What sign would backstab you or talk BS behind your back??
Some Cancers .
What does the Bible say about people who talk behind your back?
The bible calls people who talk behind your back gossipers. Not all gossip is necessarily bad or harmful. A person could say something good about someone to another person. There is nothing wrong with that. However the bible condemns slandering someone with gossip.“A slanderer goes about revealing confidential talk; Do not associate with one who loves to gossip” Proverbs 29:19 NWT“At the same time they also learn to be unoccupied, going around from one house to another; yes, not only unoccupied but also gossipers and meddlers in other people’s affairs, talking about things they should not” 1 Timothy 5:13 NWTThe bible counsels us to control what we say and to think before we speak.“Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue Keepeth his soul from troubles.” Proverbs 21:23 ASVRather than succumb to gossip and slander the Scriptures urge us to safeguard the heart and to think on and speak of the things that are good.“Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are of serious concern, whatever things are righteous, whatever things are chaste, whatever things are lovable, whatever things are well-spoken-of, whatever things are virtuous, and whatever things are praiseworthy, continue considering these things.Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are of serious concern, whatever things are righteous, whatever things are chaste, whatever things are lovable, whatever things are well-spoken-of, whatever things are virtuous, and whatever things are praiseworthy, continue considering these things.” Philippians 4:8 NWTTrue Christians do not engage in slanderous gossip. They strive to live their life in the same manner as Jesus Christ did. King David of ancient Israel spoke of the kind of person that God would allow access to him:“The one who is walking faultlessly, Practicing what is right And speaking the truth in his heart. 3 He does not slander with his tongue, He does nothing bad to his neighbor, And he does not defame his friends. 4 He rejects anyone who is contemptible, But he honors those fearing Jehovah. He does not go back on his promise, even when it is bad for him.” Psalm 15:2–4 NWTBottom line: Gossiping negatively about others is condemned in the bible and one who engages in that kind of conduct is not a genuine Christian.
Based on your experience, What sign(s) backstab all the time?
Two Capricorns and two Cancers. People always give Scorpios **** for being vengeful but I've never had this happen to me, even though we fight all the time. I've also never had this problem with Geminis: I know they gossip but I usually hear good gossip from them. A Capricorn recently did this to me and my boss had to tell her to stay away from me because co-workers of ours were telling on her and I tried to ignore her. Another Capricorn did this immature BS to me in high school and stole most of my friends/turned them against me because I made new friends wherever I went.. A Cancer got jealous that some guy liked me and not her and betrayed me and talked **** about me behind my back. Another Cancer(guy) talks about me all the time to the Capricorn girl at work and then tries to be friends with me and I just ask him why he's talking to me, because I really don't understand why they do this to me.
My best friend backstabbed me and dated my crush right behind my back while she never told me how she felt. How do I get over it?
Honestly, you need to decide how much you value her friendship. What is it about her that makes her a good friend? Do you value those things more than a random crush? The likelihood is this fellow isn’t going to be around long. However, a good friend could be there for you forever.I know a lot of people feel they have first dibs on someone they are interested in. Life doesn’t work that way though. She made the first move and he reciprocated. There are two peoole involved in that relationship. It was his decision too. Next time, step up to the plate.
Which sign is most likely to backstab you when your relationship with them is over?
scorpio sagittarius capricorn taurus aries. cancer. sometimes pisces. no.my next dating wouldn't depend on the previous dating.if i like the person in the present moment i will date them anyhow.but if it's really hard to handle their bs,then i will leave and never look back at that particular person but not the sign.
How do I deal with backstabbing co workers?
I work in a retail store that is mainly men, aside from one other female. She is constantly saying negative, bad things about me behind my back to just about everyone I work with. I even gave her the opportunity to speak up about performance issues at our weekly meeting and she said "I'm doing great" I get tired of hearing from everyone that she talks so much smack, but she doesn't have the guts to say anything to my face? She has actually gone as far as saying she is going to call our HR and file a complaint about me being able to take a maternity leave, because she didn't think it was fair I got one and was able to have my job back. It's one of those situations where someone is always looking over your shoulder waiting for you to screw up then they turn right around and make sure they tell someone when you do. (Pretty much everyone else says I'm doing a wonderful job, but I'm tired of the back stabbing.) What do I do?
How do you overcome hurt when people backstabbed you?
How do you overcome hurt when people backstabbed you?You offer yourself the same compassion you would offer to a beloved friend.You do some work on this, some journalling:How have I backstabbed others?How have I backstabbed myself?How have I given people the idea that it is okay to treat me like this?What can I learn from this?Why is this happening a great thing?Answers to the above could be - I have space now for better people in my life, YAY! I have learnt how I absolutely do not want to ever behave, having experienced this, I now have so much empathy, that I will endeavor to never treat MYSELF or ANY OTHER in this way. That is a great thing! I have evolved as a person.Then you let go, then you forgive them by setting boundaries. If they have not apologised to you, told you how much they have learnt from treating you like that and tell you what steps they have taken to not do it again.. IF they do not do the work, you do the work for them by never letting them have the opportunity to backstab you again.You find hobbies, you set your own life goals - you live well, that is the best revenge.Good luck.
Without confrontation, how do you deal with a backstabbing narcissistic colleague at work?
In one of my first jobs I had a guy like that who was constantly saying bullshit about me to my boss behind my back and pretended my colleague on a day to day business. I figured out that he is backstabbing me after a year or so when my boss mentioned some situation during the project that happened only between us.There is no way to deal with it without confrontation. And this has to be a public one in the middle of the office. You have to make a harsh reaction especially if he/she said a lot of bullshit about you that might harm you or your position in a company. Do not scream, do not make a scene, remain ice cold and confront him/her, let this person know that he/she is a asshole and you demand public apology. After that tell this person that apart of professional contact that is required in work you don’t want to have any contact with that person (polite GTFO). Reaction like that is the best way to just neglect everything bad that was said about you - just think it through, what exactly you want to say it is a one time opportunity to deal with it right.