose any sleep over (unless they are going to murder you, to which I say, if you know they are going to murder you either get far away or know how to protect yourself. Surely it is not that bad though)
My friends bully me. What should I do?
Friends are the worst bullies because they are the people closest to you and can therefore hurt you at will. Therefore they will:Belittle you.Demean you.Cock block you.Gossip about you.Smile in your face.Spread lies about you.Encourage destructive behaviours and manipulate you.Gaslight you.Steal from you.Lie to you.Treat you one way when you're with them alone and then treat you completely different depending on who's around.Downplay or disregard your achievements.Project their sins and guilt onto YOU.Not trust you. Another form of projection. Similar to a romantic partner that habitually cheats, yet accuses you of doing the same with little to no evidence.Turn people against you.Try to steal your girlfriends.Impede your personal development.Never change.People that will keep you around as a “friend” and do ANY of the things mentioned here are NOT your friend.They are abusive, narcissistic, shallow individuals and should be avoided entirely.People like this generally don't go far in life. At best they will be partially satiated at the table of mediocrity fighting over the scraps of a middle class diet, but they very rarely will continue to grow as individuals throughout their lifetime until they live in abundance.Reference the psychology literature as you please, but people like the “friends” you are describing are generally losers and may recognize on a sub-conscious level that you are out of their league.Thus they lash out at you.Lions don't hang out with wolves….Who do lions hang out with!?………Now ya feel me.
What should I do if I know all my friends are fake?
Are you sad or feeling bad, this is just the starting. There are many dorks who will be coming in your life on different circumstances and again and again due to reality you will feel low.Listen, actually it happens only because of us i.e. we feel everybody around us is good, they are really caring and we waste all out time on them just to make them comfortable , to share cheesy stuffs with them (some really personal stuffs) but we dont judge them with suspicion that they may turn out to be wrong.But what you said, you are really lucky that you have truth that your friends are fake. Usually our family members keep on explaining and warning is that we should not trust so easily and keep our guards on. But we dont understand that and just ignore it.But congratulations you got it and now you know the reality, now keep your guards on and don't show them you know it. Stay calm and just behave the same and from now onwards stay alert.
My friend broke my bike, what should I do?
Well, you were a good friend to loan him your bike. (I assume he had permission to use it.) And again, you're being a good friend by showing him mercy, but finally someone has to fix your bike. So maybe, if you don't want to feel like you're being a rat, rather then "telling" your parents, go to your parents for advice on how to get your friend to fix your bike.And don't forget the old saying: If you loan a friend five bucks, and you never see him again, it was worth it.
I Think My Friend Is A Lezz What Should I Do???
OK, this EXACT same thing happened to me in high school..!! If you want to save this friendship, you CAN! You need to first tell her that her honest answer will not mess up your friendship, but that you would like an HONEST answer. Tell her you're wondering if she likes girls (dont ask if she's a LESBIAN maybe she's just curious or bisexual or maybe she doesnt know what to label herself yet and the L word may scare her). If she says "yes" then tell her that you're ok with it, as long as she doesn't hit on you. As for the peeking during sleepovers, you should talk to her, but try to understand where she's coming from first... I mean, if you were in a private room with a whole bunch of guys changing, wouldnt YOU want to peek? She's just curious... But tell her that you dont want to be the object of her gaze/curiousity... tell her she needs to see you as a friend and no more than that, but let her know that you will happily be her friend in this platonic way if she wants... Good luck!
What should I do when my friend bullies another friend?
If you allow it then you are not only being weakened by it, but you are also inadvertently a part of it if you don’t step in.I answered a similar question recently so I will sum this up more quickly.Tell your friend you do not want to see it or hear it anymore. It is not funny, it’s unattractive, and it shows serious weakness.Many people who witness bullying but refuse to step in will often feel negative effects from allowing it down the road when they are older and wiser. Whether you are older or younger doesn’t matter. Let it be known it is wrong and you will not tolerate it. You will be all the wiser today by having nothing to regret tomorrow.
What should I do if my friend is not talking to me?
Something very similar is happened to me a while ago...But always practice gratitude and abide the law of attraction. I wished good for her. I became thankful day and night for everything she did (or didnt)do to me . Never bad mouthed her or feel angry at her. Soon she won't be able to turn away from the love you are transferring to that Person. Practice positive present tense affirmations like" she loves talking to me. I have no problems with her and neither does she. Wish the best for her she soon will return to normal.EDIT: 23rd SEPTEMBER. It worked. I have understood that people can be different and you don't have to vibe with them for them to be your friend. Make as much friends as possible and live your life to the max.shes talking like she used to. Always forgive and act like it didn't happen and soon it will be like it never happened.
What can I do when my friend ignores me?
I've been through it very recently. My friend suddenly stops talking to me altogether one day. For a day or two, I thought she was having mood swings. But then, when I observed that she was normal to others but me, I went to her and asked her several times the reason behind her behavior. For a few times, she said I'm over thinking when clearly, I wasn't.Then, one day, when she still continued the same and I couldn't take it anymore, I sent her a long text saying everything I was dying to (I texted her because she wasn't answering my calls and we weren't able to meet due to our break). The next morning, she called me up and gave me an explanation behind why she was doing what she was doing.The reason she was ignoring me was, a third person told her that I was bitching about her (which I never did, because she was a really good friend of mine and I wouldn't do that to her ever). Then things got clear and now we are doing great again.So my point is, maybe someone told your friend something which might be true or false. You should go, talk to that person, and try your best to get an explanation. Because nobody does anything without a valid reason.Also, if your friend is of opposite gender, then maybe he/she feels something for you and that's why they're ignoring you.Whatever the case is, just go, talk to your friend if he/she really matters. I'm sure you wouldn't want to lose a friend just for another lame reason. :)
My friend is getting into drugs, what should i do?
hey so i’m 15f and my friend (also 15f) who i’ve been close with since kindergarden smoked week for the first time and now she’s like obsessed and has been wanting to try new drugs and drinks and such. what makes me really concerned is that her older sister was a raging alcoholic and semi-drug addict who just got clean and i know stuff like that can be genetic (addictive genes.) whenever me and another close friend go over she always asks if we can bring weed or alcohol, (just a little background, my other friend and i have smoke and drank before, she’s a fan of smoking but i’m not so much, i only do it with close friends when i want to which is like rarely) i’m just nit sure what to do, like i’d love to have fun drinking with her and my other friend but i just don’t want to enable her by supplying alc or doing stuff with her, what should i do? i’ve tried talking to her about it but she gets defensive and is kinda clueless as to what she’s potentially setting herself up for.