What do people think of a large engagement ring?
I find the functionality of an engagement ring to be both attractive and bode well as a sign for the future of the relationship; a large or excessively heavily mounted ring that can get caught on things inhibits the hand, it speaks to the intention to be seen and not do with that hand… if it is not a burden to wear, go for it?Is this ring to be worn alongside the wedding ring?To sit in a drawer once wed?Does it have to be an engagement ring?My wife and I wear some simple but beautiful mokume gold bands made by the amazing goldsmith Chris Ploof ; and that allows us to wear our wedding rings 99% of the time… unless she’s swinging an axe or swimming in the ocean, its on her finger without ever being a hassle.I knew my wife did not want an engagement ring, so I asked her to marry me with a bracelet instead. Stepping outside of tradition allowed me to give her a much more amazing token of our future together (and more valuable objectively), but also gives her more options when she feels like adding a little extra glitter.Look at engagement rings, then the necklaces, bracelets and other options that would match your wedding rings; I bet you will like what you find!We found both our engagement bracelet and wedding rings at the DM Gallery in Northampton MA USA… the owner and staff have treated us great for years!
Do I wear my engagement ring to the ceremony?
Nope. You remove the engagement ring (let a bridesmaid hold it). The wedding band needs to be the first ring placed on that finger, so that it is closest to you heart. After the ceremony you can put your engagement ring right back on, keeping it the outer ring on that finger.
Do you think an engagement ring is necessary for a woman, or is it more egalitarian, (and therefore preferable?) for the couple to both just have wedding rings?
Here in Finland the most common habit is that both wear engagement rings, irrespective of sex. Both may also have wedding rings, or alternatively just the bride has one, it depends on the couple. It’s also possible for both to just have a wedding ring.Yes, I think it’s more egalitarian if wearing a ring (or not wearing it) is mutual.Couples almost always choose (and pay for) the engagement rings together here. Many opt for something really simple, and often if you have diamonds it’s in the wedding ring rather than the engagement ring. In any case, the size of the diamond is not an issue, and there’s increasing concern about the origin of the diamonds and the workers’ rights of the people who mine them.Personally I hate diamonds; I find them far too flashy and pompous, and I like to know where my jewelry comes from to ensure the process is ethical.My favourite material for rings is stainless steel: it’s simple, and it reminds me of finding great beauty in the middle of what’s ordinary — treasuring each moment, because that’s where miracles lie.And steel can be recycled.Isn’t it beautiful symbolism to wear a ring made of melted tanks?
Do you think that you should pick out the engagement ring together before the proposal happens?
There is no “should” in this case. Some people really value the surprise and joy that an unexpected proposal brings, others less so. Also, some women (or men, certainly) may not have a particularly strong idea or preference when it comes to engagement rings. They would like whatever their partner chooses for them.For myself, I consulted my girlfriend’s (now wife’s) best friend, as I had suspected they had talked about engagement rings or jewelry styles at some point. They had, and she gave me some tips and directions. Then I consulted with her again when I picked something, she gave the thumbs up, and my wife was really happy with my choice.Of course, if my then-fiance wanted something different, I would have been perfectly happy to return it and get something else. Not exactly anticipating your partner’s ring preference is nothing to be ashamed of, and certainly not a harbinger of doom for your relationship. Before I decided to propose, I’m certain I had thought about the various types of engagement rings for less than 30 seconds in my entire life. Cumulatively.
Is $25,000 (USD) too much to spend on an engagement ring?
WOW, $25,000 I guess it depends on how much money you guys make. If his last name is Gates or Trump I would say no. I can tell you this I make just under $250,000 a year and I would not spend that on one. Good thing my wife of 18 years would also smack me if I ever did spend that much on something like that. Fact of the matter is if you really love him and want to spend the rest of your lives together spend the $25,000 on something like a down payment on a home or paying your bills off. If you are thinking about financing the ring your absolutely crazy to want to start your new life with him $25,000 in debt.
What does my small engagement ring mean?
My fiancé and I have been together for three years. This past Valentines day he proposed. I was very excited and of course said yes!! However for the past few months Ive been very bothered about the ring he got me. I’m def. not a gold digger, but I feel like “what the heck!!” Since we have lived together (2 ½ years) We have made many purchases together adding up to a total of about 100k!! We have all new furniture, new big screen TV’s, He has a brand new sports car, and makes close to 60k a year!! Were great together and I love him to pieces I just don’t understand why he went so cheap on my ring. It’s a 1/3 of a carrot Solitare in a simple band, costing less then 300 dollars!! His family is in the jewelery business so he gets everything at 60% cost. I know it’s not about the money.. But seriously that’s the amount of money we spend on a nice dinner out!! I started crying one night in front of him and he didn’t understand… I don’t want to hurt his feelings but feel embarrassed when I show my friends my tiny diamond… While his 50K sports car sits in the driveway Please Help need some advice!!
Do you think that my engagement ring is "ugly, tacky, low class, or gaudy?
My fiance recently retired from the military He's currently in school, and he's living on a very tight budget. When my fiance proposed in October he didn't have a ring, because he didn't know what kind of ring I would like. So I told him anything with rubies or white sapphires. He bought me this beautiful ring on black Friday from Amazon. Oh my gosh I love this ring. It's absolutely gorgeous!! My e-ring is in the picture. I've been dealing with some backlash from a couple of women that I work with. They have made some very nasty comments about about my engagement ring. Their remarks about my engagement ring have been hurtful. I don't want to snarl at them, but they are making me mad. My fiance chose a ring that fit my personality, and it's just stunning. It's not a perfect ring, but it comes from my fiance. That's all that really matters to me. This is also the link to my e-ring: http://www.amazon.com/1-35-Round-White-Sapphire-Yellow/dp/B00844SQ8W/ref=sr_1_21?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1449044207&sr=1-21&nodeID=7454892011&keywords=ruby+rings+white+sapphire&refinements=p_n_material_browse%3A2748413011%2Cp_n_material_browse%3A114272011%2Cp_n_material_two_browse-bin%3A114274011%2Cp_n_material_two_browse-bin%3A319613011 Do you think that my engagement ring is "ugly, tacky, low class or gaudy"?
How do I buy an engagement ring for my girlfriend?
If she has another ring, you can take it with you for the size. Someone close to her (mom, friend, sister, etc) may also know her ring size. My mom doesn't know my specific size per se but she knows her own and she knows my hand is smaller than hers. Keep in mind it's a lot easier to make a ring smaller than it is bigger. Some metals also can't be resized. If you're looking at a gold ring you should be fine, but metals like tungsten can't be resized. A size 7 is a good start, that way she can get it made smaller or bigger 1-2 sizes. While my husband picked out the ring himself, he straight up asked what size. I only wear a size 5 ring so a size 7/8+ would be way too big for me.