I hate my life? Nothing is going right, please help.?
Im a 18 year old girl, never had a boyfriend or did anything. I have lost alot of my friends because I distanced myself away from them because im so unhappy. Im not in college and most of my friends are. Most of my friends are in happy relationships where the guy treats them like a princess. I cry myself to sleep everynight because my life sucks. Everyone is doing so much better than me while im just sitting at home gaining weight. Idk what to do with myself anymore, im trying to hold and wait for things to get better but idk if I can I dont like the way I look and I dont like where im at in life right now. Everyone is so happy and I sometimes wonder why it cant be me. i will literally give the shirt off my back to someone else, I always care about people and try to give to people when I can. But I dont get any of it back, im so unhappy I just want to die and give up. I cant get counseling because I dont have the money or the time. I just need words of encouragement or anything that can help me feel better. Everyday I want to give up and ask god to take me away, I will never take my own life, but I dont care if I would die tomorrow. Im tired.
Help. I'm too lazy and it's ruining my life?
- i don't think it's a matter of laziness.everything you talked about are symptoms of depression. no sex drive, no ambition, sedentary behavior,lacking motivation,withdrawing from life,eating less than usual. idk, maybe it stems from your illness,don't put off getting help.the situation won't resolve itself without action. get some therapy to deal with what's going on with your life. do any type exercise that you like.therapists ask their clients to keep a diary,you can do that. email Samaritans.org and talk all this over with someone who will email you back the next day. go to the free local DBSA meetings in your area. if you don't feel like eating, try to make the meals you do eat as nutritional as possible. - have a meeting with your boyfriend, parents,or both. explain that you want to get some therapy to turn your life around. tell them how bad you feel mooching off them and you want things to change, but depression has you locked into helplessness and hopelessness. ask for them to pay for the therapy and arrange to pay them back.give them an idea of what things you can do to achieve the goal of repayment. try therapy before you even consider medication. idk about what kind of illness you have. can you find some work that you can do from home? like on the computer or on the phone? paying for therapy ,with a therapist you trust, a very good investment. one size doesn't fit all so 'interview' a few over the phone before you make an appointment. you can google how to pick a good therapist. there are therapists that offer sliding scale payments. get over a lot of your depression,make a little money,you can pay back your parents and boyfriend and maybe be more independent.
Im going to dedicate my life to animals, help?
so i am ready to dedicate my life to helping animals. i am 13 and i am putting on an event and its going to be HUGE! so anyways, i want to continue doing stuff, all the shelters near me have some polissy that you must be over 16 to vollunteer, so what can i do to start now? i have faith in myself and i can do what alot of people say i am to young to do so any answer that anybody has is appreaciated. Thank you!!! :)
Help! What’s going on with my digestive system?:(?
I am 19 years old and I am having horrible digestive issues. I am always bloated and pretty gassy. My stomach always feels full of pressure and I always look about 4 months pregnant, even though I am a very thin girl. I am always chronically fatigued and have a decent amount of anxiety. I have ruled out all my food allergies and I take a probiotic. I have seen doctors about this issue for a while but still no answeres. I’m so miserable and it’s interfering with my life so bad.
How are you, and how is life going?
I don't know how come this question has been asked to me, anyways thanks for A2A.Hmmm, so about me! I am tired, but the whole day is just amazing experience! I was on the cloud nine today.Today, I did something adventurous, like I took my bike and went for a road trip to lavasa.I was scared because it is something I never did before, it was raining, atmosphere was Foggy, and I was little nervous but I finally made it. My first solo trip was great experience!{now don't ask me who clicked this Pic, as I was struggling to take selfie one good human being saw me & clicked this}This Pic shows the satisfaction on my face! Dar ke aage Jeet Wali feeling!And the weather was something like this.Actually, yesterday only I came across the app called “Trell” and downloaded it, and there was a challenge for weekend that either share your experience of a solo trip or have one, as I didn't have any experience of it, I thought of trying it but was scared. Not actually ready to go for it but then my husband motivated me to take this challenge saying you will gain a confidence go and make it happen ;and I did it.So life for me today is cool…Foggy…and rainy…So I am on the cloud 9 and life is amazing!Stay blessed stay happy and be adventurous!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! calculus is going to ruin my life!?
If the language barrier is not confusing, we can do like this: f(x) = 4x³ + ax² + bx + k 1) a min at x = -1 means the first derivation of f is zero in x = -1 thus: f ' (x) = 12x² + 2ax + b f ' (-1) = 12 - 2a + b and we know f ' (-1) = 0 to have a minimum of f in x = -1 therefore: 12 - 2a + b = 0 or: 2a - b = 12 2) a point of inflection at x= -2 means the second derivation of f is zero here. thus: f '' (x) = 24x + 2a f '' (-2) = -48 + 2a f '' (-2) = 0 thus: -48 + 2a = 0 a = 24 now we can also find b: 2a - b = 12 or: b = 2a - 12 a = 12 b = 36 now we have: f(x) = 4x³ + 12x² + 36x + k the integral: [0,1] ∫ f(x) dx = 32 ∫ f(x) dx = ∫ (4x³ + 12x² + 36x + k) dx = x^4 + 4x³ + 18x² + kx [0,1] ∫ f(x) dx = (1^4 + 4* 1³ + 18* 1² + k*1) - (0^4 + 4* 0³ + 18* 0² + k*0) = 1 + 4 + 18 + k back to the assumption: [0,1] ∫ f(x) dx = 32 1 + 4 + 18 + k = 32 so k = 9 hope this helps.
I'm going through a very difficult time in my life. What are some things I can do to weather the storm?
I'm sure you've probably heard all the tough people last tough times addages. But when the difficulty arrives in full force, sometimes, all those right sounding words have no meaning to us when we are in the thick of it.A wise man once said this to me.When you are faced with a difficult situation, ask yourself 3 simple questions:1. Can you do anything about it today? If no, quit worrying. Worrying never solved a problem. If yes, do what you can, do it to your best ability.2. Can you do anything about it tomorrow? If you cannot do anything about it today, quit worrying. Replace your worry with a smile, listen to some music that usually makes you feel good. Tomorrow, you'll probably have a fresh perspective on the problem.3. Can you do anything about it ever? If you can't, quit worrying. If you can, then prepare yourself to deal with it squarely and with no fear. Gold only becomes shiny after its been passed through fire, this is one of your fires.Above all. Practice positivity. Its a mindset shift. Greatly different from the worry mindset we have all been so used to. There's no situation that isn't trying to teach you something. Without a positive outlook, the lesson is most likely always lost on us.With positivity comes a firm trust in the Almighty. Who else can be more positive?