What does it mean when someone hates you?
Hello thereI’m going to assume that you’ve done nothing to merit their hatred. If you stabbed their mother to death, for example, then the answer is plain.If somebody hates you for simply being you then it’s a perverted form of compliment. It means that you have something they desire: a character trait, social grace and popularity, brains, career success or wealth.It could be almost anything.What’s important is that it says everything about them and nothing about you.I have been the object of hatred a few times in my life and it felt absolutely shit. As I matured, however, I came to realise that this hatred was their problem and that it didn’t have to be mine. I could let it connect to my own lack of self-worth, I could fret about it, I could worry that I MUST have done something wrong or I could simply say:‘Fuck it!’and move on to concerning myself with something more constructive.I heartily recommend that you do the same.If your conscience is truly clear then you have nothing to fret about. Take it as a positive and enjoy life. They’ll poison their own selves with their hatred. Let them. You can’t do anything for them besides continue to be that awesome person that is YOU!
How do u know when someone hates you???????
If they REALLY hate you, then they do everything they can to harm you, but not provoke you. They won't openly or physically attack you. They won't talk nasty about you to your face unless you're in a scuff. But they'll make up all kinds of bad rumors about you. They'll join up with you and act like your friend in some kind of project and secretly sabotage what you do. They'll try to get the populace against you so other people do mean things to you. True hatred breeds that kind of attitude. They want the entire world to seem like it's working against you, and the hater doesn't want you to know it's him. He wants you to think that you can't handle the project. That you are making mistakes that cause other people to give you trouble, or that you're simply making a ton of wrong moves. Then, you are forced to change. You will feel compelled to do things differently, or act differently, or, if you fall completely for the gag, you may change yourself entirely. Ugh.... If you feel this kind of pressure, it is possible that you are being affected by hate. And the silentest of your adversaries is probably the culprit.
What does it mean when you have a dream that someone hates you?
I like this guy and he likes me we'll be going out real soon were perfect for each other and he told me he loves me and i love him but last night i had a dream that we were talking on the phone(like we always do) and he told me he hated me but i started crying in the dream. So what does it mean? Help me please I'm going to go crazy!!!
How can you tell if someone hates you?
I think unless you are in school then you would easily know if somone hated you. By the way they talk to you, treat you, never return your call, avoid you etc etc etc But if still in school well I guess there really isnt a good way to tell apart from the above as sometimes peeps when young pretend to hate someone meaning they really like them but are scared of rejection from both a potential gf/b and just a friend
What do you do when you miss someone who hates you?
Try to take comfort in the fact that he is a whole bunch of curse words that Y!A will censor if I type. Seriously, he was never your best friend. Anyone who gave a sh*t about you would not demand you have sex with him "if you want him to stick around." Seriously, that's plain bullying. He deserves to be punched. I was ready to cheer for you when I read that you didn't give in. Good for you. You did the right thing, and you're better off without him. I dumped a close friend recently. Not a boyfriend, but a close friend. She was nasty and mean and liked to tear me down to build herself up. On occasion she was physically violent with me, slapping, pinching and shoving me if I did anything she didn't like. Eventually, I told her to get the f*ck away from me and never come back. The weird thing? She wasn't always like that, and sometimes I still find myself having dreams of reconciling with her or running into her again or just having fun with her. Will that ever happen? No. SHOULD it happen? Hell no. She was an abusive b*tch and I did what I had to do. But I'm pretty sure I'm having those dreams and occasionally missing her because, for a long time, i DID see her as a close friend. I genuinely cared for her, even if she didn't return it. You genuinely cared about this guy. It clearly wasn't mutual, but that says great things about your character and really crappy things about his. You are a caring and loving person who would forgive him for hurting you so badly. You did the right thing. If your mutual friends ditched you for him, they were sh*t friends to begin with and you're better off being lonely than with people who don't care about you - trust me. I'm sorry you're in pain, but I promise this will pass. Work on meeting new people, and devote time to your studies and hobbies. Learn to cook. Start biking. Do something that makes you happy. There will be other phases of your life following this guy, and in a couple of years this won't even matter. :)
How do you deal with being hated by someone you love?
The conventional wisdom would probably be to let it go and don't let it bother you... but if only that was easy to achieve.It largely depends on how the relationship ended up the way it was. The problem is that I am a sentimental person, for the better or worse, and feelings stick to me for a very long time.If it was my fault, I would most likely be wrecked by hurt and guilt.If it wasn't my fault, or due to a misunderstanding, most likely I will end up resenting and hating that person in return. I figured it stems from the hurt and anger I felt from the sort of rejection it was, and it is a reactive response, "You hate me? Fine! Because I hate you too!"I usually let it be... I vent it with internal screams and finding a friend who would listen to rant to because it felt unhealthier to suppress which could make me crazier.Thankfully, over the years I've learnt better to let go of guilt. I no longer simply rage; I tend to introspect a lot and these days I've added a new series of perspectives and actions to my introspection sessions:Learning to forgive myselfWhat can or did I learn from the problems I hadHow not to repeat the same mistakesNumber 1 takes a lot of effort... I kind of... brainwash myself into it by repeating "forgive" to myself nonstop and then just try to stop thinking about the stuff that makes me hurt.For anger, I have not figured out the best way to deal with it. I try to let it go by ignoring the people who hurt/hated me. I can't help getting angry at them sometimes when my mind shifts to them, but I try to shift my attention elsewhere when I do so I don't think about them. It's not worth getting upset over people who doesn't care about you, and definitely not worth it by giving them so much control over your emotions and life.
If someone hates you back, should you hate them back to them?
Speak your mind!!.Hatred is solved by just having a person to person talk, i can prove this with an incident happened to us few months back.Story goes like this,We were planning to extend our house upwards and the work started. The work included all the demolition with, cement, sand ,bricks,dust and noise. You can imagine how the neighbors would react when something is happening near by affecting their peace . Thankfully since we were residing there for more than 10 years people understood and adjusted those.But there was a person who is residing backside of our house and right from the start she was opposing us for building the structure because a part of common side wall is shared between we both and we built on a half of it which she didn’t claiming her own reasons.(Please assume both sides of the wall to be backsides of each house)(Source:New twist on traditional terrace)Also we got a message from them that they’ll take action legally for building on the common wall and get a stay order. Things remained tensed for few days but We didn’t budge for those threatening and continued as per the plan. we just tried to reason them and solve the issue which was ended in vain.Thankfully the other person in that house called us for a talk and unexpectedly things were so smooth ,they welcomed us and gave some snacks and discussed the issue.We couldn’t believe as problem was solved right there like it never happened.So what i am trying to say here is that when people hate each other it is highly advisable to talk the issue than to respond with hate which never ends well.For those who don’t want to initiate a conversation guess the following would be suggested ;)Keep quiet!!!I cannot remember when or where i saw this meme in quora, i just saved a copy of it but you can relate it to this question just replace the word ‘ignore’ with ‘Hate’.You can see that the person who keeps his peace of mind is relaxed and the other one is actually reacting on him for being so. It doesn’t cost much to record and observe than to react instantaneously. You don’t gain anything except high BP, tension, etc. by hating back.Hate is followed by anger which just brings unnecessary trouble hindering your ability to judge and respond, leading you on your own path of downward spiral.Thus the choice is yoursspeak the problem orkeep quiet orhate till you wish.(Note: Please consider only the words in the meme and not from whom it is coming from ,posted it just for an understanding.)