This guy keeps asking me if I told my friends about him...why?
So, I've been having sex with this guy friend for about 2 months now. We just text, talk a little bit and just have sex. We're not dating or anything, its more of a friends with benefits type thing. Anyway, the last few times that we had sex, he kept asking me if I told my friends about him...I told him no..and I'm thinking why would I tell them about him if I'm just ******* the guy? Now, if I was dating the guy, then yes, I would tell my friends about him..because it means something..but if its just *******...then no..I want to keep this a secret and be discreet. I just don't want to tell friends about this, because I don't want to get my hopes up and get all excited about this guy, plus I don't know where this is going-who knows, he might meet someone else and forget about me...I'm just trying to keep all emotional attachment away as possible. What do you think?
Why does my guy friend keep asking about my boyfriend?
I am 15, by the way. I've been going out with this guy for almost 2 weeks now. My best guy friend actually encouraged me to ask the guy out. Now that I'm dating this guy, my friend won't stop asking about him! Everyday, he texts me saying 'How's your boyfriend?' He might not always start out our conversation that way, but he ends up bringing it up. It's kind of starting to annoy me...I try to get off the topic, just saying that my boyfriend is fine, and move onto other conversation. I don't get why he keeps asking! Sure, I've asked for some advice (like where our first date should be, because I've never dated anyone before), but I don't need him prying into my relationship every time we talk or text. Is he just really happy for me and wants to make sure that nothing goes wrong? That's what I'm leaning towards, but I'm not sure. Thanks for your help. :)
Is it okay to ask your guy friend for advice?
I always do that haha.. It's totally legit but some guys are different so they may give you advice that could steer you in the wrong direction. The deal with guys is that they are so straightforward. What you see is what you get. If he does some minor thing that makes you think he may not like you, he probably didn't even notice what he did. Simple creatures, men. Still boggles my mind how women and men are meant to coexist when they misunderstand each other so much. Definitely ask a guy friend or better yet, ask two! :) good luck with your crush!
Do you have a friend who is always asking for your advice but never takes it?
Do you have a friend who is always asking for your advice but never takes it?Dearest Lisa, No I do not have a friend who asks for advice but never takes it. The only reason I can think of why a person would do that is because they don’t really want your advice but they just want to weigh in another perspective. Look at the bright side, because apparently they appreciate how you view things. Maybe they think if they follow your advice, you will take all of the credit [for their good decision], and they use your input to make their decisions. What I have found is each one of us has so many natural abilities that we take for granted, but not necessarily shared by others. The ability to reason, or make decisions and come to conclusions, is not simple for some people. Asking advice is a good way to start a conversation going in the direction of the topic they are interested in knowing about.
A guy keeps asking me to flash him on msn? ! ANY GOOD COMEBACKS........? please and thanks advice on this?
how about just blocking him... .unless you are just interested in the attention...
My Crush keeps asking me for relationship advice...?
Okay I'm going to try to keep this information in a nutshell lol... So I've had a crush on the same guy since fourth grade...(I'm a senior in high school, he's a freshmen in college) It hasn't been consistent...the crush has been like on and off again. We used to have a thing from about 2010-2012 but we never made anything official I don't know why...but that's whatever. So without even informing me I guess he found someone else to cling to and got a girlfriend. I'm cool about it now I guess...I mean ask me how a was a few months ago and I would have cried my eyes out, but I've gotten over it and I am now okay with us just being friends. But he is VERY flirtatious and sometimes it sketchy but I put him in his place. I'm a PUSHOVER when it comes to him...like he knows I still have feelings for him, but before he graduated last year he asked me to help him ask his gf to prom and I did even though it killed me inside. So today we talked and he was really upset about his gf cheating on him and telling me all of their personal business. I just don't know what to say to him...I'm afraid that anything I say will come off as me being against her purely because of the fact that I still have feelings for him. He's my best friend (that I'm in love with) and I don't know how long my emotions will be able to handle this. I swear sometimes I wanna break out in song and start singing you belong with me by Taylor Swift to him by I doubt that will be of any use to me. He's so in love with her...and though I'm happy for him...it still breaks me inside.
I have a friend who constantly asks for advice. How can I get the message across that it's becoming annoying without hurting her feelings?
Sometimes, it's because the person was excessively sheltered or neglected growing up. If your friend grew up in such circumstances you have to decide if you are up for giving her a crash course on independence or if you need to take a pass. If you cannot honestly rise to the task, take that pass. Sometimes, it's simply attention-seeking behavior on her behalf, or, a tendency to be a life coach on your behalf. Either way leads to the same result. You find yourself managing two lives...Yours and hers. Yours will be the one short-changed. To head her off, start asking her to come up with suggestions to fix her problems on her own. Show her how and where to access resources that will provide her with knowledge and means to fix said issues. Start small and simple. Show her how to fix a problem and encourage her to take real measures to fix it herself next time. If she bugs you, you can always be unavailable. If she's really in a bad way, help her, but act impersonally and do the minimum amount of work you realistically can. When she makes real efforts to solve her own problems, and especially, if she succeeds at fixing them solo, be genuinely happy for her and give her encouragement and praise. If you are the problem, you'll know because when she goes solo, you'll be haunted by an unshakable sense of dissatisfaction no matter how much or how well she accomplishes her steps to independence. You'll find yourself finding ways to continue your supervisory role. If you find yourself feeling this way now or down the road, it should be you who seeks *professional* advice from a *qualified* therapist.
How do I handle a male friend who keeps putting me down? He keeps trying to find out what/how I'm doing through colleagues, gives me unsolicited advice suggesting I'm the problem or that I have the wrong perception and reminds me he's older.
Sounds like he wants control and resents your ability that you are a seemingly self sufficient kind of person he wants to conquer which is probably what his attraction to you REALLY IS. By your description of his behavior, it is my OPINION that you could probably put ALL your money on the bet that he is a highly abusive person as he tells by his ‘your the problem’ kind of remarks. He’s trying to belittle and insult you; make YOU feel badly about your SELF and ‘the one at fault’ for the bad and/or negative. -his ‘brain game’. Get RID of this guy LAST WEEK !!! NOW ! TODAY ! Change your schedule, try to be out of town at friends-literally-as much as you can. CHECK and double check your locks. Start carrying a notebook to write down the time, date and place he has entered your personal space arena to include contact w/your friends or ‘around’ the coffee shop. Get whatever and all pictures that you can. Get a picture of HIM, copy and distribute to your friends and family so they can help you know HIS whereabouts so you can avoid him; if/when they see him, text you so you can avoid the proximity. They to give NO info on you. NONE ! Change your phone number, get a dog and pepper spray, even a stun baton. SORRY if I’m too alarming, but SAFE, smart and wrong is better than the alternative. NOTHING about him sounds good OR safe. Be SMART and RESPONSIBLE. Oh, write ALL you know about him-residence, ph #, work place, his friends, hang outs, description of his car, his relatives….ANY AND ALL things about him w/his pic and a note from you: “IF anything happens to me, this person has been stalking me’. put your notebook w/it when you are at home in your freezer or somewhere HE won’t look, but cops will.
What does it mean when a girl asks you for advice on another guy?
This one girl who i find very attractive likes to chat with me, and i like talking to her too, but it frustrates me that she always is asking me for advice....and im not a relationship counsellor lol! Is it normal for girls to have a male friend (like me lol) to sometimes just take advice from?
A guy has a crush on me but keeps asking about my attractive close friend. Is he trying to make me jealous?
People don't usually built a crush on someone until they are single as dead!And when someone is single as dead he goes to youtube videos to get some advices , some times it works and most of the time it won't because being good with relationships need practice and fail until you master it and not just listening to some stupid advice.When I read your question I remembered that seen from the movie hitch when will Smith advice haword to focus on his crush’s best friend in there first date !The seen turn funny because her best friend was a man .So that person is ether an idiot or he is following some sort of steps he saw about it in a video or a movie or even a book.