How do I deal with my girlfriend!?
My girlfriend moved in with me a few months ago, she refuses to work, refuses to be a homemaker and she’s overall lazy when it comes to doing anything for the house or me. She has very high energy, she jogs daily and even runs in the house for exercise which is odd, she runs up and down the hall sometimes at 2-4 am when I’m trying to sleep. She’s usually up all night.. I do everything, cooking I cook all her and my meals, cleaning even cleaning up behind her, and I pay for everything. She tends to be very whiny and throws a tantrum like a toddler when I tell her she has to work. She starts crying and saying woman shouldn’t have to work. She often acts like a toddler, I almost feel like I’m raising her.. she’s very odd, doesn’t like to cuddle, she’s usually always sexually excited, she gets insecure when I leave for work and calls me a million times if I’m 10 min late coming home. I love her and don’t want to leave her, but I feel somewhat abused, how can I be treated this way.. how can I bring it up!?
What to do about my prude girlfriend?
The problem is your understanding of what love really is. I understand your frustration, but love isnt all about sex and it doesnt have to be proof of love. If you DID truly love her, you would accept her feelings and be patient with her. Even though sex isnt proof of love, she might not really love you either. So, first I would recommend that you assess your relationship and look for other ways to tell if she loves you back. If she doesnt, you might just be better off moving on. I know this sounds confusing, but the bottom line is; If you are looking for sex and unhappy without it, you probably arent as in love as you think you are. It MAY also be true that she doesnt love you like she says or thinks either. However, dont think that sex is the determining factor- that is the number one reason people do not stay together forever- they allow sex to mislead them into thinking they are in love. I would recommend that you leave the whole LOVE scene alone and go get what you are looking for. Love will find you someday, and when it truly does find you- you will never have to ask any questions like this anymore because it will all come to you naturally. If sex is something that you MUST have, be smart and safe about it. It would really suck for you to get some incurable disease, because that would really put a kink in your future love life. You would never want to jeopardize the woman you really love, and you might just want kids some day! I think you know that you cant force sex on your current girlfriend, so your only choice is to wait or bail. Right!?
Why do you love your girlfriend?
To be honest I would have to say that I love my girlfriend for who she is and the way she is I am in a wheelchair and she has never loved me any less than when I was on my feet she is the 1 in a million that most men want to find.
How do I handle my girlfriend?
Thanks for the A2A.You shouldn’t break up with her just because she has a tendency to pass the buck.You’re lucky to have someone who loves you and meets all your needs too!Making you out to be the bad guy doesn’t immediately imply that she’s dumb and doesn’t realize who was at fault.Think of it as a defense mechanism.She probably knows she screwed up, but doesn’t want to admit it.Does that make her a horrible person, or someone you’ll never be able to live with?Technically it’s not even manipulation as long as she doesn’t start crying every time she’s at fault so you’d be forced to forgive her instantly.You can’t expect her to read your mind, how will she understand that her behaviour is pissing you off if you don’t tell her?Just tell her that you’re growing increasingly impatient, and that you really want to stay with her, but if she doesn’t change her ways, you’ll just get someone who will.Good luck!
My girlfriend cheated on me twice.. what should i do?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months.. she recently admitted to me that she has cheated on me twice, but it was the old side of her, she has changed. She said she wont do that again, ever. How did she cheat on me.. her ex. boyfriend came to my football game, my girlfriend disappeared and went to somewhere with him, i was on nation TV, scored 2 touchdowns. She missed my 2 TDS on nation TV.. cheated on me. She didn't have sex with him. Another, she told her ex boyfriend (not the same guy from 1st cheat) that she would come back for him if he moves here, he was better than me. I still love her more than anything but this kills me.. hanging out with a girl who has cheated on me twice would be really awkward. Please tell me what to do. I dont wanna give up on her at all.
What do I do about my girlfriend trying to make me jealous?
You can attempt not to respond to her attempts to make you jealous. It may not help. Young women who try to make their partners jealous typically suffer from extreme insecurity and they don't usually get better over time. Ian Conrad’s answer to this question is a good example of what can happen if you don't respond - the young woman escalates her campaign to make you jealous until she finally does something that makes you break up with her.You can try to talk to her about it. Tell her you don't like her trying to “test” your affection this way. Tell her instead of making you jealous, it makes you angry that she has so little respect for you. This might get her attention. If it doesn't, I suggest letting her go, unless you want to spend the next few years fighting about this with her.
What should I do if my girlfriend is controlling?
Hahahaha.!!! Buddy in most of the relationships girls are controlling .having the high powers .(#in many cases it's different n even opposite ) n it's okay as along as you don't have to compromise with your free space ,freedom n self-esteem. But if she is not giving a fuck about your opinions ,freedon,free space n self-respect them you have to take stepTalk to her that you dont like her controlling nature (initial step)Or the best thing you can do which is 100% guarantee goona work ( all my friends with same problem like yours tried this n it worked for all of them) is -switch character . told her let's play a game switch position where both you have to switch your character for a day . n treat her like the way she treats you ,be the one who is controlling in the realtion just for a day .then eventually at the end of the day she will realize her mistake .
My brother hates my girlfriend what should I do?
I think that you should have a talk with your brother tell him how much she means to you and that you would appreciate it if he tried getting along with her for your sake. If he still continues on acting like a jerk ,but you really love your girlfriend and you and her have been together for a lot time then who cares about the way your brother feels about your girlfriend as long as you and her get along, your brother really doesn't matter you're going to marry the girl not your brother.
What should I do about my girlfriend cutting herself?
Go to her house if you can, and take away objects she could possibly harm herself with. If she lives with her family- then don’t do that, and definitely do not tell her family, because they may not help very much, and she’ll get angry at you for digging into her business.Tell her how much you love her every day, note on little things she does that you notice (how she has such a variety of emotions, how she brushes her hair with her fingers when she’s nervous, etc).Do tons of things with her (no, not sex. I don’t feel like somebody who cuts is willing to show their body. Wait a while if you want to mingle), reading, studying, or going on dates. Text her a bunch.These are only tips, but please never leave someone after finding out they cut (even if it’s not for the reason they’re cutting), because that will make them feel as if they’re too dificult to love or be loved.