How is the life of a jobless student after the completion of their engineering degree?
Graduated in 2011…my 2best friends got placed in Infosys and techm…and people in my class got selected in one or other company..I never have an interview until 2013…neighbours started questioning about career and stuff..started giving interviews from 2013..learnt courses …no luck..failed at every opportunity…relatuves started calling loser and stuff…friends started mocking…no one is willing to support…parents are embarrassed to admit that iam unemployed Infront of others..result constant argument between me and my father…stopped going home…joined a support job…less income…parents believe that iam a software engineer which iam not…started getting Cals from friends and relatives because Iam working …left the job due to typhoid and went home for a couple of days …peopl my age are earning in lakhs and iam struggling to make ends meet …father further criticize …. relatives start asking salary details and savings details which I have none..lied everywhere…got back to city..got a new job…better than old job but not a job for graduates but still working…its been a year I haven't been home..mom calls everyday..haven't been talking to dad or relatives for a year..I can't leave this job and I could not get a new job …no clarity about future…friends are getting married and iam still thinking of getting a better job…life is going on and will always go on…i always remember wat my mom says every body won't settle down immediately after graduation some may take 2years and some may take 10years keep trying and have patience…that is what iam doing right now.Cheers!!!!
How is it a good idea to live in a tent in the middle-of-nowhere to combat no income, unemployment, and homelessness?
If you modify “the middle of nowhere” to “out in the woods near necessary services”, I’ve known a few people who did this and were quite happy. One of them had a tent in the woods on the grounds of the university he (and I) attended. He used the washing machines and bathrooms at the dorm we lived in (his friends were there), worked in the dining hall and sold pot. Everything went fine until someone stole his tent and everything in it!Another guy we knew lived in the middle of nowhere, in northern Vermont, not in a tent, but a two room shack with no electricity and a wood stove for heat. He worked at a nearby ski center and had plenty of free time to design sportswear that he sewed himself and made a good deal of money at it.You don’t need to be a survivalist to enjoy tent living if you set up in the right place. But some people, like my sister and her family, also in Vermont, are almost self-sufficient, though they live in a house. They hunt, grow their own food and raise pigs, chickens and a cow for milk. They seem very happy.
Im Lonely Who live in the middle of nowhere?
wait wait heres a joke cause your from idaho... if there were 4 potatoes in the room which one would be the prostitiute? the one that says IDAHO!! ahaha lame i know.. how bout the middle of boondocks ca?
How do you start again when you're homeless, jobless, broke and heartbroken?
Well I'm an expert in that.I was all of those and add a couple addictions too it also.I don't know where you live but I was homeless on and off for 9 years in my own country and 1 year in the US.There is often no quickfix so you will have to take it one day at a time.So you are homeless, first find a shelter, I would recommend the salvation army as when you got a spot there it's most of the time directly for a week and can extend it week by week.Now ofc they got rules, for example, you need to be in at 5pm and then you can go out at 7pm till 00am or so. It never bothered me because I kept in mind I want to rebuild my life.So once you have a spot in the shelter you go to your second problem, there are several spots where you can pick up work, it's a shitty pay but it's money which you save, got any debts go talk to case workers.And a broken heart, give it time, when you're in the shelter you will make new friends, keep your mind of things.Good luck and stay strong, took me years but now I got my own place, a cool gf and a job and 1 more year and I'm debt free.Always keep your eye on your goal.Peace
Going nowhere in life?
I'm a drop out of high school, I just turned 20, I'm jobless. All I do is sleep all day, and eat. Everyday I wake up just disappointed in myself, I still live with my parents which makes me feel even more pathetic, honestly I'm not surprised they threw me out of the house yet. I can rarely say anything good about myself, I know I have a problem, but when I try to do something with my life I never go through with it... Like last month, I started taking classes for the GED, but I only went for a week and never went back..... I don't know what to do, my friend was talking about the coast guard, or something round those lines and I wanna try to do something like that, but I'll probably never get to that point. I had a job for a little bit, actually I had two, I got fired from both of them. I feel like I'm always looked down on, and feels like I shouldn't even try at this point... I know I should try, but I'm just finding it hard too. I'm doing nothing productive... I wanna be successful in life and I know it takes a lot of hard work, but I feel like its impossible at this point. I want to start over and I hate myself. I have a problem and I just want help.... I never go out of the house, I don't have many friends and the friends I do have I mostly online anyways. I don't even care that I'm lonely, but I want to be at least a lonely successful loser... I just need some opinions on what I should do.... I feel like I'm the only idiot who put himself in a situation like this....
Depressed, unemployed, feeling worthless.?
So. I am just not feeling good about myself lately. I feel like my life is going nowhere. I'm 20 year old and graduated with a Bachelor's Degree about 6 months ago. I worked so hard in school and it seems like it was all for nothing. I can't get a job ANYWHERE. Not in my field, not in retail, not even at Starbucks. I am searching everyday and applying to at least 5 different job every day. My parents never let me get a job in high school so I have no prior experience doing pretty much anything. I need to find a job quickly, as my remaining funds are nearly gone. About a month ago my father passed away, and since then things have been very tough. I can barely have a conversation with my mother without both of us getting upset at each other about something. I live about 4 states away from my mom back home, and if I don't find a source of income soon I'll have to leave my life here behind and move back home. I just cannot handle doing that. My boyfriend stays optimistic and tells me I'll find something eventually, but I just want to give up. He tells me I should work on adding more to my portfolio, but I just don't want to do anything. All I do all day is sit at home on the computer applying for jobs and browsing the internet. I don't have the energy to do anything else. I don't want to tell anyone, but I just feel incredibly depressed. I was diagnosed with clinical depression a few years back, but it seemed to fade a bit when I went to college so I stopped taking my medicine. I almost feel like I should get back on it. With it I feel numb and emotionless, but without it I just feel sad and worthless. I don't know how I could tell anyone. I know nobody would take it seriously and just tell me, "You're just feeling down because you can't find a job. It'll pass." I just really don't know what to do anymore. My boyfriend is the only thing keeping me going in life. He's the only reason I keep on living. I love him too much to tell him that I just feel like dying sometimes. I just don't know what good I am to anybody. I feel like such a burden. My boyfriend is always offering to help me out with money, but I just can't accept it. Its not even about pride. I just don't feel like I'm worth it. So many things keep piling on me and I just can't handle the stress anymore. I want to scream and just hide away. I don't want to deal with this anymore.