Is it sad to have to take a cousin to your senior prom because you couldn't get a date?
Very Sad But atleast , No just Very Sad :)
What to do if your sad because you couldn't go to your cousin's birthday party?
I really wanted to go to my cousin's kiara birthday party on saturday. In she didn't call or ask me if i wanted to be invited, and she told me that she was going to the movies and tgif fridays. However i asked her what time will her birthday start and she told me to call her mom. In i called her mother and she didn't answer, then she texted me. When she texted me and said that her and her daughter kiara were going to get there nails done at 11am. After that they were going to pick up two other people. So my mom couldn't take me, so i asked kiara's mom and she told me that she'll have to see. I sort of thought that i wasn't going to be able to go to the party because it probably wasn't enough room. Also i feel that my cousin kiara shouldn't called me and saved me a spot instead of her friend. She's my favorite cousin in if i was to invite anyone to my birthday party she would be the first person, so i should be the first person on her list. So what should i do about this situation, should i forgive her or not?
Feeling Guilt and Sadness Because I Couldn't Save My Kitten.?
My kitten was roughly 10-11 months old when she passed away, which was 2 days ago. The past few days she was eating, but very little. Whenever she would eat, she would immediately vomit the food that contained this white foam. And then all of the sudden she completely stopped eating and drinking any fluids. I kept forcing her water to keep her hydrated, which she disliked. She was also breathing heavily, it almost looked like was having contractions. I couldn't take her to the vet either because I was struggling financially and I even asked my family members if they could help me out, but they were also struggling financially. One of my brothers refuses to talk to me or my other brother, so asking him was out of the question. I normally don't get paid till the 1st and the 15th of every month, so I was hoping that Luna (my kitten) would hang on for just one day so that I could get paid and take her to a hospital asap. However, she passed away 30 mins before I came home from work. I was devastated and so was my little sister and mom. I keep feeling this guilt and anger inside me because I couldn't save her. All I keep remembering is me telling her that I was going to take her to the doctor soon and she'll be all better...and that never happened. My family and I buried her in our back yard and bid our good-byes. Perhaps some of you will think that struggling financially is not an excuse, but I did everything I could to keep her alive. I loved her so much and I'll never forget her. She was my fur child after all. How do I overcome all of this?
Can being depressed make you do things that you wouldn't normally do if you weren't?
Yes. Being depressed can give you all sorts of urges that you would not normally have. However, if you do something 'wrong' and 'bad' you cannot blame it ALL on the depression, as you are the one to commit the act. If you think you are depressed, you should tell someone you trust and look for help. There are MANY ways to treat depression, including medications. Depression is a real physical condition, and shouldn't be ignored or underestimated. If you are not sure but want more complete information (without having to go to a family member just yet) google Symptoms of Depression and you should get a better idea of what to look for.
How would you feel if your husband couldn t pay bills?
I know Yahoo Answers is no therapist, but I just need advice. Me and my husband have been married for five years. The last 3 years has been miserable because we haven t been able to comfortably pay bills. Long story short He made a really bad financial decision without me 2 years ago and it cost him his job. He was in school and unemployed for 6 months after that, then he finally found a job and got laid off 8 months later. Each time I had to pay all of the bills with the exception of rent for a while. This is so stressful because we have a child and I always have to wonder how to pay bills or work really hard to pay them and there s nothing he can do but be sad and upset that he can t pay it.
Why do I suddenly feel so sad without any reason? I suddenly broke into tears and couldn’t stop crying. Is there any reason?
Before you diagnose yourself with something mental, pay attention to your sleep habits and your diet.There have been many times in the past year alone where I suddenly started feeling depressed and sad.I had no reason to be, it just came out of nowhere.Last time it happened, before I let myself fall into despair, I stared at the 24oz. of Pepsi I had just guzzled down at 8 in the morning, and the hot cup of coffee I had right after that.“Did I eat breakfast today?” I asked myself. “Nope!”So I slammed a bunch of chemicals into my body on an empty stomach and they shot straight to my brain.From there, I walked myself through it. “Okay. I feel incredibly deep in despair. I feel like I want to cry. I feel too weak to continue work. BUT I know that this is not a mental thing, it’s a physical thing, so I’m going to push through it. And I’m going to make sure I don’t drink that much caffeine at once anymore.”Last year I was EXTREMELY depressed. I was worried over money, my job, my bills, and my car breaking down. On and on!But I also realized that I had been staying up until 4–5am, only getting about 4 hours of sleep, and again, not having a very good diet.And I constantly had a damned screen in front of my face, mindlessly scrolling through politics and religion. That surely doesn’t help!In short, it’s not always, “You’re depressed, you need meds!” It can often (and I believe, more often than not) be our diet, both in what we feed our body and our mind.Before you go searching for internal reasons (there’s a bottomless pit of self-diagnosis in your head!), search for external thing.The reason this is important is because as soon as people determine it is something internal, they start to feel a lot more helpless and victimized by it–”It’s part of me.”That can lead to actual depression because now you feel trapped, stuck with something that hurts you.But if you figure out that it’s just a shitty choice you made for breakfast, it’s a whole lot easier to walk yourself through it and see the light on the other side, and you know it can be fixed and prevented in the future, so you don’t take it as hard.
Why can't I cry anymore, even when I'm sad?
Dear friend,There are several reasons. that may be physiological or psychological.If you are having sad emotions and no tears are rolling out of your eyes(that what you meant by crying)there may have some problem to your tear glands.Even after seeing/ hearing or witnessing sad situations/news and you are only having that emotions peripheral of your mind instead of deep desire to respond to it, your brain has conditioned in such a way. Such conditioning can occurs mainly of three ways.1.Continuous medication :It will slow down the response of your emotions and you seldom feel any urge to respond effectively. If you are under psychological treatment-as in schizophrenia-such after effects are common. I know persons who failed to cry at the death of their parents. Drug addicts also face such a dilemma.2. Enlightened persons : Enlightened person attain certain mental stature,which cannot be shaken by any sad news. Their understanding about life provide them an insight which consider all sad and happy emotions as the same.Though they express their grievances,it will not touch the core of their heart.For them such sadness are part of life.3. Grief stricken persons:If you are a person who had faced a lot of bitter experiences in life,he/she develops a neutral mentality to any sadness. Because they have nothing to face or experience any more hardships than what they had already faced. Their tears are dried off of constant weeping. For them sadness is a co traveler and never surprised about its presence.Think about your self in which category and try to fill your life with eternal pleasure.Wish you all the best.