My crush thinks im a sl*t? Please read & answer!?!?
Yikes O.o Sounds like you've definitely got a case of a bad rep on your hands, hun. BUT, in my personal opinion, the best way to dash a bad reputation is to prove it wrong! If you start wearing more modest clothing (if you already do dress modestly, then just ignore this one D8), that might help a bit. It could clue people in that "Hey, this girl's turning around!" When those guys start mocking you, ignoring them is a good option, but another is to face them. Tell them that you've changed, that you aren't like that any more. But do it in a kind way. You'll be heaping hot coals on their heads, and more likely than not, if you're genuinely kind to them, they may start feeling bad for treating you like crap. On the note of being kind, if you smile to everyone and treat everyone kindly, boys'll get the idea that you're not flirting with them, you're just nice to everyone. And as for the boy... you definitely, above everyone else, want to show him that you've changed. Be honest and friendly to him; ask him how his day's been, or how life's treating him, etc, etc. Get to be his friend first. As a male friend of mine told me, it's looks that guys pay attention to at first, but as they get to know a girl, the looks start mattering less and less, and the personality becomes more important. Show this guy that you're more than boobs- that you're a wonderful human being with a capacity for true love :) If you do wanna email me and talk to me further, feel free to email me at mecouden@northstate.net :D Hope I can help ya' out some!
My crush called me "pretty" should I read more into it?
If you think I'm an idiot, the please skip this. Please dont be an abusive prick. Recently, I sent my long time crush an article I wanted him to read via Blackberry. He texted me back and simply said, "You're so pretty." Out of nowhere. He knew I liked him last year but since then I have eased up since I though he lost interest (he stopped responding to messages from me, after he learned I dated one of his friends in the past). This may sound stupid but I'm not used to being called "pretty" by a guy before. I get called "sexy" and "hot" a lot. Good looking, too. I do look good but most of the time, I suspect guys just give me compliments to boost my ego and get me in bed. But to be called "pretty" just sounds so sweet...as if its so pure and the guy wants more than just hooking up...like he's actually interested in me as a person (even though he complemented my looks and not really my personality). But I dont know? should I just move on (I already thanked him) or would it be safe to open up that I still like him. I have never been intimate with him so I dont think he's just saying stuff to get me in bed "again."
Is my 'playing hard to get' making him lose interest?
I have a huge crush on one of my guy friends and I've heard that he likes me too. We casually hook up every now and then. I read "The Rules" and other books that say I should be more elusive, aloof, and unavailable. (Turn down dates and be more busy). So that's what I've been doing but now he calls me less and may be losing interest. Either he doesn't want to keep asking for fear of me losing interest in him or he knows exactly what I'm doing. What should I do?? I don't want to tell him that I really like him either.
How do you tell if someone has a crush on you?
It's only obvious ...
I wished my crush a happy birthday text but he just said thanks. Read the DESCRIPTION! What's going on?
So yesterday was my crushes birthday but I totally forgot and I felt sorta bad because last year I sent him a happy birthday text on his birthday. (I've been pretty sure he likes me for a while and my friends agree). I finally realized it was his birthday today after school and I went the entire day at school not mentioning a word about his birthday while talking with him. When I realized I sent him a text while I knew he was at practice so he'd see it after practice and maybe smile. I said, Happy Belated Birthday(3 party emojis) he responded later after practice saying: thanks That's all. That's exactly what he said last year when I liked him and I was sure he didn't like me. What does that mean? Is he offended and thought I didn't have the guts to say happy birthday to him at school (he knows I like him) what's up with him?! He's actually a pretty emotional guy and really cool unlike other guys. Does he like me and was just nervous as to what he should say back!?