I lost all my friends?
So about a year and a half ago, me and a "friend" somehow hacked onto this complete bitches facebook (she's a ***** because she's a complete gossip/rumor spreader/and she made my friend deeply depressed) She has made all of us cry, at least once. I guess we got carried away and made everything on her page completely innapropriate, but of course it was funny to us at the TIME, but they found out. This year, too. Today in fact. My so called best friend told them everything I tell her, and they hate me. The confronted the person who helped me and she of course blamed everything on me. I regret everything, so no speeches on how I was wrong to do that blah blah blah. It was a year ago though, now I am more mature to realize my mistakes. Well during the summer, I went camping and the bitches' best friend's facebook got hacked, and it said things about me, and my other friends. And now they're blaming ME?! I swear I didn't do it, I had no computer access. Of course they won't care anyway because the *****, Annie, I'll call her, turned my other two best friends against me. My other two good good friends talk to me, but didn't hang out with me at all today, and I am so alone. Annie says I don't deserve to call me best friend, Lea, my best friend because apparently I "use" her. I agree though. Technically, I lost all my friends. Except one. She is a complete outcast though, but we are practically the SAME. She used to be my best friend a few years back but we had a blowout fight and didn't talk for a year or so. I decided to start texting her, and we hang out and stuff in secret. She says she will always be my friend no matter what and is there for me. She is an outcast because she is, emo, I guess. She dresses darkly and dies her hair, the whole dealio but she is actually really nice. I don't know what to do, I sorta want to say, **** ALL YOU BITCHES to the Annie-Clan and go hang out with this outcast, but at the same time, my school is CRAZY small. Its about 49 kids, and well, I just don't know what to do. Plus I am about to tell my best friend I don't deserve her, and well, it's true. 40 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.
I've lost all of my friends?
I started off pretty popular, but I am a senior in high school now. What's most important to me is my education and acceptance into college. I had a solid friend group this summer, but we all split apart. My best friend told me that she no longer wanted to be my best friend anymore. I have no friends at all now, and this has never happened before. I feel like I have no one close to turn to, and everyone is just an acquaintance. I can't make new close friends because the people I could become close friends with I've known for years and I know we wouldn't get along in that way. I feel lonely. I haven't felt like that in a long time. I was happy a month ago, and now it feels like it's all caving in on me. The girl I hate has taken all of my friends from me and made them into her close friends, which makes it so much worse. I sound like a brat, and that's fine. I have every right to feel empty or lonely or upset that I don't have anyone to turn to. I keep trying to remind myself that I have a car and I can drive myself to places I need to go and just ignore everyone and focus on my schoolwork. I don't care about popularity at all. I only want close friends. All I want to do is cry and sleep. I'm overwhelmed with loneliness and I feel like when I walk into school this Monday I'll have no one to talk to.
What is it like to lose all your friends?
It all depends on the context of the situation. The specific situation I'll focus on is betrayal. Betrayal happens when some sort of social code between people are broken. Lines are not just crossed, boundaries are shattered.One day life feels great. The problems that you have are those that most first world people have. What am I going to do today? Am I going meet up my friends for dinner and try out this new restaurant? Why has it been a few days since I last worked out?Then the moment comes by that will become the moment that you replay in your mind over and over incessantly for months. In the moment you're just a person who is going through the motions of a normal day. Nothing is really that out of the ordinary. Then you say something which you wish you never did. The rest of the night plays out like a dream. This can't be happening.You just betrayed your best friend by saying something so horrible to a mutual friend about them that you just signed your own death. It's like the wind gets hit out of you. Time stops and you wish you could turn back the clock just a few seconds, just so that you didn't set what you just did into motion.Life in front of you changes. People who used to sit and chat with you night after night talking about everything, treat you like a stranger. The only hint that you were previously friends is the flicker in their eyes when your eyes briefly connect. Then you see the look of disgust on their face.When you are responsible for losing all your friends due to something that you thought in the moment seemed permissible, it burns. It can drive you to sleepless nights. It can drive you to question yourself as a person. Most of all, the isolation is what burns the most. The hardest part is to snap back into reality and accept that you are not defined by past actions.Once you can start continuing your life without being consumed with the moment you lost it all, you really begin healing. You know what? Maybe forgiveness comes along the way, whether it is mutual or one-sided. All you can do is keep going.
If you lose all your friends, what should you do?
I have lost the friends that were never true friends to began with and friends that I valued highly but is always too busy with their career and busting their ass trying to create a better life for themselves.If people leave because the don’t value you, don’t ever devalue yourself by begging them to stay because nobody is going to be happy.If people are no longer part of your life because they are pursuing a brighter, better future. Wish them the best and get out there and create something for yourself.Lastly, remember the greatest friendship you can have is with yourself. If you love yourself, you will attract others who will love you the same. Be kind, be humble, be willing to help, be open-minded, and be grateful but set boundaries and don’t let others walk all over you.
Losing all my friends?
I have this "close" group of friends and then a bunch of regular friends but still I feel more alone than ever. I feel like they don't have the need to see me or be in my company. I just sit here all day doing nothing and not by choice, I'd love to go out with people and do stuff but I'm never asked to. Sure I can initiate things myself but whenever I do there's often no response, whether they're busy or something else. I get one of my close friends to come over once in a while but I never feel socially connected to them anymore. It doesn't take my feeling of loneliness away, It's like my "battery of having sufficient social contact" has been down to the bottom for a year now. My education is suffering from it as well. I forget about assignments, lose interest in everything.. I don't know what to do but I refuse to live on like this. I have never felt this useless.
HELP ive lost all my friends! :(?
I totally know what your going through one because I am naturally a loner lol no joke, and two because not only does my best friend have extreme anxiety but my sister does too. But it sounds like you need a new start you should try to reconnect with friends that you have lost but most of all you need you make new friends with new people. The problem I have that has led me to only a couple friends is that for some reason I don't feel a strong need for human company lol i know im just weird but you can't wait for people to try and connect with you, you have to connect with them. If it trying to connect and mend relationships with your old friends doesnt work then what you really need to do is find a new friend but instead of looking for friends that are just super fun and easy to get along with you need to find people who are chill and really understanding. I know that they might not be as out going as other people but really chill and accepting people will try and understand what your going through and will stick with you through thick and thin. Taking a year off of college to make friends doesn't sound like a good idea because college is a great place to meet really amazing people. Its a great way to get out and meet knew people when you regularly wouldn't go out because you dont have anyone to hang out with. And don't lie to people on twitter because when you lie to others too much you start lying to yourself.
What should I do when I've lost all my friends and have no one to care?
So I'm a third year college student who lives with 4 other people.Now these 4 have always been there with me for majority of the first two years in college.But they're now not close to me anymore. I live with them, yes. But do I consider them as my 'friends'? Someone I can depend on? Then no, sorry.After having countless issues with them, I used to go back home everyday after college, pick up a book, my laptop, speakers, bean bag and head to the balcony where I would have some sort of peace.Away from the noise, away from the drama, I felt relieved. Like a burden was off my shoulders where I didn't have to see their faces or interact with them.I was restless at first. Obviously. But slowly, a day went by, then two, three and I started enjoying being with myself. I was being really productive and getting shit done asap.But one thing that really surprised was that I didn't miss anyone during this. I had started appreciating my own very existence. And after 6 long months I can confidently tell you that it was a splendid experience, I learnt so much, not just about everything else and the world, but about myself too.So just go with the flow, it's okay if you don't have friends. Just do you and you'll attract your tribe. I have, I've found like minded people. People I gel with. Someone I'm in love with.The only thing I did was give myself, a full, complete and honest chance.You might not or most probably don't realise it right now, but you, YOU who are reading this very sentence right now are extremely special and are unique.There is no one else like you in the world. You are legit, one in 7 billion people. 7 BILLION.1/7,000,000,000LET THAT SINK INYOU DONT NEED ANYONE, DONT LET YOUR HAPPINESS DEPEND ON ANYONE OR ANYTHING. YOU, YOU ARE THE ONE IN CONTROL, YOU ARE SELF SUSTAINABLE AND BEAUTIFUL. UNDERSTAND THAT AND GVE YOURSELF A CHANCE TO BE YOU, WITH YOURSELF, FOR AT LEAST ONCE IN YOUR LIFE AND SEE HOW THINGS SHAPE UP SO BEAUTIFULLY FOR YOU.#DoYouBeYouBeFree
I've lost all my friends and I'm depressed?
I used to have so many friends. High school till now has not been very easy for me since I never truly felt like I belonged. But I had a group of friends and there was about 10 of us and we were all great. There was group drama sometimes and we constantly split but this year is was different. My best friend went to France, my other friend just left me because she got into a fight with another girl in our group and on girl also switched schools. A lot of the kids founds different groups and went off. So I was left with 4 boys in our group that I dislike and a girl who followed me and used me and the occasional one that ran off to other people even though I was a saint to her. I still had friends outside of school though, and well... this summer I lost all my friends. All my in school and outside school, my best friend and everyone. I lost my best friend because I told her I couldnt come on a trip with her and she got upset and hasnt spoken to me in weeks. She was tired of my excuses. But really I've only been avoiding everyone because I'm been emotionally unwell. I've just accepted the fact that everyone sees me as a an evil person even though I dont do anything and now I'm all alone. Its senior year and I'm alone and speaking to no one. This happened to me a lot last year and I did sit alone at lunch sometimes. I hate my school, the kids are obnoxious, rude and think too highly of themselves. Everything's a popularity contest and me just thinking of entering the school again makes me want to puke. Making friends is the biggest challenge at my school and everyone gets awkward when you join in their group even if its a project thing. I just dont know what to do. I'm so depressed its impossible. I deleted my facebook and dont even check my phone anymore because I know I wont be getting anything. I dont know how to apologize to people, and some are only mad at me because they think they know me and theyre judging me wrong. I feel like crap, and I dont know what to do anymore. My self esteem has gone so low and I feel like crying all the time. I'm a normal girl, I look normal and am happy most of the time, but recently I've been feeling worthless. Please help.
I lost all my friends because of my boyfriend, and now i lost him to?
i have been in the same position as ypou once in my life... i dated a guy for 1.5 years i lost everyone i knew because i thought he was it for me and sometimes things just dont work out ecspecially when you r young. it took me three months to b able to get out of my house besides school and actually try to make amends with the friends that i lost. Even if they have boyfriends once the sting of losing your ex has subsided i would recommend trying to at least go out once in a while to be around ppl! if you need anything what so ever my email is inothott13@yahoo.com feel free to contact me because i promise it wont be easy but you will be able to overcome this feeling!