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Whats Wrong With Me If I Get Upset And Depressed If I Can

Can a dog get upset/depressed over a haircut?

This is a bit long, but please read, I am really confused! I have a very furry dog and since the summer is here (and i live in texas) I decided to take her to the groomers last saturday. Now i took my dog to her a lot of times and she never cut her hair very short, but this time, she left her furry tail and face, but the rest of her hair is very very short (about 2 cm length). My dog has never had her hair that short (her hair is usually about an inch or two long normally). She still looks cute as ever so i dont mind it and i thought that since shes a dog, she wouldnt care either. Lately, though, since we got back from the groomers, i have been noticing a change in her behavior. She doesnt get excited anymore like she used to, and barely comes to greet me at the door when i come home, like she did before. Then, She is always shaking her body constantly. My mom and i joked and said "shes looking for her hair", but now, I am starting to wonder is she depressed about her hair cut short. I keep on thinking its a silly idea, but i dont know what else i can attribute to her change in behavior, since it only happened after the haircut and never before. If so, do you have any suggestions on what i should do besides waiting until her hair grows out?

Any help would be greatly appreciated and thank you in advance!

Why do women bake when they are upset, angry or depressed?

They don't put you in prison for baking!

What is wrong with me, I'm so sad, scared, depressed, and hopeless?

Why are you sad, depressed or hopeless?Are you like this ?or may be like this?if “ NO” then you are the most happiest person.“ Are you able to eat your breakfast, lunch and dinner”if “YES” then you are the most happiest and luckiest person on this entire earth.Don’t get sad by those small problems in your life like……my girlfriend left me what should i doi have no job i am hopelessi am not able to clear any exam etc etc etcthese things are parts and parcel of life . they will come and go.generally humans are sad when they do not not get what they wanted.so there is nothing wrong with you friend. You are a human.now the thing is how to make yourself happythings you should do are……………..WAKE UP EARLY IN THE MORNING(before the Sun rises) and thank God for this new morning.2. Drink lots of water empty stomach and do some exercise3. Wish your parents and take their blessings.4 Make plans for the day5. And start working towards your goalAND LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST DO “MEDITATION”it will give you positive energy and will increase your thinking power…..i also suggest you to watch a movie that is “pursuit of happyness” …after watching that movie you will not complain about your problems…i think i am able to answer..So be happy and always SMILE :)

I feel so depressed after watching anime. I have no idea what is wrong...?

Okay...I bought Yu Yu Hakusho recently and now i am almost done with the whole series. I was so happy when i first bought it and now... i feel really down. Some symptoms i am feeling from this are

A racing Heart
Feeling Empty
Becoming happy and then sad in a few short moments
I get headaches
I begin to shake
I have fatigue
It feels like i have a broken heart
And there are times i feel i have anger.
At night, i tend to cry about things that should never upset me.

I mean, i love Yu Yu Hakusho so much but at the same time, i feel very angry about it. Sometimes i feel as though i wished i had made that anime. That is probably what i am feeling. (See...i love to draw and i write stories and for majority of my life, i had hoped i could be a manga artist or a voice actor) But then also...there is another side of this so-called 'Depression' that i am getting. I keep feeling that i don't have time anymore in the world and that i will never see anime again. Maybe i am just thinking way to ahead for my life. (I am only 20!) I keep getting these thoughts of the end of the world and me not fulfilling my life.

Is there something wrong with me? Am i suffering from a mental breakdown? Depression? Is this just a side effect from watching this anime? I mean, this has never happened before and i have watched plenty of good animes as well. I hope someone can help me.

I have already asked a few friends and they believe i am suffering from a panic attack. I have no idea. someone please help me.

I could also be suffering from not being able to draw like i use to. I still want to try and make a manga but i know it will never get published. (Probably i am depressed because i don't have a good enough career and i have no job...)

What does it mean when I'm depressed one day and then fine the next?

It means you are normal. People who are depressed still have good days, happy moments, and moments of peace.One way I like to think about depression is that is moves your baseline or normal mood down.So if you imagine a graph with mood on the y axis (happier as you go up, sadder as you go down) most healthy people have a baseline or neutral mood (x axis is time) right in the middle at neither happy nor sad. Then things happen that bump their mood one way or the other from that line, but they always return to neutral.For someone who is depressed, that baseline starts lower. Your default mood is not neutral, it’s slightly sad. When nothing happens, you feel sad. Then events or other stimulus happens that bump your mood either way. It’s easier for you to feel more saddened by events than the average person and it takes more stimulus to make you feel ok or happy than a healthy person.This is obviously an oversimplification of depression. People experience depression in very different ways and may not feel sad so much as apathetic, but I hope it helps.I’d also like to point out that the kind of stimulus I’m talking about to move your mood up and down are often very small every day things. Time of day, weather changes, stimulus like smells, a text message from a friend all of these little things can bump us up an down, depressed or otherwise.Please let me know if this makes sense or if I can clarify it more for you.

Why do I get so depressed over little things?

Without knowing your history, and your specific experiences, its hard to tell you why.What I can tell you is, depression doesn’t assess “big” or “small” things the same way you do. Your perceptions on what are important and not important, do not dictate how your bioligical chemistry will respond to it. The reality in most cases, is that its not so much about the “things” that are causing the depression, but your outlook and expectations of your life in general. It's funny, we as humans linger on events and people as our cause for our frustrations, depressions, or anxiety, and while it may trigger certain responses in our body, the reality is that most times the depression is happening internally with something blocked inside us.Instead of focusing on being happier and feeling good about those little things, try finding the root cause of the problem. I had an issue myself, where my career- which was my biggest passion and excitement in life, had become so empty and depressing to me. It scared me so much. I wonderered why wasn't I happy to do the thing I had always loved? I kept pushing the kind of pressure onto myself, hoping I would suddenly love it if I kept telling myself to. But all I got were obessive doubts and more feelings of depression. It wasn't until I realized that the problem was not my career, but it was my expectations that I had put on my career. that created this depressed feeling. When I was younger my career was my hobby. There were no expectations, just fun and a chance to escape from the mundane of reality. But once it became my job, I put this added pressure that I needed to love it in order to succeed. That I needed it in order to live a happy life. Those expectations coupled with the pressure of my career, took its toll, and I burned out. Now I find balance, and do other things to find my fulfillment. And put less pressure on this “thing.” And now I am much happier, and enjoy my career so much more.Find your root cause. Its not what we are doing, but how we perceive what we are doing that causes depression or fulfillment.If this doesnt help and it feels really serious, find a doctor that can help. Sometimes medication can help for Serious conditions.But I have found that if we can lower our expectations, stay in the moment, and show up in our life every day: little by little we will find the excitement we were once searching for.

Does depression make you have anger outbursts?

There is an excellent book out called

"Working with Anger" BY: Thubten Chodron

It does not make a person think or feel there is something wrong with them if they get angry, feel depressed or if they worry, but it does help a person successfully deal with their anger, in a wholesome and productive way. It provides many wholesome alternatives to anger, and how to practice those alternatives with success.

It is normally $12.95 at Barnes & Noble, and most other book stores, but I looked on Amazon and bought the book used 2 months ago, for only $3.25 (that cost was of course without shipping and tax). The book was in perfect condition, with no marks or highlighting in the book.

From personal experience of having had (and still occasionally have) the challenge of dealing with anger, this book is Most Excellent. It has helped me tremendously.

Everyone, from one degree or another, struggles with anger. "Working with Anger" is set out to help anyone, from the person that has an occasional outburst, to the person who slaps his/her spouse or children. It is based on a principle, she (Thubten Chodron) has, of
No-Harm. It also helps a person with depression, worry, fear, and many anxieties of life. The author has traveled throughout the U.S. and all around the world giving talks, and answering questions for people.

I am no Psychologist, but I am an R.N. - with a Master's Degree, having some knowledge.

I would recommend the book

"Working with Anger"

By: Thubten Chodron, to everyone.

Happy Holidays to you and to all your family.

I always seem to get either depressed or angry right around my period. What is wrong with me?

Hello Dear, Yes we can give about 10%-30% of credit to the Hormones but be Honest and answer the below questions…Do you feel You can be more Happy than what you are in the last three Years?Do you feel their are a few past Hurtful situations that you haven’t let go of and those get triggered during your menstrual cycles.Do you think your present could be better? If yes then if you solve them, your menstrual cycle will be seen as just a bodies function without creating any discomfort.Further you can Book your online no cost Aware Insight Session (45 mins) to understand the process to take charge of your negative emotions Aware Living & LearningLove & Light to you always!Know More about AWARE LIVING & LEARNING hereWebsite Aware Living & LearningFacebook Aware Living & Learning

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