My father is mentally and physically abusing my mother and sisters. What should I do?
This needs to be brought to the attention of authorities. PLEASE talk to a trusted adult family member, a teacher, a relative, (you didn't mention your age) and report this. Abuse frequently becomes more violent over time. You can go to any police station to report this. I know you worry what your father will do if/when he is confronted, but your safety. and that of your mom & sisters is more important.
HELP! My mother is being emotionally abused by my bipolar sister. Should I call my sister’s therapist? What else can I do?
My take on the situation is that your mother needs a therapist help, not your sister. Your sister ill, meds are there to help her. Your mother is not ill. The fact that she manipulates your mom could only be stopped by your mom. And no one else.. There are few things your mother needs to accept: she cannot change anything when it comes to other person (your sister). Your sister could move out and take her daughter at any time. Life doesn't stop there. Your mother needs to find a strength within herself to live her life knowing that she cannot control whether or not your sister will deprive your mom from seeing her grandchild. Very often when manipulative individual (your sister) discovers that their scenario doesn't work any more, they stop doing it. It is the hunter and the rabbit scenario: Hunter hunts till the rabbit continues running. If your mother will find her strength to stop being afraid of your sister’s actions, your sister will change her behavior. I know it is very hard, that is why your mom needs support of the therapist. Good Luck!
In abuses, why does everyone go to mother and sister?
That's a slang they usually have adapted over time. So it will become a brain reflex action to speak and throw out anger by such words. In other words, no body in the world ever means to do what they SAE, however, they in reality throw that anger outside the body with the reflex actions of speech they are addicted to speak.They speak bad words because they have a habbit of spitting out anger that way. Think on it.
Is it bad to hate my mom? She abuses me, my sisters, physically and mentally. I sleep in the same room as her and every time I wake up she screams at me for doing something I did ages ago and overreacting. She tells friends twisted stories about me.
Same here, mom as a teacher she tell everything about me to her associate teachers. for example if I sleep to late. If I don't do some stuff.. anything bad.. she tell everything about me and that abuses me. But one day I got sick and I’m obligated to do a surgery. My father is dead. she's the only one who stay with me in my hardest moments ever. she care about me until I get healed. my mom or your mom or any mom they're not goddess. they made mistakes.. but it still your mom who care about you if anything bad happpen.. just try to speak with her politely. about what you want and what you hate about her habits towards you.. never hate your mom…
Me and my twin sister have different fathers?
twins CAN have different dads. only if they are fraternal twins... (dizogitic) but she should treat you the same. is she half white? if you were my daughters i would treat the one who wasnt getting in trouble differently too.
What can I do if I thought that my mother was abusive and damaging just because she was abused by my father, if now that my father is dead she is exactly the same person?
Some people won’t agree with me saying this and others definitely will; Often it’s true that an abused person is in some fashion the master of their own destiny because they fail to stand up for theselves or they won’t get away from a disrespectful & abusive partner. For that reason they can be seen to be “the same person” even after the abusive influence is gone.What can you do about what? I’m not sure yet what the question is. Do you mean “How can I help my mother who was abusive to me for reasons that I now suspect were somewhat understandable”? Sometimes the best course of action is to stay away and out of reach of an abusive person no matter what you think is the root cause of their behavior, or you can hang in there and do your best to try to increase their Self Confidence which often takes a battering if there’s been an abusive partner on the scene for years. Keeping yourself out of harm’s way IS a kindness to anyone with abusive personality traits as you’re not tempting them into expressing them. You can choose to focus on your mother’s negative side or concentrate on everything you find to be good, happy & healthy about her and try to put across that you love and respect her even if sometimes she steps over the mark. Don’t make a martyr of yourself though. Have limited but meaningful contact with her. Try to help her enjoy life but don’t stick your head in a noose by doing so. Your life, health, wealth & happiness matter every bit as much as hers.
Can your mom be your sister?
if ur dad had a baby with a woman, then ur dad mated with his baby(YUCK ON SO MANY LEVELS) and had you, then your mother would be your sister. grosssss.
If two sisters get pregnant from the same guy?
Lets say for example i get two sisters pregnant and they both have boys. would those two babies be half brothers/half cousins? and would i be half father/half uncle?
Abusive Father dying, what to do?
My last contact with my father was another argument. Seems everyytime I visited, there would be bad feelings from past that would come out of me. My sisters just forgave hime, but were never physically beaten or told how stupid they were on a continuing basis, they only were yelled at alot when he got drunk which was all the time. The last visit, my sister told me each time I visit, I bring up old bad feelings and cause problems for my mother so now my sister wants nothing to do with me. I have not heard from my mother or sisters in 18 months- and now I get a call telling me he is terminally ill and only has a week to live. I feel that I must stay away, to give the rest of family peace, because I'm still angry and resentful. Worried if I went to funeral, might make things worse, and I beleive funeral is for the living anyway and don't want to add to their grief. Amazing how I became the bad guy in the end and losing whole family because of an abusive father ;( Thoughts? Thanks
If me and my sister have different dads and the same mom are we half sisters?
how though? on degrassi craig and his sister have different dad's but the same mom so there half brother's and sister? how does that work?like u know? i mean how our we half though?