My best friend died over a year ago, before I could tell him I was in love him. How do I cope with that knowing that I will never be with him again?
Just another view to help put things into perspective.Lets say that you did tell him that you love him and he responds positively.Both of you will enjoy getting to be closer, share sweet experiences and have a great time. Experiencing loving someone and someone who loves you back is exhilarating.Then he passes away. Imagine the level of pain you will have because by then you have invested deep emotions and tie it to all the memories and wonderful times that you’ve had with him. You’ll miss him terribly and everyday is a struggle to get on with your life.Now back to your present situation. Realize that the timing was off. Know that it is humanly impossible to predict the countless possibilities. Make peace with yourself and be grateful for the time spent with him as his best friend and that you are lucky to have experienced loving someone.Life is about choices. All of us will have to face some difficulties in choosing and this is one of those times.Do you want to hang on to the regrets and past possibilities? Or begin to take steps to bring your heart and mind to the present to live and open to love again.
Do men only befriend women if they see a possibility of a relationship more than friendship?
If you need a frank answer which isn't intended for upvotes here it is :No guy befriends a girl with the intention of occupying her friendzone if she is attractive enough to him and he is a confident guy. The only reason a guy can end up being friends with a girl is if she just isn't his type or he isn't her type. Or either of them is ugly.For all those who say that a guy&girl can be friends, YES. They can be friends but conditions apply. Let's be real. A relationship, sex etc are the prime motives, as men. If not any of this, some settle for being labelled " Friends " just to get the opportunities to hang out with them and eventually seduce them into a relationship. Bottom line is men befriend women if they are attractive to them (Not talking about mature adults who have been through a zillion "wrong" relationships and then realized that a person's nature or whatever matters more than looks)There are many who might disagree but deep down all men know i am speaking the truth ! ;)
Can a girl date her guy best friend?
She can! Why can't she? Both the parties should have feelings for each other….but then this is like you know Schrodinger's cat…It states, in 1935, Erwin Schrodinger in an attempt to explain the Copenhagen interpretation (a physics term that's not related to this answer) of quantum physics, he proposed an experiment where a cat is placed in a box with a sealed vial of poison that will break open at a random time. Now, since no one knows when or if the poison is released until the box is opened the cat can be thought of both as alive and dead.So, I am assuming that you are into your guy best friend, but you don't know of his side of the story…..My point is, just like Schrodinger's cat your potential relationship with your guy best friend, right now, can be thought as both possible and not! You can only find it, when you open the box, that is actually ask him out, about how he feels or find some other subtle ways to find out like trying to make him jelaous and note his reactions….Thanks for reading:)
What are signs that a guy friend might have a crush on you? Have you ever had a crush on your best friend?
Well, there are a lot of possibilities. One, he will usually (not always) act a little different around you. Don't expect him to ever act the same twice. With guys, they just don't do that (Unless you've got a really one-of-a-kind guy.) Usually he'll go out of his way just to be around you, and he'll be nice, or he'll happen to be nearby a lot, and (pretend) picks on you. Now, just say something nice, or funny (like you would around a normal friend)! Try to be alone with him sometimes, and observe how he reacts. He will usually loosen up a lot, and may just come clean to you! (But, if he doesn't, either it means he didn't have the guts at the moment, or he isn't really into you.) A.) Flirts with you constantly. B.) Looks at you a lot. C.) Acts a little nervous around you. D.) Seems to try to get attention from you, or talks to you a lot. E.) You don't know unless you ask F.) He touches and blushes about it. Also a boy likes you when there is a connection between you and him and no one will end it. You know he likes you when.... * His palms face up. - When his palms face up he is excited to see you and feels open and confident around you. * He stops what he is doing to say hi to you and/or talk. - It's a sign that he's crazy about you when he stops what he is doing to see how you're doing. * He cracks more jokes around you. -If a boy likes you, he might crack a few more jokes or be a little more obnoxious to get your attention. * He looks into your eyes. - When he looks into your eyes, he definitely likes you. If he doesn't, don't worry. He may just be shy. You might have to make the first move. You can tell he likes you if he likes to hang out with you or when his face lights up when you enter the room. But, since he's your friend, these signs could also mean he's just acting like a normal friend around you. So, it's kind of hard to tell... Good luck =)
"There's a possibility"? What the heck does that mean?
Penguin Pirate out to help. Oh, first, i'll be calling you Alana, as it reminds me of llama, which pops into my head when i think of moose, because of a very funny video clip i have seen featuring a llama and moose. So Alana, lets review... You like your friends brother, she noticed, confronted you, found out the truth, asked him, got the answer of possible after torturing him. Well as a penguin, i can say that this is a good sign. It means he does like you, and that comes with a 93% guarantee. As a pirate, i can explain his actions of saying it like that. You see, when asked in the fashion you friend did, it sounds more like confrontation. Also note that they are brother and sister, who by nature try to remain closed off to each other in certain aspects of their lives. So the fact that you got more than a no, even if he did, is quite well done on your friends behalf. So again, he is interested in you. Guys are naturally suspicious of all things girls do, so his crypticness may more have simply been caution. So there we have it Alana, i say you go for it. Good luck with your endeavors.
What are the chances of two best friends falling in love?
Me and my best friend have been friends for about 8 years and everyone tells me that best friends usually end up falling in love , well he is in pa, and i am in another state but he talks to me on the computer every night for 6 hours through instant messages and he says he has a girl friend but my question is it seems kind of funny that he is always talking to me and she is never there at his house but he says they get along good, but then he says he and i are # 1 best friends, and we get along because we just click and we always put up with each others ****. Now if he was with someone it would bother her that he was on the computer with another girl. Hes not a player, could he be telling me he has a girl friend to see how i feel about him. And then every one is telling me not to tell him how i am soo in love with him because it will scare him off!!!
Is it ok for me to date my friend's ex girlfriend?
Ask yourself if it is worth losing your friends friendship over? I am not saying that is what will happen, but its a good possibility. Also, you might end up having to deal with comparisons. Ask your self these questions, How long have they been broken up? Is she trying to get him back by dating you?I have been on the ex’s side of this, back in HS when we were all too young and immature for this type of thing. I dated a boy for 4 years on and off, at my graduation we made a commitment to each other and were talking about moving in together.We had a spat and broke up and within a week he was dating my best friend. I found it extremely hurtful and I felt betrayed, by both parties. I had mixed feelings about the whole thing. They started dating so quickly after we broke up, that I was concerned he was using my besty to get back at me.Then my Besty told him things her and I shared together she also made up things, to ensure that we did not get back together.I tried to remain friends but since they moved so fast, every-time we would get together, he and I would end up in a fight, due to unresolved issues; like we were a couple, and then my besty would end up in tears. Crying, “ you still love her”The whole thing demolished the 3 of our friendships, and then he passed away during all this, from an unexpected illness. I was devastated because I believe he died with bad feelings towards me. I thought I would have more time for us all to heal.Fast forward 30 years later and her and I get together on occasion but when his name comes up, it can silence a room.If you are unsure, the honorable thing to do would be to ask your friend for his blessing if you want to ask her out. He might not care and say go for it.
I'm gay and my (straight) best friend let me kiss him. But I have no idea what he feels about me.?
Because he said yes and kissed you the first time, I'd say he is curious and open-minded. He wanted to know what it was like to kiss you. He also wanted to please you, his friend. But since he said no the second time, he either didn't like the kiss as much as he thought, or, he doesn't want to get involved in romance with you. That might be because he realizes he is more straight. Or that might be because he feels weird about being in a relationship with his male friend. Be cautious, please, and don't pressure him. He *might* be open to future experimentation and kissing, or not. I would not keep pestering him, though, or you'll turn him off and turn him away from you. It might help if you waited for a quiet moment and just asked him how he felt about the experience. But be prepared that kissing a guy might not be his flavor or preference. In the meantime, however your friendship with him unfolds, don't be fatalistic about your life. It is just not true that you will never find anyone as good as him again. The world is full of amazing, loving, sexy, talented, wonderful people -- and if he doesn't wish to be your romantic boyfriend, you will still end up with someone fantastic! Hugs!