Desperately need help to catch my skype cheater hubby?
OH MY GOD!!!! Thanks so much for the humor Robert. I am laughing so hard I am crying!Knowing how yahoo answers is, I expected weird, creepy and mean or comical responses, but yours was "AMAZINGLY HYSTERICAL"! Love it! The strange thing is I am not heartbroken.this time. I was just REALLY pissed off at first.. I mean I am not gonna waste my life being the "good wife" while he is out having a fun time and I am at home doing everything. I am too cool and pretty to not have a social life!And the sex really sucks now, since he let himself go and got fat!.But earlier I went out got me a six pack of beer and am actually enjoying myself chatting with people online and yahoo answers right now, and feel a huge burden and weight is off my shoulders! I just want and need PROOF before I leave because he is gonna cry and plead and try to make me feel guilty! Last time that is what happened and i gave him another chance and stayed with him. I suggested an open relationship if
I caught my boyfriend texting with the girl he met at the club?
Me ang my bf in longtern relationship for 2 years. and we hasnt have anything like this happened. I love him and i sure that he also love me as well. 2days ago he went to clubbing without me. then after that i came to see him and he had weird behavior such as hiding things from his mobile phone when texting. .I asked he said it was his grand ma. Then she texted hin again then i have a quick look it wasnt his grandma's name then he said just a friend just knew from clubbing. But finally and as he admitted and he said " they bumped into each other and talk like know each other longtime. she is rare cos she is haflcast which Australian -Malaysian and she looked stunning hot. She bought him a drink and danced , kissed him straight away and she is mystery" She asked him his no phone and he gave it to her. and yeah they texting with each other all afternoon till night when i came to see him and finnally he admitted that he had love at first sight with this chick. Well yea...i just said if u put ur self in my how will you feel . If you feel ok so just keep doing it. If not so you know what to do. i'm quite calm just lilttle bit cry but not really fighting or yell at him. And he said sorry and he felt horrible, then i asked him to stop it and tell her that he had gf which he did. but he then he said he still really curious about her and want to know more about her. Which really really hurtt my feeling. I know he really like to talk to ppl and s.time a bit flirty. I told him that then he said its really hard to stop it and he know its bad. but hes human and attract to each other just the way it is. I aslo used to hangout cluubing with girl and there are plenty guys come up. but i just have fun, dancing and maybe kissing there. but after that. thats all. cos i knew that will not fair for him. But yeah I know its a small things but in my opinion prevent better than let it happen. And i learnt a lesson that never let your partner go clubbing without you. QUESTION: If your gf/bf did that to you, do you feel the same? and what will you do? Dont tell me break up:D bc..this wasnt really big thing.
My daughter has cut me out of her life?
My daughter's father was never in her life, and never tried to be. My husband was her father growing up. When she was 18, she tracked him down and he made it seem as though we kept him away which was a lie. This man never paid child support, tried to visit, or even contact her. I tried to get him involved for the first 6 years, but I got tired of begging him to be a father. We've tried to tell her all this when all the lies came out, but she said we were the liars and cut contact. Her father is a manipulate bastard and has brainwashed her. It's been 7 years and she refuses to speak to us. She's gotten married and had 2 children and she won't let us meet her husband or sons. The only contact we had was Facebook before she deleted us and she said her father and his wife (who was a HUGE part of the reason she refused to see her) are the grandparents, not us. It kills me that she believes this crap. We did everything for her and yet he's reaping the benefits? It's not fair. She won't listen to me. What can I do?
I have a friend that lies about her race..etc?
This friend of mine is hispanic. When we first met eachother she even told me she had some hispanic blood but didn't know exactly where they were from. A couple years went by and she suddenly started up this lie that she is Italian (more recently she would boastfully tell me,everyone and even some strangers that she is 100% Italian haha!) .I know it's a total lie. She looks full hispanic and her family is hispanic and I have even heard a few of them speak Spanish fluently. I think its so strange. Its not that she just told me this once, its that its all the time and it is annoying. The "Italian" thing comes every time I see her. She even wears shirts that have the Italian flag, phrases, etc. Its getting out of hand. She also calls blacks, hispanics, asians racist names which REALLY ticks me off I have even told her to not talk that way. It seems she is ashamed of her race and I feel sad for her but at the same time I just cannot be around someone so negative liar!! What to do?
How can I trust my wife again after she lied about smoking several times?
She's lying about it because you have taken such a firm stand on it. It is a very difficult habit to break. Hopefully her smoking is not detrimental to your marriage. She will quit when she wants to and when she's ready. You need to talk to her and assure her that she doesn't need to hide it. If it is not affecting your marriage, other than just making you mad, than choose your battles and hopefully let this go. And I agree with the poster who said it's difficult to hide. She probably only smokes when she's stressed.
Little lies turning into a BIG problem?
I have been with my fiance for 1 1/2 years now. Our wedding is set for November 2011. However, recently, he's been lying to me about little things but so frequently it is starting to concern me. He'll lie about where he was-- I'll ask if he talked to so and so today, he'll deny it, then I'll add that I talked to them and they said they had lunch with him. Then he'll 'remember' it suddenly. At first, I thought maybe he was just quirky this way, but these 'forget-then-remember' episodes are happening more and more often. In addition, I just found out he is having lunch with coworkers on a regular basis. One of this coworkers is an ex-girlfriend/lover. He denied ANY contact with her (when we first started dating he said he hated her) but I just found out he still has lunch on a regular basis as they work at the same business. Again, I wouldn't mind if he was honest initially, but these are things he is hiding from me. Prior to this relationship, I was in a relationship with a man for four years who cheated on me and physically abused me. I did have counseling and worked past it, but I cannot deny that lying and hiding things is something that panics me. I've tried to approach my partner and explain that the things he lies about don't bother me, its the fact he LIES that bothers me. When he lies, he tells me he'll buy me something, that we can go on a trip, etc. He doesn't acknowledge he did anything wrong or if he does, he'll just say "That was wrong" and then change the subject. These lies aren't really anything BIG (I haven't caught him cheating or doing anything obscene) but they are enough to make me wonder why he covers up things that he thinks MIGHT upset me. I've sent the wedding invitations out already and I am incredibly torn. When we were first together, he was a gentleman but he has become a liar (albeit about random things) and its truly bothering me. Is this something I should just accept (since thus far he hasn't done anything severe to breach our relationship) or are lies enough to make me reconsider our future together?