What keeps you busy???????????/?
While at work, answering questions on Y!A lol and actually taking care of job related things Outside of work, maintaining the apartment i share with two other guys; of which i do EVERYTHING grrr; outside of that, hanging with friends and doing everything and anything with them.
She says she's busy. Should I keep asking her out?
I asked this before, but some things happened, so I thought I could ask a more clearer question. I have a co-worker whom I've known for 4 months. We've become close friends at work although I only see her a day or two a week; and even then it's only for a few hours. We're very close, and she tells me secrets and things that only I know, and vice versa. We always have lunch and coffee together. We even go for drives or walks together. She's even said she loves me (as I friend I believe) but I have trouble getting her to hang outside the office. I've hung out maybe twice outside the office; but usually she says she's busy, or just doesn't want to go. So I asked her lets go shopping or tennis this Friday. She says she doesn't want to. So I told her that I felt very silly asking her out when she's constantly says she doesn't want to; and that I would stop. She said no, that's not the case at all, she wants to, but I pick the worst times, and she says she feels bad when she says
How do i ask a busy girl out?
okay so this girl that im into right now is a really busy person. if its not her family that she spends time with, its her friends. i asked to hang out with her during the break but she was legit doing something everyday. its not just her having fun either. she has responsibilities that she needs to take care of. school starts again on tuesday. i really like this girl and i think i made it clear out there that i like her so i wouldnt think shes sugar coating a rejection. weve been talking for about a month now and i doubt she would lead me on a chase for nothing. i have some ideas. oh yeah and shes always with her friends at school so how do i get her to be alone without being a creep about it? its hard to talk to her when shes around her friends and i will never do that again. i mean i can be friends with them if i have to. i have some ideas. heres one of them. "hey i know youre busy and all but i just wanted to ask when youre free so that maybe we could do something." or "hey i know youre busy but i just wanted to tell you now so that you could find a day when youre free." i was thinking of something like that, not exactly what im actually going to say. so whats your advice? and lets say i cant get a date with her for any apparant reason, should i just tell her flat out, "hey i think you already know this but i really like you and i know youre a really busy person. i wanted to let you know that i seriously care about you. and if its in your best interests, i can be friends with your friends. thats no problem for me. ill do whatever it takes to make it work. i know you have problems but if you just tell me i can be there for you. i know you dont think the same but i think you are a beautiful person, on the outside but most importantly on the inside. if you dont like me just stop me now. if you never wanted anything more than friendship, then im sorry for trying to make something out of nothing. that only means that i tried only for myself and i selfishly didnt include you. but if you do like me then i dont see why i need to keep beating around the bush, because everytime that i do, i just feel like its time wasted for what we could be. and if you were just looking to be friends, then thats cool too because id rather have you as a friend than not have you in my life at all." something like that i guess would be my last resort. im not trying to sound desperate but thats what ill say if it has to come to that. so yeah any advice should do
Achilles Tendonidous < How do i keep myself busy at home?
i had costochondritis from working out, but i had like so much school work, so i was kind of forced to read a book, and do a sht load of school work, you can maybe do the same, although I don't know anyone who willingly has read a book, and wouldnt do it myself, um.......you can.......damn i dont know umm...let me get back to you on that one here http://www.wikihow.com/Keep-Busy-when-Yo... P.S. you're lucky, I couldnt even masturbate, the pain is similar to a heart attack, if you strain anything in your chest, heart etc. i had to take it really easy haha.