I'm 28 years old and never had a girlfriend, will I ever get married?
eHarmony would LOVE you b/c you are a nice guy who is not diseased, and probably would treat his wife fantastically. You should go on there and see what happens. Btw, my parents didn't get married until they were 29. They had a love match that lasted until death.
How does marriage change as time goes by? Ever think you'll get bored with each other?
Ok I can't wait to get married, have a family and get to experience all those exciting milestones. I don't have anyone special in my life right now (V-day sucks :) but of course I often think about what married life will be like. During dating both people go through the infatuation phase and everything is love and romance. Then the proposal happens and there is excitement for the marriage. The first year or two of marriage is fantastic and though some people start to lose desire for each other here many go on happier still. You also have kids, home ownership, etc. to look forward to. But I keep getting stuck on what happens after you've been together for several YEARS. It seems like people progress to a state of being super comfortable with each other and agree that it only gets BETTER. That sounds great to me but I fear that I'll get bored. Are their any of you who DISLIKE how comfortable you feel with each other? Is the sexual desire still really there? Is it possible for it to occasionally feel like its exciting and all new with the same person a decade later?
If everything happens for a reason, why would I fall in love with a married guy?
I fell in love with a married guy! It is such a long complicated story, but I need some serious advice! I feel as if my friends are tired of hearing about it, and I don't know what to do. I almost think that I may need some professional help to deal with all of this, but I'm hoping someone will have some advice that will ease how I'm feeling. I am not too comfortable with writing the whole situation on here (as it is a very f'd up situation), but I will say that I am married, he is married, we both have kids, and things got out of control! I can not get him out of my head! No matter what I do, there is always something that will remind me of him. I swear, it's like I'm not meant to forget. It is torture and has consumed my life! I know I'll probably get some haters, which I totally don't blame..after all, you get what you deserve...BUT...I did not mean for any of it to happen, but it did, and I don't know how to get over it!! If I let myself believe in the whole "everything happens for a reason" theory, then why would this happen? I just need someone to talk to!!!
What is the right age to get married?
I think there is no such “good age” or “bad age”!Please keep the below points in your mind, while taking decision for marriageFor men:Whenever you think you can take a stand for your wife in front of your parents.Whenever you think she can go to the market to purchase vegetables alone.Whenever you think you can give up some bad habits for someone's love.Whenever you think you can feed her daily even without the support of your family.Whenever you think you are tired up from these flirts, girlfriends, lusts and all other distractions.Whenever you think now you will not hesitate to buy the sanitary pad for her from your nearby shop.For women:Whenever you think now you have forgotten your ex. (applicable for both)Whenever you think you are ready to take some responsibilities.Whenever you think now you don't have to be dependent on anyone.Whenever you think cooking for the family is more important than watching serials on TV.Whenever you think Instagram stories are not more important than making delicious food for the family.Whenever you think now you can manage the office, home and family.Whenever you start knowing how to avoid flirty boss.Whenever you are okay to accept an individual in your private space.I am writing this answer after 10 months of our marriage, So don't take me wrong. Well If whether you are a boy or a girl and if you are not fulfilling all of the above points. Still, that is ok but please be ready to adapt and learn these qualities.Image source: My phone.Till the date of my marriage, I thought its too early I can’t manage life, wife, office, and home altogether.But seriously you have to, believe me, I don’t know how time is passing. It seems we got married just yesterday. Everything is fine and well managed, by the way, we had an arranged marriage.One last advice:A girl can be your worst nightmare or best friend that all depends on you, how you deal and treat her.In case you are reading my answer first time. My name is Anil Narwal.If you want to read one more interesting answer: Anil Narwal's answer to What are some great examples of coincidence?
Do u beleive everything is forgivable in a marriage?
No not everything is forgivable. Is sexual abuse on the kids forgivable? No. Then again my mom thought it was. Go ahead and ask if she gets to see her grand kids though. (The answer is no). Abuse.. severe physical or emotional abuse. Not really forgivable nor is it safe. Now cheating... I think its forgivable. If you knew about it and married the person anyways and its 6 years later... its time to move on. And cheating in the first 3 months is not as severe as cheating after a year or 10 years. It was still new and in that early stage everyone questions exclusivity. id say whoever is not over it needs to do so.. particularly if the person didn't cheat again. Try counseling if the issue is one that cannot be moved on from. Its not fair to stay with someone and hold it over their head forever.
In marriage astrology, what is Dasa Sandhi? If everything else matches expect Dasa Sandhi, is it ok to get married? Please advice
Dash Sanshipu system is followed by kerala Astrology.In any given kundali or birth chart, based on Janma Nakshatra, dash periods are calculated for all 9 planets of different period. The total periods of all 9 planets comes to 120 years. Normally at the marriage age the boy and girl are between the age 20 to 30 years.While comparing the charts of boy and girl if it is found that both are running same dash i.e. Mahadasha or dasha of one of them going is to change within a year then the marriage is not recommended. No other option is open for the marriage.This is very rigid system. One may check other systems like ten pouthams or ashtkut gun milap.
Is living together before marriage a bad idea?
be careful, but there is nothing wrong with it despite what the christians will tell you.