How do you get a girl to tell you what's wrong?
How do you get a girl to tell you what's wrong? My girlfriend of four years and I had sex four nights ago. She was a virgin. I asked her if she was okay during it and she said yeah. I went slow and gentle. Then we fell asleep and a couple hours later she got up, and went to the bathroom and started crying. She came back to the bed shaking and still crying a little bit. I asked her if I hurt her. She said no. Yesterday she was still all shakey. I hugged her and she hugged me back tightly. I asked her what was wrong again and she told me nothing. I know there's something wrong. Why won't she tell me? It's driving me crazy! PS- We both agreed to have intercourse, and used protection. Then later today I told her that she can tell me anything. She said that she knows, and hugged her again. She kissed me and we made out for a while. I sat on the couch she sat on my lap and she wrapped her arms around me and cried into my shirt..She eventually fell asleep on me We're both 19. How do I get her to tell me what's going on!? I know it's probably about losing her virginity..but why will she still make out with me and tells me how much she loves me. But not tell me what's wrong? All she does is cry.
Can someone tell me what is wrong?
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My girlfriend won't tell me what is wrong?
Aww, first of all, I just wanna say, I think it's cute how you watch out for her and ask what's wrong when you know she's upset. A lot of guys just completely ignore it. But anyway... I've been with my bf for 2 years and 2 months, and I tell him all the time that he's like my best friend: I tell him everything, I cry in front of him when there's something wrong, and he's always there to listen, give me advice and make me feel better. But sometimes, girls just need to be around their girlfriends, you know? Like sometimes, there are things that I feel like I need to keep to myself before I tell my bf. Or sometimes I feel more comfortable to talk to some of my girlfriends before I talk to him about? My advice is... For now, let her know you're worried and that you want to help. Tell her you care and make her feel like you're there to support her. But don't pressure her into telling you. When she's ready to talk, she will.
My friend won't tell me what's wrong?
I understand that sometimes people just don't want to talk about things and that you should just leave them alone about it rather than bugging them. However, one of my friends (her name is Erica) was crying yesterday. I asked what was wrong because I was worried about her, but instead of just saying she didn't want to talk about it, she basically attacked me for even asking. I tried to tell her that I was just worried about her and that she didn't have to tell me if she didn't want to, but she just brushed me off like I was an annoying puppy that wouldn't leave you alone. Later, she was upset again and I asked if it had something to do with why she was upset before. She said yes, so I asked if she wanted to talk about it (keep in mind that I once again told her that she didn't need to tell me if it was personal or she just would rather keep it to herself). She glared at me, told me it was a long story and that I was being a nosy b**** for bugging her about it. I only asked her about it twice and told her both times that I wouldn't press it if she didn't feel like telling me. I only even asked the second time because she seemed fine then was suddenly upset again. Also, she went and told every single other one of my friends what was wrong and they all said that it was a huge thing and that they didn't feel right telling me since it wasn't their thing to tell. I just don't understand why my friend won't tell me, and why she's acting so strange around me. She used to tell me EVERYTHING with no hesitation whatsoever. If she doesn't want to tell me this, then fine. It's her business, but why is she acting like I'm a two year old who's just bothering her??
My girlfriend won t tell me what s wrong?
My girlfriend has been acting upset lately, we just had a date and we had our first kiss and after the date she seemed fine but the next day she was upset about something and I asked her but she won t tell me what s wrong, I want to find out because I want to be there for her so I can help her. How do I get t her to tell me what s wrong?
Is it wrong to tell a girl that you want to get to know her better?
You expressed your intentions in a respectful manner and she acknowledged your intentions and explained that she did not share them.That’s okay, it happens. It doesn’t mean that you did anything wrong.The argument is not that as long as you respectfully express interest in someone they will reciprocate 100% of the time. The argument is simply that if you express interest respectfully, it is more likely to be successful than if you express it disrespectfully. And additionally, the decent thing to do is be respectful and not to harass.You did not do anything wrong and there is not something wrong with respectfully expressing interest in a girl or telling her you’d like to get to know her better. Unfortunately this particular person did not feel the same way but that does not mean that it’s the result of something you did wrong, she may have her own reasons. And additionally, it does not mean that someone else in the future may not respond well to the same approach.Rejection, unfortunately is something that happens. Many, many people get rejected. It’s not the getting rejected that matters, it’s how you react to it.If you react to it by refusing to express interest in anyone ever again, that’s a bad reaction. If you react to it by taking personal offense and getting nasty towards the other person, that’s a bad reaction. If you react to it by simply shrugging it off, remaining secure in your self-worth and expressing interest in others you like, with the full knowledge and peace with the fact that rejection might happen, that’s a very good reaction to have. And it’s the one I suggest to you because eventually people with this type of healthy attitude towards rejection tend to succeed.