DOES THIS SHY GUY LIKE ME?
I know this really nice guy. He's really shy and I'm finding it hard to tell if he likes me or not. Here is al list of things he does. I'd really appreciate your help. 1: avoids eye contact whist talking to me. He will look anywhere but my eyes 2: If he DOES make eye contact he starts blushing and quickly looks away 3: he looks at me when I'm not looking at him but as soon as I look at him, he jerks his head and eyes away, blushes and tries really hard not to smile 4: He never approaches me first, I always approach him 5: When we first get together to hang out or whatever, he's really shy and doesn't say much, but after about 15 minutes he opens up and talks and is really funny which seems like a big conflict 6: he is really considerate of my feelings. He'll always ask what I want to do and what I want to eat and always make sure I'm happy and satisfied. If I get hurt, he acts like I'm a damsel in distress and makes sure I'm ok and does whatever he can to make me feel better. If I'm sad, he always has something to say to make me feel better. He's there for me whenever I need him 7: I'm never left out 8: He's always tryna make me laugh and smile 9: he never judges me 10: he thinks I'm amazing and too good for him (that's not true) 11: he's gentle with me unlike most guys 12: he finds hugging me awkward but loves it when I do. When he hugs me he gets really indecisive as to how he should hug me. 13: he's always by my side but he doesn't follow me around like a puppy. He respects my space 14: he freezes whenever I touch him. 15: he calles me all the time and talks to me on Facebook all the time whenever I'm online and most of the time he starts the convo before I can even type "hi" 16: his friends are really respectful towards me and if they to something I don't like, he pulls them up. Basically, he's a really nice guy but I wanna know if he likes me or is just a nice guy in general and doesn't like me like THAT. If he does, is he good boyfriend material? Thanks
How do you let a shy guy down easy??
Like Nike says, just do it. There is no easy way to "let him down". If you are really being truthful (and I doubt that you are) about not wanting a bf right now, just tell him that. Give him the old line about "just being friends", the kiss of death. He may surprise you by saying something like he doesnt want a gf right now either. Just because he's shy doesn't mean he's made of glass. He is probably a lot tougher than you think.
I want to talk to this guy, but I am extremely shy. What should I do/say?
First you have to figure out what are your feelings about him.In case you liked him.Then find him in right place . Somewhat like alone. Go in front of him . Make sure you go alone. Block his way. And slap him right there on his cheeks .(not too hard.). Now situation is different , you are no more feeling nervous.Because he is stunned by your act.Now you can explain him that why you planted that slap. apologize to him first that you did that On purpose because it was him who was making you nervous as he is exceptionally charming.And You are just trying to propose something. which you were unable to do that because he was making you nervous.And then simply express your feelings about him completely.this way he'll listen to you with his best attentions.But you have to be confident and polite enough after slapping him.And in the last when you are finished you can apologize with a smile. Thats it.Ps: The reason i asked you to slap him is that . when you are feeling nervous it can happen you can't act normal and your performance is downgraded. But when you are angry because of your adrenaline your performance is enhanced and nervousness get depressed.
How can you tell if a shy guy likes you?
hey laura. ive been in the position and i still am. ha! usually, well my shy guy and im sure this goes to most shy guys, is that he might not talk to you for a long time, because of his insecurity. its going to be a tough time for u and him, because your both going to be waiting for the other to make a move first. best thing to do and what worked for me, is turn on the charm a little. smile and hold that sime for a few seconds longer. smiling will let him know that you havent lost inerest in him and hopefully will give him some reassurance and courage to possably say some thing to you. however, maybe you are not that shy. you spoke to him and i think what you did was cute. :) and im sure he thought that to. thing u need to understand with shy guys is, that, they can become quite scared and might not ever find it in them to come over to you. so u might have to make a move, what worked for me, was just not to think to much. when the opperunity presents it self..jsut DO! dont think...thinking will ruin it. just say some thing,maybe a little helllo...short and sweet. then build on the convos. this could me a long journey, so take it slow.any fast moves will make him scared. firstly, start talking to him., does he like you? well, some signs are, stares, when you are not looking, shy hellos, lingering smiles, politenss like opening doors, talking your things. and if his frineds look at you a lot. that could also be a sign...im speeking from my experience. im just like you. and this is what i knw. take it easy...it will fall into place. tc ps, i also agree with comment above me, sometimes, they will not talk or lok your way but will do it sneekly, v.cute, once the guy i like came to the libary, we were in a meeting, and he said hello to everyone on the table except me...other times, ive cought jhim looking at me. so its evident when they like you.
How can you tell that a shy guy likes you?
I'm in 10th grade and i like this guy who his friends say is shy. I don't talk to him because i'm new to the school and i'm also very shy. He seems very polite because he has opened the door for me a couple of times when he walks in class in front of me. One day we were going out the door and we reached it at the same moment and he said "go ahead" and when i opened the door for him he said thank you but he would never look into my eyes, but i sometimes think i see him looking at me from the corner of my eyes, not sure though. my friend has told him that i liked him 2 months ago but when my friend told a teacher of ours that i wanted to be in the class because of my "boyfriend" (meaning my crush)and my teacher told my crush that they were referring to him, he just giggled and smiled (i wasn't in the room). How do i know that he likes me or if i have a chance? wat should i do? sorry that this is long and thank you in advance.
Do girls get very shy around guys they like?
depends on the girl. i am shy so i tend to be. i am usually not sure what to say cause i dont want to sound stupid. also i dont want to say anything that will make them think i like them cause usually i am scared that they will not like me in return. that is just my opinion. sooner or later you will be able to figure it out though
How do I tell a guy I like him if we are both shy and awkward around each other?
Telling him you like him is confrontational. A shy person won’t respond well to confrontation. It’s too much pressure all at once. He might get defensive or scared and push you away. Don’t do this.At least, don’t do it this way. ;)You’re already hanging out, so you’re past the first hurdle. He’s comfortable around you. So the next time you suggest hanging out, all you have to do is phrase it differently.“Instead of (doing homework/getting coffee/whatever you’ve been doing) next week, would you like to go on a date instead? I thought we could (share a meal/go bowling/see a movie)”This gets the message across clearly, but it’s not pressure.
I'm shy. How do I let a guy know I'm interested?
Eye contact and touch. Once in a while when you talking or whatever reach over and touch his hand. Make direct eye contact while your doing it, touching his hand, that is. Its all in receptiveness. A woman has ALWAYS picked the man. He gets his ques from you. If your receptive he will continue to try to win your favor. If he continues and your not receptive that is called stalking. So you ladies out there need to make your cues loud and clear.After a decade of dealing with social anxiety and trying everything from medication, reading every book under the sun and even solo travelling around the world to try and break out of my shell I’ve finally figured out what it takes. And honestly it could have been done in a few weeks.Everyone is, of course, different. And we all experience different levels of shyness or social anxiety. But when you come right down to everyone is dealing with the same learned behavioural problem with the same root cause and same root cure.Learned experience has caused it. Whether you were 5 or 35 the lower levels of your brain has learned to fear social situations. And the answer is re-training this lower level of your brain in a controlled way (because just throwing yourself into the deep end reinforces the problem in the long run). In theory, I learned that a long time ago. Putting it into practice was another story. I know how easy it is to get the feeling nobody else is going through the same thing as you are but I promise you at the root it’s all the same thing. I spent years hiding away in my room watching TV and playing games because I was easier than going out and facing people as much as I really wanted to. Watching others lead lives I wish I had but never understanding how they managed to talk to people so easily.I’m not normally one to suggest self-help books. Partly because I’m a guy and partly because I’ve read a load of them and most don’t actually have anything you can use in the real world. I did find the thing which finally turned my life around (and a way you can download the full audiobook for free): Shy to Social Free Audio Book and Community