What should I do with my son?
My son is absolutely worthless. He can't cook, clean, has no hobbies, passions, talents, nothing. He wasn't good at school, he can't play an instrument, or draw. He's an adult and does nothing but sit at home all day and play on his computer. That's all he's ever done, even as a child. He never went out with his friends either. I don't understand how a person can have no motivation or passion for anything? I tell him he should have more interests but he says "eh" or he doesn't care about it. He has always been this way. No, he doesn't have a job either or go to school. He did graduate but barely. For years, I've had to hound him about getting good grades but he never cared or felt he could get them. He still lives with me, but does nothing except play on his laptop and sleep. He won't do his laundry so I have to do it. If I don't cook or do his laundry for him he will not eat or wash his clothes himself. he'd rather stink, and goes days without showering or changing his clothes. He sleeps in the same clothes for days. I've threatened to kick him out, because I'm tired of him doing nothing. His cousins are going to college, or at least working. They have friends and relationships. He doesn't even have a drivers license. I'm so pissed off with this kid. He doesn't want to learn how to do anything. If I kick him out, I could see him just living on the street and not doing anything to improve his life. What should I do about him? Should I still kick him out?
What should I do with my son?
First off, you need to get him off the bottle.. At his age he should be weaned off by now. Five or six bottles at night time is alot.. even for a little baby. Get him some sippy cups.. about 3 or 4.. and slowly get rid of his bottles, one by one.. Get him use to using the sippy cup.Offer it to him instead of the bottle and if he cries for the bottle tell him big boys use sippy cup not bottles.. It might be a little hard in the beginning, but once he gets use to it.. bottles will be forgotten about.. Hide the bottles and dont let him see them, so he dosnt get reminded about them.. You can also throw the bottles away, and even let him help you throw them away so he knows they are gone for good.. All 3 of mine were weaned off the bottle and potty trained at 1 year.. I worked hard at it.. wasnt easy but I did it.. Is there a reason that you give him so many vitamins? Did his pediatrician recommend this? I'm not sure if giving a child alot of vitamins has anything to do with them being over weight but when my husband was young his mom gave him alot of vitamins and he grew up overweight and is overweight at his age now (37). Kids get that fat baby look for a while, then the more active they get.. they start too loose it.. I have a 13 year old who eats like a 3 horses and looks like a bean pole.. I have a 15 year old who dosnt eat alot and he is overweight.. It has alot to do with metobilisim too...Some people can eat a whole buffet and never gain a pound.. others can just look at it and gain 10lbs..(thats me.. look and gain) Feed him regular foods that you eat.. if he plays alot and is active, chances are he will be ok.. I also think hes getting too much rice.. rice has alot of starch and might cause him to gain weight.. Good Luck!!
What should i do with my son?
A couple of things to consider. 1. Do your son's grades reflect that he does his homework a lot? Is he getting a B or better? 2. How old is your son? 3. Is the girl dressed or is it a porn shot? If your son is getting good grades, he's an older teen 17+ and the girl is "tasteful" I wouldn't be too worried. Just ask be open and ask him about it! Chances are good he'll say fine. If he resists, or you have other reasons to worry, you need to find out what's on that computer -- especially if he's young. There could be lots of things going on, cyberbullying, porn, etc. I think you should push the issue and tell him if he has a password on a family computer, as the parent you want it (it's OK for him to keep it from other family members - brothers, sisters, etc.).
What should i do with my son???
WOW!! And your son is a teacher!! I remember back to when I was 14 I dated a guy who was 28!! My parents were furious to say the least! And I just didn't see what the big deal was, I thought they just didn't want me to be happy. Now, looking back on it I think HOW FRIGGIN SICK HE WAS!! I was 14 for gods sake!! What the hell could a man that age want with a 15 year old girl other than the obvious! And you are trying to keep him away from her like she is a bad example or something! YOU MAKE ME SICK TOO!! thinking that your son is innocent in all this! He is the one who should know better not the 15 yr old!! She is young and so impressionable at this age and all she is looking for is a man or someone to accept her and love her! She is probably missing out on alot at home and is going else where to get what she needs! YOUR SON SHOULD BE IN JAIL!!! And all you can think about is poor him!!! Poor her! For being taken advantage of by a man twice her age! And someone she should be able to trust too A TEACHER!! I cannot believe how mad this is making me, If I knew who you or your son were I would call the cops, the news and whoever would listen in a heartbeat!!!!!! You sound to me just as screwed up in the freaking head as your crazy pervert son does!!! God Help that little girl and I will pray that she doesn't get totally screwed up in the head thanks to what your SICK< SICK TEACHER SON HAS DONE TO HER!!!! AND IS PROBABLY DOING THIS MINUTE!!
What should I do with my 3 month old son?
The congestion that was in his sinus is probably "moving down" as it breaks up. He'll either swallow what you don't get with the sucker or it will move towards his airway and cause him to cough. Assuming he is having a productive cough (bringing up the mucus) this is kind of normal for getting over anything that causes congestion. If you're in "panic mode" or feel that the infection is moving into his chest instead of leaving his system feel free to see another ped. for a second opinion. Maybe up your "suction" frequency? That's the only other way for the mucus to get out of your child's system (swallow, cough, or suction), he won't blow his own nose at this point.
What should i do with my 6 yr old son?
Battle of wills that you cant lose. sounds to me you have a little brat on your hands, that perhaps youve been encouraging his behavior. i dont know a kid out there whos persisted his behavior after the parents proved their will is stronger than the childs sometimes a good spanking is justthe trick, but its how you explain it to your child afterwards that is the attitude adjuster. Hes 6, and old enough to understand he cant go around breaking things. But sometimes you throw a curve ball at him Ever punish a kid with the worst punishment he cant stand? you make him stand in the corner one hour with the tv playing besides him...see if that works if that doesnt work, 2 hours 1 hour for everything he breaks not sent to his room, right there in front of you if he doesnt respond to one or two hours ..then make it days Every morning wake his little but up at 5:00 AM "you want to break things" time to stand in the corner then at night, one hour before you go to sleep you break something tomorrow, we will do this again and again, only longer If hes not responding to the spankings, do something thats utterly painful for the child 9not physcially) but you have to win that battle of wills, or the child will only continue and get worse. Write back if that 1 hour at 5:00 works for you
What should I do with my son?
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What should I do with my 10 year old son?
Sounds like Andrew has an anger management problem and needs some professional help to deal with it. If he has been having problems since Kindergarten, that should tell you that this problem is not going away and he needs help dealing with it because it will only get worse over time. Children will often live what they learn at home and if one or both parents deal with their anger with violence or shouting, or any other unhealthy ways, the child will do the same. I know this is not what you want to hear, and I'm not judging you as a parent because we're all just trying to do the best we can, but examine how you deal with your anger. Is he learning anything from that? My son was diagnosed with ADHD in 3rd grade, and raising him was difficult. The meds helped, but it didn't solve emotional problems he had, and I didn't use it as a crutch or excuse. He's now 19, he's doing better, but still has some problems that he's learning how to deal with on his own. Good luck and think about getting your son some help. You'll be amazed at how much it will help.
What should I do with my 12 year old son that stole $150 from my debit card?
Make him work off the debt. Have him do extra chores beyond what he normally does. If you don't have anything for him to do at home, have him work as a volunteer to help those in your neighborhood who could use the help. He needs to not only recognize that there are consequences to his actions (so he won't do this again) but also that you are not a push-over and that you will be strong as a parent. I know it can be tough to be the parent. Sometimes it is necessary and while you might feel like you are being mean and that he may not be very happy with you, it will do him good. You have to look at the big picture. If you don't punish him now, the lesson will be that you are willing to allow him to do wrong and he can get away with it. The behavior will continue and it might even get worse as he tests the waters to see how far he can go. Next time he might not steal from you. He might steal from someone else, get caught and then end up with some serious consequences, like juvenile detention or if he is older, jail or prison. Be the parent you know you need to be for his sake.