How do I avoid my family at Christmas?
If you are living on your own, you can tell them you are starting your own Christmas traditions.If removing yourself completely is not an option, then limit your exposure.Christmas time is when the US studios are releasing their Oscar contending movies. Go see one or more of those. That will kill at least 3 hours.Or you can do what I do - volunteer to take all the kids outside.I am the fun uncle who takes the kids treasure hunting. It actually called geocaching, but the kids don't care. They just want to run around outside and find treasure.After a few hours of outdoor fun with a bunch of high energy kids, nobody blinks an eye that you go take a nap.And since I am known to go to bed early and wake up early, I spend about only 4 hours with relatives in the evening.Then there is the last trick during the unavoidable times… teaching the kids something new. It can be board games, baking cookies, or arts and crafts. Whatever your hobbies might be, teach the kids. They want to know what you know, they just don't know what to ask.
What Christmas gift should I never get for my children?
It depends on the age group, but I suggest no electronics or computers until high school, even then with a set of rules limiting use. Toys needing batteries are sometimes also a problem especially expensive batteries. Toys that make an annoying noise you'll regret buying within 2 minutes flat.Young children should get presents that challenge them to aquire a skill, like Lego or swingball, maybe the Brio (or similar) train set, something to keep them busy for hours. Fantasy toys are also great, like dress-up clothing, hats or helmets like Bob the builder, fireman etc. There are also a wide variety of Princess stuff including little handbags and even shoes.I don't recommend any weapons or guns. Sports equipment are good presents for older kids.
Is the snuggie a bad christmas present?
I am trying to get my entire family a christmas present this year, of course I also have a spending limit. I have seen the TV commercial for it and it looks good for people who stay at home. My mom stays at home a lot and complains that its cold, so I thought this would be the ideal present. I have heard they haev gotten bad reviews though... So are snuggies a bad gift?
What Should I Get My Sugar Daddy for Christmas?
Since it's early in the relationship, you don't need to go too crazy. I'd get him two things. The first is something a little silly, like a movie he's been wanting, something electronic he won't buy himself (example: my husband is DYING for electric hedge trimmers. i know. haha) And then something nice to show your affection: a sweater, a shirt and tie, something like that that he can think of you every time he puts on. Good luck! Merry Christmas!
Should I give a Christmas gift to a boy (20 years old) who I like but he barely know me? If yes, what should I choose as a gift?
Originally answered “Should I give a Christmas present to my coach who had inspired me this year, but we're not close?”This is the first year I can actually buy Christmas presents (adulting and shit). I have a lot of people I consider family. People I'm close to an care about a lot. I would love to give every single one of them presents.I was overwhelmed because I was feeling obligated to get everyone presents and I just don't got the funds for that or the time to make everyone something hand made.My dad spared me some words of wisdom. “Your siblings, your parents, and maybe grandparents because we live with them. And then just something small and sentimental like a picture in a picture frame. If you want to.”I mentioned cousins. He said. “I have never ever gotten a gift from a cousin and no one has given me grief for not giving extended family presents.”I finished my Christmas shopping yesterday without guilt. There are friends and family of mine that can extend presents outside of that circle, and they give me gifts. I graciously accept, and they have never guilted me about not giving them anything.When I have the ability to extend my christmas list, I will happily return the favor. But, as I've been vocal on my limits, everyone has been very understanding and don't feel entitled to presents. That's not what Christmas is about anyway.So, I don't think you should do anything. If you would like to give a present and have the means to do so, the coach would likely be flattered.
Christmas wish list ideas for teenage girls?
Uggs and uggs spray Toms shoes Converse Hollister sweatpants Candy Sephora gift card Aeropostale hoodies Nail polish Nail art kit Bike Pillow pet Snuggie Concert tickets Hunger games DVD Divergent or crank book series Mean girls DVD Favorite tv show on DVD Favorite artist on music cd Board game like jenga or would you rather Credit card Donation to st. Judes New bedspread Calligraphy pens Sketchbook Colored pencils Neon markers High liters Hair curler Hair crimper Hair straightener Make up Disney princess apron Robes and slippers Bath and body works box set (in your favorite scent) Perfume ITunes gift card iPod touch or iPhone iPad or iPad mini Cases for phone, iPod, iPad, or iPad mini Headphones Lamp for your room Fathead Cardboard cutout of your fsvorite celebrity Cute sweater Jeans Boots Target gift card Spanish dictionary (or any language you want) Cute little trinkets Magazine subscription Zebra bean bag chair Pencils Notebooks New stuff for your room Forever 21 jewelry Laptop Summer camp tuition
My husband gave me an empty box for Christmas..?
For those of you who asked, I bought him the super-expensive earphones he wanted, and made him a stocking full of sweets. I also bought a bunch of stuff for his recently-divorced mother, and prepared a huge dinner. I think I will just stop putting in such an effort for someone who has obviously checked out of the marriage. Thanks for all your advice!
What are some tips to help me stay sober at my work Christmas party?
If it’s a real problem, don’t gootherwise just get a glass and fill it up with Soda water,carry it around and every time someone offers you a top up then say no thanks just got one.If it’s your future prospects you are concerned about then remind yourself that you never know what useful information you might glean if you are still sober and the rest are not !Everyone should make the point of being stone cold sober at a party at least once ! It is an education In itself
I feel an inadequate mom for being poor this Christmas?
I can relate my dear. My husband and I have four children. Last year was, well let's just say we are happy to have our house. Last year we had a 6yr oud, a 4yr old, and twins 3 years old. For four kids we spent $50.00 and all gifts were from the Dollar Store. I felt aweful, I cried as I wrapped them, out of sight of the kids of course. My husband is a trucker and it hurt his so bad to know he was doing all he could and it wasn't enough. Freight is slow during the winter months. I kept positive around the kids, A friend of my husband gave us a 4 foot tree. It wasn't much but we were greatful. We decorated our tree as a family and put our angel atop and told stories of what the tree represented. Last year we talked more about what the real reason of Christmas was about. I think we all learned alot. Christmas morning "Santa" left the 2 gifts per child under the tree. The kids awoke and were smiling and laughing and thrilled at what they got. My husband and I were both crying then but they were happy tears because we grew up a little at that moment. Its not how much you spend or what they get, its about being together as a family, being strong, and making it work. I hope that you feel that way Christmas too. Someone is always going to have something bigger or more expensive but is it neccesarily better? Love is free, so are hugs and kisses and stories. Merry Christmas
I didn't get anything for Christmas. He helps me when I am sick. My boyfriend goes out of his way for me. Do I tell them I am hurt and can't get over it? I'm mad as hell.
You have a man who, in your words, “goes out of his way” for you. By implication, this means that he sacrifices his own needs, wants and even duties, if necessary, to support you in your time of need.You have a man who, from the little-to-next-to-none, information you supply, does not hit you, push you, shove you, yell at you or insult you. One who, from that implication, seem to be able to take your tantrums and complaints and whinings without losing his temper with you, without telling you to shut up, without telling you to back off, he’s tired - though he probably longs for a bed and darkness and silence when he gets home. Again, this is suspicion, based on the almost no information you supplied.You have a man who, by implication of the little information given, does the laundry, makes the meals and does the dishes even though may be dead-tired after a day at work. Who cleans the house and does the yard and feeds the animals, without complaints.Because he loves you and shows it in his patience.If you want to keep him, forget about your petty little present that apparently means more than he does. Maybe you should do him a favour and get him another lover who appreciates him, while you go to work on your selfish attitude.