How to improve myself over the summer?
Hey guys! My summer just started and I want to completely change myself over the summer, and when the summers end I want to look prettier and I want it to like, have a drastic change on me. Can you please give me some ideas on how I can improve myself! SKIN- my skin is pretty much normal, not dry or oily, but its patchy and extremely tanned :( I want the tan to go away and my skin to give out a gloww. EYES- I have really dark, dark circles!(and its not genetic, started getting them about years ago) Is there any effective way to remove them asap? And my eyebrows are reallyyyy light, is there any way to darken them? and something natural that can make my lashes grow longer and thicker as they are hardly visible! LIPS- My lips are becoming really puffy now, although they weren't before. and the weirdest thing is that the top part of my lip is more brownish and my lower lip is quite pink. so yeah it looks pretty weird. HAIR- I had straight hair but since I cut it in layers, its starting to get wavy, any idea on how I can make it straight again without using straighter? And my hair is jet black but its realllyyy thin and I have a lot of hair fall. how can I make my hair thick and reduce hairfall preferably using natural things, not hair products. WEIGHT- I want to GAIN a few extra pounds. Im only 72 pounds and Im 13 years old. Every one says I look way too skinny! I wanna be atleast 80-85 pounds! Is there any specific thing I should eat, something that actually tastes good and not something I feel like pukingg? WOW THATS ALOT. But please reply soon with something helpful. and yeas, please don't say I should have more self-confident and all, everyone in my school are drop-dead gorgeous and I feel like a loser. I do have a lot of self-confidence but beauty does infact increase it! THANKS A LOT!
How do I accept the way I look if I can't change it?
• I have rough hair,am almost blind in one eye(lost my lens and cornea at the age of 9),have terribly distorted teeth because i did not let any of them fall off naturally:p and i do not even sound as sweet as my female friends do. Despite all this,everytime i look at myself in the mirror there is nothing that i don't like about myself. Though most of the credit for such confidence goes to my friends but no compliment sounds worthy unless one feels good about oneself. You sound apprehensive and the reasons are obvious but it would be nice if you let go of what others think and that happens gradually. • Admire yourself,start liking little things about yourself,dress up nicely because that is an integral part of being confident. It is when you carry yourself well that people look up to you. Though the changes that follow will take time to be noticeable so don't get impatient okay:)
Why do ex girlfriends change their look and try to look hotter and MAKE SURE you know about it?
Ex boyfriends do it too. My ex went to the gym and lost his beer belly when I broke up with him. He started looking super hot. However I broke up with him because he was an as*hole, and no amount of working out can change that! It's just something for the ego, everyone does it. I'm sure you will or have done after a break up. And perhaps you are being a bit self centred, not everything they change or do will be for you, or to show you how hot they are. Break ups are difficult things, and they cause you to want to change certain things about your body, yourself, your life... Also, they are back on the "market" so to speak, so perhaps their improvement is for other men and not you. Who knows. Though of course they want you too see how great they're looking now, it's pretty natural- like "HA! Look how hawt I am now biatch. Bet you regret dumping me now ;)" lol. It's a way for the to preserve their confidence and survive the breakup.
Why Are Women Threatened By My Looks?
Women are threatened by my appearance and I hardly have any female friends. I smile and I'm a positive person. I never hit on someone else's husband or boyfriend when they are the ones who are hitting on me and I am at fault for it. It hurts to see other women talk behind my back and give me looks like I'm a biatch, whore, slut, when I didn't do anything to them or their boyfriends/husbands. I guess they are jealous or threatened of me, my looks, or something, so they give me a bad name and spread rumors behind my back. I take care of myself, exercise, and eat right. I know how to dress. I wear clothes that doesn't show my cleavage and if I wear dresses, they are below my knees, not miniskirts. I do not dress promiscuous like I'm asking for it. Natural beauty runs in my family. My mother is beautiful and graceful for her age and looks like a model. My grandmother is almost 70 and still looks stunning and beautiful. How do I make other women trust me because I am a good person?