What Should I Tell My Friend About This Incident

What is the funniest incident between you and your friends?

I was watching a movie with my roommate in my hostel room. Suddenly umesh entered the room, looked worried and said "Dude i am not seeing my roommate from last 2-3 hours and his phone is in his locker and its ringing continuously. There might be something serious, I don't know what to do". I went out with umesh looking for his roommate in the campus.finally we found him studying with his friends in one of the hostel rooms. We told him the whole story and got him to his room. He checked his phone and there were many misscalls from his friends but thats not the interesting thing. We found a text message from my roommate saying "Dude, where are you? your phone is ringing continuously, come fast to the room."That one moment, we saw each others face and burst into laughter and my roommate started looking for items to hide his face. He is working in Germany now, and he still gets irritated everytime we talk about that incident, and he is gonna kill me after seeing this.

My boyfriend had an accident and he didn't tell me, l knew about it through a mutual friend. When l told him, he said it was a small one and no harm happened. He didn't want me to worry and that he didn't tell anyone else. l knew by accident that he told his best friend. Why did he lie?

Some people worry/say lying is the sign of a bad relationship. I do and don't agree.This sounds like a white lie that maybe should not have been lied about if you guys have common insurance. Some things you should tell your SO about but some things maybe you should avoid telling. For instance if we just started dating maybe I shouldn't tell you that I dislike your brother. (Depends on the relationship you have with him) Maybe after a length of time I should tell you I don't like spending time with him (I'm still not telling you I dislike him) Maybe when we are getting serious I should tell you I don't like spending time with him because I really don't like him. I would justify this to myself that I'm telling you a white lie in a attempt not to hurt/worry you. Maybe your boyfriend told you a white lie. Just because I would tell that lie doesn't mean that I would be truthful about other things and I also really believe in honesty. (Although it doesn't sound like it)

I cheated on my gf with her best friend by accident. Should I tell her or just take it to the grave?

Many years ago, my best friend’s gf (who I was also friends with) happened to accidentally fall in love with me. Falling in love, on a sidenote, is much easier accomplished by accident than sex, which takes real skill.Now, said gf chose to confess her feelings to me one fine day and I told her that I wasn’t interested. I was on a trip at the time and when I came back I did not exactly jump at the first opportunity to tell my friend about this whole drama. When I finally fessed up he calmly told me he knew already something was up. He knew me, and I was acting guilty. Despite me having done pretty much nothing (aside from flirting with her a little more than was in retrospect a good idea) it did some serious damage to our friendship at the time.Even if you don’t tell your girlfriend that you cheated on her, it will come out. Maybe she will “smell” your betrayal, because she knows you. Or maybe her friend will slip up. Or one of her other friends will figure it out and tell her. Either way, the chances that in this construct you can sucessfully hide what happened are pretty close to zero. And even if you, through some miracle or another, manage to cover it up, your relationship will always be just that little bit worse because you know what you’ve done - and she will feel it on some level.Man up and tell her. It’s uncomfortable to be sure and it will do a lot of damage to all relationships involved - but that you should have considered before you stuck your dick into her best friend. Now she gets to say if she wants to hang around to work things out with either of you guys. Tell her.

What is one incident in your life when you feel proud, sad and disgusted because of that incident?

I’ve stayed in boarding for 10 years now, currently doing my post graduation. Fortunate enough to have received education from the reputed institutes. My parents have always directed me to the thought that education is wealth.So one fine day, I come home after giving my final exam. Happy and joyful as ever. My maternal aunt comes to visit me, asking me about my well being. I answer to all her questions with zest. My parents join our conversation.Aunt : So what are your future plans?Me : Planning to take a year break. I want to experience the corporate world and then go ahead with my management course.Aunt : You still want to study? Don’t you feel you should get married now?Dad(intervening the conversation) : She wants to study ahead. We are more than happy on what she’s chosen.Aunt : You should get her married. She’s a girl. It’s obvious that you have to take a lot of debts for her upbringing. Education will not yield you any returns. You will take your entire life to repay your girl child’s loan.Me and my dad looked at each other astonished. We didn’t even take efforts to explain it to her. We realised that some things in life are better left unsaid.This one incident is stuck to my mind. The words she uttered that day has made me more clear in life.That very day I was proud that my parents were wise enough to trust me and let me choose my aim in life. I was proud that my aunt’s words were not a barrier in life.I was extremely sad on how a girl is treated as a misfortune and burden despite being successful in all the fields.It obviously felt disgusting as to how a woman could tell this to other woman who wanted nothing but to prosper in life.All such people with degrading minds, all I want to tell you is that, “we are given a life to grab the opportunity, not to seek your choices.”