How do you get a girl to like you if she has a boyfriend already?
(Read all instructions before proceeding.)As a woman, allow me to give you the secret.You can only steal property, so be sure you keep that 19th-century attitude LOCKED in place: make it a mantra! “Females are property; if I do the right thing, I can earn her — she’ll be mine.”Remain convinced, & TV, movies will help, that females ARE a prize men DESERVE. For example, when Indiana Jones rescues the Lost Ark, OF COURSE he gets the girl. When Han Solo joins the rebels? He wins Leia’s heart. Because reasons. Because testosterone. Good deeds ALWAYS get rewarded not with honor, but with SEX.Never forget how FAST pampering, prettiness, and flattery will fill the tiny head of a female. Ignore that she seems to have MADE her choice. Dogs are man’s best friend; diamonds are HERS. Why? Because they are SHINY, distracting and hypnotic.Finally: when you have settled in with your easily-won prize?Don't complain when you realise she is far smarter than you.
I really like this girl, but she has a boyfriend. What should I do? Should I tell her how I feel?
As I stepped out of the streets of london, what did I see?Hundreds of women walking back and forth. Going to work, going home, going to do whatever. Planet is full of girls. Full of them and you is focusing on a girl who has a boyfriend. Come on lad. You're only thinking about her because you got no options. You're thinking about her and feeding the idea in your head.If you had 10 attractive girls right now, running to you like baywatch, you think you'd even wonder about this one girl.Nah. Not on your life.Step out of your lonely world and get busy living. Get out there and approach girls that are single. Believe, you'll cut yourself out a lot of drama.This right here, is drama. Life will give you drama. Don't worry about that. You don't need to help life giving you MORE drama. Believe if you want it to it will bring it all to you and it will drive you completely bonkers.Let this girl go. She don't deserve the attention.She got enough attention as it is from her boyfriend. Why you want to feed her ego for and also yours too?Because that is what it is....ego.The challenge of going for someone who is already taken.The Pre-selection. The evolution of man and woman. The psychological BS that so many go for. Then when you got the girl...well...guess what?You see a guy approaching her and you go up to your girl and you say.."Blah blah blah."And she will look at you and say, "Well, you didn't care when I had a boyfriend and you approached me. So why so high and mighty about other guys talking to me now? Why you so uptight about it? You didn't give a damn back then huh?"Kabooooooooooom!
Talking to a girl who already has a boyfriend?
Hey guys first off i'd like to say that i usually don't do this because it's really messed up. Basically I met this one girl a few months back but we never talked after until 2 nights ago i randomly facebooked her and this led to a skype call...5 hours long. We clicked off and now have been talkin heavily these past 2 days, we opened up to eachother a lot and it looks like things with her current boyfriend are kinda shakey but i dont know. Like i said...i'd hate for her to break up with her boyfriend cause of me but i can tell she likes me (pretty much told me) and im starting to like her. No she ain't a hoe don't get it twisted but im just wondering what should i do?? She told me her boyfriend started getting mad which is understandable...so i offered to back off but she said it was fine so i dont know what to do. Pursueing a girl with a boyfriend is something i have never and hoped i would never do so im in a hard situation. Go for it? or no? i feel like a sack of crap
I really like this girl but she has a boyfriend...?
Ok so I'm in high school and there's this girl who is amazing I've had the biggest crush on her for the past year and a half and were ok friends now It kinda sucked too cuz I've been trying to get her to like me and she's even told me that she really liked me, but then a few months ago this guy from the grade below us comes out I nowhere and 2 weeks later they're dating and have been for the past few months. After I found out she had a new boyfriend I just decided to tell her how I feel about her and i wasn't expecting her to just leave her boyfriend for me, idk I just wanted to get everything out in the open But I told her how beautiful she is and how she makes me feel and it brought her to tears when I told her all this Afterwards she apologized for not being a better friend to me and that she was sorry if she'd hurt me blah blah blah. Honestly I have never felt this way about a girl before and I just don't know what to do about the situation Since she got a bf we really haven't talked like at all. We have a couple classes together at school and in my opinion it's just awkward whenever I try and talk to her ( I mean I understand why)... Ive been trying to not text her at all either cuz I don't wanna make things weird for her... But my question is this: is there anything I can do besides sit around and wait for her to break up with her boyfriend? Because in all honesty I think I might be in love with her... I know I'm naive and I'm only 18 but my heart races whenever i see her and I just cannot get her off my mind. I was thinking of giving her something for valentines day but again I don't wanna be a creep and give a gift to a girl with a boyfriend on valentines day.. Idk it just hurts me to think about her because we hardly even talk anymore and all I wanna do is be her boyfriend and spend time with her. I know that I should move on but I just can't... Any advice would be awesome
How to get a girl who has a boyfriend?
She's like 5 ft and I'm like 6 ft 4. She's popular. I don't talk to people. Lately Iv'e been trying to make some friends just because I feel like it might help. She also has a boyfriend! So I was thinking there's no point in trying butttt... I hung out with him one day with some other friends and he's really dumb, chubby (but muscular), but also rich. I'm tall, I model, fairly thin but I have muscle I suppose... I feel like I'm better looking then her boyfriend (please don't hate me for saying this... it's just my opinion, I'm not conceited, I was very extremely self conscious for my hole life, leaving me friendless and unwilling to talk to people.) So he's really sporty and so is she. So I mean they're similar in that aspect. I just skateboard, and that's about it. So I'm not into that many sports. Is it possible to get with this girl? I feel like I'm her friend now but I'm so nervous around her and it makes me laugh because she's so much smaller then me haha and I'm just scared of her :p. Please, I need opinion, life stories, anything really :). A good luck will do. Please help me though haha :))) Oh and he's like 18-19 she's 16 im 17
Girl I like has a boyfriend?
I went through the exact same thing back in high school. I fell in love with my best friend, but I could never have her because she was always dating some jerk who always made her cry. When she cried, she'd always call me and I'd go over her house and comfort her. The sad thing is, no matter how good I was to her, she still never wanted to be with me. She continued to date jerks for the longest time, until I just had to give up. She's married now to a good guy, I think. What I'm trying to say is, sometimes, all a girl needs is a friend of the opposite sex who will listen to her and hold her when she needs you. A lot of girls love the bad boy type, so no matter how good you treat her, she will see you as just a friend. Worse case scenario, she see's you as a brother. Girls have a lot of girlfriends they can go to, but sometimes it's refreshing for a girl to go to a guy for advice. The sad part here is, she may never open her eyes and see how great you are. She will most likely ignore your charm and kindness and continue to date jerks who treat her bad, because that's all she knows and all she wants. Don't ever change your personality to get her to like you. Always be there for her. We all like to hope life is like a movie and there will be a nice romantic ending where she leaves the guy and goes for you, but that rarely happens. Always treat her like a princess that she deserves to be. Don't give up. If you really care for her, don't stop fighting for her until you know there is no way you can get her. Unless she is proposed to by this guy, or any guy, do whatever you can to win her heart. Someday, she might realize what she has been wanting has been right in front of her the whole time. Take care. Sincerely, The Love Therapist
If a girl I like already has a boyfriend, should I tell her my feelings anyway?
No, you’ll only coming off as selfish because now if she does have feelings for you as well, it will complicate things for her. She’ll feel torn and feel she has to decide between you and the boyfriend she already has. Do you really want to put the girl you claim to like so much in turmoil like that?Respect her boundaries, and even respect the guy she is with. You would want the same respect from another guy if you were in the boyfriend’s shoes. Think about it: if you were in a relationship, how would feel if you found out another guy was trying to sway your girl’s feelings? That would rock your world in all the wrong ways, wouldn’t it?Just wait and be the first guy to make make a move when she’s single. I’m sorry you’re in this predicament, but don’t drag her into it too. If she likes you too, and the chemistry is there, let’s just say your future looks bright. But right now, she has a boyfriend, and their relationship should be able to run its course without interference.
I like a girl, but she already has a boyfriend and I'm struggling to maintain my cool. What can I do?
Our situations are the same, only that our genders are exchanged.I am a girl, and there is this guy I love so much but he likes this other girl. He tells me of his future plans with her and what not, and me being stupid, even agreed to help him out. This other girl is two years elder than him and till this date she hadn't shown any interest of that romantic kind. I know because I asked her myself, and told her he loves her and wants to marry her. What she told me was, he is joking and not serious about it. I believed her at first, and even got into a fight with him for lying to me. We made truce, and my hopes rose again. I made excuses to talk to him, even if it meant only to scold each other. I thought he would notice me ...someday. But, he never did. He genuinely likes this other girl and wants to wait for her, whatever it means. He said he is fore-playing and will propose her when he gets a job. He is damn stuck to her and all I want to do is stream and point out, she is even elder than you! Why choose her? Choose me. For him, sadly, there was never a choice. He always liked and loved her. I wasn't the one. And, this second time, it hurt even more because all my hopes got smashed too. I know he won't even like me back. For few days, I tried being the 'normal' friend, but God! It is hard. It is fucking hard. Everytime he speaks of her very fondly, my eyes fill with tears and I become mute. Nothing to say. Being with him and knowing he will never ever like me back hurt a lot, so much. It was then I understood why people don't agree to being 'friends' after break-ups or one-side love, because the pain and tears isn't worth it. In reality, such a relationship is toxic and will slowly kill you. I took space from him. Started ignoring him, only talking when absolutely necessary and it has helped me a lot. It has dulled the ache. I know the pain won't go until I can learn to let him go, but then it doesn't feel like I am dying daily. Distance from him is what I needed. Maybe that will work for you too, because sometimes you just have to let go of things and not hold on to it especially if there is no possibility of future to those thoughts. I learnt my lesson. Please don't try to make the same mistake I did.
Can a girl like you if she has a boyfriend?
I'm literally in the exact same situation as you now, except i have maybe done a little more than you in regards to this, so i hope this helps. The best thing i ever did was just come out and tell her. No joke i've never been happier than when i told her. if you're sure that she likes you, it's just that much better to hear it and know for sure, even if it's a little crush. this isn't an easy situation though so make sure you let her know how you feel, but as you said, you would never want to ruin what she has with this other guy. it is possible for anyone to like more than one person at once, and if she really likes you a lot too but doesn't know how you feel, this may be an awesome thing for you to tell her. it's a very sensitive matter though, no doubt so express how you feel without over-doing it and let her know that you don't want her relationship to crumble bc of your talk, but that you really just had to tell her how you feel. good luck, im sure it will work out somehow
If a girl already has a boyfriend but always likes to talk with you and have you around, what does that mean?
Thanks for the A2A.Well to be frank dont waste your time with her. She has a bf whom she is not ready to leave but is ok with having physical relation with you is a bad sign. You are being used. Even if she loves you ( as she mentioned earlier) , just remember that she chose to be with her bf. So she loves a guy but is continuing her relation with another. A very huge chance that this girl is shady and very selfish. She is using you both for her gains. Dont fall for her trap and stay clear from her. There is no point in having her around. Even if she leaves her boyfriend and comes to you, she will never leave this habit of hers. Remember that what she is doing to her bf now is called cheating. She is keeping him in dark and flirting with you. Tomorrow she will do the same to you too. Always beware of people who be in relationships for their own gains. Trust me buddy this girl is not worth it, you deserve better. In the end all you gonna get is a broken heart or a broken nose ( by her bf). Find someone better!!!