Is it okay to date someone you met online? I trust and like him alot.?
I'd say no because you never know who it could be. I mean, those might not even be his pictures. Chances are, he's telling the truth, but you never know. So many other girls that got abducted or hurt or killed thought they were in love with someone online and it turned out to be some creepy guy. I can understand how you really have feelings for him, but I think for your own safety, you should stay away. As far as the age difference, it's kind of big now, but it would not as noticeable when you get older. Sorry, I don't have much experience dating (okay, none), but I think you should just play it safe and just talk to him online and not ever meet him in person. Sorry, but that's the best I can do.
We met online, but should I trust him?
You should be very careful of the people you meet online. It can be very dangerous, many of the people are creeps, not everysingle one of them but a goood majority of them. its good that you talk alot and often thats a good sign, but considering you have never met in person is a bad sign, he could not be who he says he is, he could also not be a he if you have never webcammed. Guys who have "fun" with women on the internet are not looking for anything serious they just want the fun, hence why they meet women on the internet rather then going out in the world. however the technology that we have today makes the internet a faster way to meet people. I would be cautious of the whole love situation. How can you possibly love someone you have never met. People act alot differently online rather in person, the internet and texting allows people to say and do things they would never do in person, people arent exactly who they seem to be online. Also he most likely does not love you, hate to break it you, he probably just says that to keep you around, and the line about youre the only one he has said it too is bologna, he probably has other girls who he says the same things to. i would just stay very cautious of this man until you meet him in person. If you ever do meet him, be very careful he could be dangerous, make sure somebody knows where you are and what you are doing. Also pick a very public place just incase he decides to do something, do not meet him in a car or a house, until you are a hundred percent comfortable with this man. now he could be an amazing true guy, or he could be just like the rest, just be honest with yourself and be careful i dont think i can stress that enough. good luck
Could you trust someone you have never met?
You really don't. You risk a little, but potential gain is pretty big. One of my best friends is a 54 year old married lady in Oregon whom I've never met (she, by the way, was widowed and met her curent husband of 5 years on-line!) but who is the mother of 4 kids and is, probably, one of my closest friends. I'm able to use her for a sounding board, for a womans point of view, and just to empty some feelings on and know that she'll share the pain I sometimes feel (God! I sound like Bill Clinton! "I feel your pain!") The LEVEL of trust comes gradually...in time. You both proceed, let out as much about yourself as you feel comfortable, and gauge the next level based on his/her response. And let in go from there. Common sense comes in handy too! But, if you are dealing with a nurse, or personal trainer, you'll be all right!! (big grin!)
Can I trust this guy who I met online?
Have you ever seen that show Catfish? I am worried about this one. He has had so many chances to talk on the phone or do skype...it just doesn't make sense! You should be straight up and tell him how you are feeling. Tell him you trust him but you want more out of the friendship/relationship then a "virtual" one. If he doesn't make a move soon, I would stop talking to him. You can trust people online, but you should always be very very careful. I met a guy online and it turned out great, he was who he said he was and we have gone on a few dates, things are going well. I was super concerned but he did talk to me on the phone and would text me real time pictures. Just be careful! Good luck.
Is it ok for me to date someone that I met online but haven't met in real life?
I met a girl many years ago through IRC (Internet Relay Chat, it was like…Yahoo Chat before yahoo chat existed. it’s still around!). She was in Colorado Springs, CO, I lived in Toronto at the time. We chatted for hours on end, we seemed to be into the same stuff (sci fi, reading, video games, etc). We eventually took our relationship to ICQ when that launched, and eventually to voice chatting and video chatting, including cybering (chat sex), phone sex and video call sex. It was all good. We fell in (what we thought was) love. She had some sort of government job, and couldn’t relocate, so I managed to land a 6month contract with a tech company in Colorado Springs to be with her. She was everything I expected and desired. We matched up in pretty much every way, physically, sexually, humour, intellect, etc. The sex was INCREDIBLE. When you are so in tune with someone that they anticipate your movements and the sex becomes a symbiotic intertwining of two people rather than just an awkward, clumsy mechanical exercise, that’s the good sex. Then the crazy started. She’d phone me to make sure i got to work ok. Fine, new city, easy to get lost. Then she’d phone at lunch to see what i was eating. Then she’d phone before i left work. If i took too long to get home, she’d phone to see where I was. I took a day off work one week, and followed her to her office. The “government job” I thought she had? Cashier at a government building cafeteria. The sweet loft she “owned”? long term house-sitting gig. Basically all the elements of her life except me were lies. And she was rapidly becoming crazier by the day. Eventually, the crazy outweighed the awesome sex, and I bailed and went back to canada.So, pro-tip: Find out the crazy, if at all possible, BEFORE you do something huge like move to another country to be with them.ps: Never stick your dick in crazy. Or let crazy stick its dick in you.