Why do people choose not to understand?
have you ever heard of the term "outsider looking in"? its always easier to judge others when you are just looking in from the outsider's point of view. no matter how much the problem is explained, or whatever, people STILL seem to choose to not understand. do people willingly choose to not understand so they can keep criticizing you and being a jerk and treat you like dirt?
Why do people only see things from their point of view?
You're doing exactly that though. You can't understand why they act as they do, what reasoning they have. We can only see things from our own point of view. It's when we can step back and try to see how we would react to the same situation that we understand others. You're judging people for being unable to looking at the individual view points of others, they may be doing so, but choose not to act on this as they may consider their view 'right' despite what other people may think. Nobody can fully understand the views of people fully, it's too broad, with a huge spectrum of factors ranging from emotions, memories, prejudice and education. As a species, we mostly look out for ourselves and close family/friends first, we can be incredibly irrational when confronted with something we consider against our 'morals' or 'ideals' and we find it difficult to step into the shoes of another due to this. We are, as they say, only human.
Why people may not appreciate the cultural point of view of others?
Unfortunately there are people in this world who are very closed-minded and immature. They are not able to accept that people believe different things and live in different ways. Just because one accepts and respects another's opinion does not mean that both agree. Sadly people consider acceptance/tolerance the same as agreement. The fear is that if they they accept someone else who is different, they are just like that person and are choosing to live the same way. For instance, I am a vegetarian and my husband is not. I accept the fact that he eats meat. I may not agree with it but rather than show my disagreement with his choice, I am respectful of it. Does accepting this make me a non-vegetarian? Of course not. He respects that I choose to not eat meat. Does this make him a vegetarian? Again, of course not. The fact that we respect each other's views is what makes us able to get along (now apply that to a more complex, wordly example...). People hate the things they fear and fear the things they do not understand. When someone is accustomed to a certain way of life and then is introduced to another lifestyle that is very different, it's unsettling. Some people deny it altogether and ignore it. Some people start attacking this new lifestyle because it is so very different than what they consider to be their norm.
Why do people block others? What are the reasons to block someone?
Blocking is a way of making the other person restless, it depends on the degree of emotional connect of the person that is blocked. If you really know the person, you might know the trigger after blocking. So some people use it to their advantage to make the other person more vulnerable.Blocking usually affects the one that is very sensitive and emotional and ones that cannot bear silence.Sometimes this is used to show power and to prove a point.Blocking isn't necessary when there is a sense of understanding between two people. Some people block to get some time off the other but if really communicated in an effective at, there really isn't a need to block them from reaching out to you.
What happens when you follow someone on Instagram?
that person gets a notification (and in some cases also a push notification to their cellphone) when someone follows them.On Instagram, there are three main ways to interact with someone. You can like their pictures, comment on pictures, or follow them. This post can serve as your guide on how to handle all of these interactions.Likes:This is, by far, the most common form of interaction on Instagram. To like photos, go to a users page, select a photo, and double tap or hit the like button below the picture to like it.Commonly, likes are returned from the average user. Users with thousands of followers are less likely to return likes.If someone likes some of your pictures, I would recommend going to their page and liking the same number of pictures as they liked for you. If you absolutely hate their pictures, you don’t have to like any. Remember, they chose to like your pictures and you probably won’t ever hear from them again.Comments:Comments are the in-between when it comes to Instagram interactions.If someone comments on your picture, you should reply to them (this might mean thanking them for a compliment or answering a question). To do this on your own picture, type @[their username] so that they receive a notification that you replied to their comment.If you go and comment on someone’s photo, do not use @[their username]. They will get the notification because it is on their photo. Also, tagging someone on their own photo is seen as something only done by new users and will make you look unexperienced.You can also return comments as you would return likes.Follows:Follows are rare because people are always considering their “ratio”. This ratio is the number of followings compared to their number of followers.First of all, you should always follow back people that you know personally, like friends, coworkers, or family.If someone follows you and you like their pictures, follow them back. Do not feel obligated to follow them. Remember, they chose to follow you and, if you don’t know them personally, you have no need to follow them.If you choose to follow someone you don’t know personally, do not expect to be followed back. If they follow you back it is a bonus, but don’t expect them too.Good luck and remember to have fun with Instagram!
What bad things would happen if I don't believe in God?
What bad things would happen if I don't believe in God?Without more information I can’t advise you on your personal situation, but I can tell you what happened to me: I stopped believing in god and no bad things happened. Not a single one. Or, should I say, nothing that doesn’t happen to everyone else on the planet, and certainly not because I stopped believing in god.In fact, many good things happened as a direct result. I wasn’t constrained by a milleniums-old view of morality, for a start, so my life is not overshadowed by guilt like many religious people I know. I stopped living in fear of offending a supernatural being whose capricious whims I could never know. I stopped ‘praying’ and started doing useful things like actually helping people and supporting charities with my money. I stopped going to church and thereby freed up my time to do other more productive things. I stopped villifying people who held religions different to my own. I stopped supporting an institution that I now believe is corrupt and manipulative. I avoided indoctrinating my own children with poisonous and unsupportable beliefs. I became happier in my life and in myself.Your mileage might vary according to your circumstances, but if you actually don’t believe in god, well, you have no choice. Embrace it, and live a better life.