What would be the reasons why an older man might be hesitant to date a younger woman? ?
Because it usually does not work there is not enough in common and the man gets old and does not want to do anything and the girl is left feeling alone and anxious and wants to have excitement in life and the man could care less and it will end eventually anyhow. It is a bad experience for both involved because then the man does not want to end it and the woman does so it ends and the man is broken and the woman goes out and has a good time and finds a man her own age. *experience*
As a teen why would you be hesitant to ask for help if you think you might have a mental illness?
As a teen a lot is going on in your head, your body is going through so many changes and you can be pretty self conscious about certain things. So you wonder if that certain someone will listen or that you maybe judged or seen as weak. Especially if that someone is against accepting that mental illness can exist in their home. They might also be against receiving counseling and medicine to treat a psychological issue.It can be extremely hard it you feel your own familiy isn't supporting you on this issue. People tend to feel shame when it comes to mental illness because they feel that there's something wrong with them. But when someone feels they might have a mental health issue or may feel mentally ill, it doesn't mean that they should be treated any differently. It just needs to be treated in the best way possible. it is not the persons fault that they are suffering mentally. Mental illness is as real as physical pain and so many people don't seem to understand this. It can be hard for someone to function in their everyday lives when they are struggling mentally.It can be a difficult topic to talk about or bring up but people must remember that it is also very important to discuss with loved ones. It could prevent a tragedy.
I want to say something to a person but I am hesitating to do so. What should I do?
Ok So If U want to express Your Feelings Then That is totally Fine Go and speak Up dnt hesitate because if u dnt say it today then u will regret in future that if u had said it at that time then Might be there must be some other results. There Can be Many Consequences after expressing Your Feelings. First You May Directly Effect Your Bond Saying this through My Personal Experience and at a time u May loose your friendship too and can become strangers as Your Fault was just that u expressed Your Feelings To the person.But Just Don't Think about that just be Confident and tell whatever u want to say to the person. As U R just Carrying Genuine Feelings Which can't Hurt anybody rest is on the people How will he or she react on it that's upto them. So Stay Positive And March Forward.God Luck Best Wishes!!!
Should you feel disappointed when you say hello to someone and they ignore you unintentionally?
If a person does not respond to me saying hello my first reaction is deduction. Before I decide they are having some kind of emotional reaction to me I check the following:1. Did they in fact hear me?2. Are they distracted by something engaging them that I missed?3. Do they have ear buds in?4. Are they deep in thought?If there is no logical reason why they didn't answer then it becomes more interesting. I would then need to know…Have I offended them previously without realising?Have they simply made an irrational decision not to like me on sight?The second possibility would not concern me if it were true. We all have the right to like and dislike at will. In this case I chalk it up to the natural order of things. I certainly would not be offended.If however it is the first possibility then I need to know this because I care about my reputation and would want to remedy any issues I may have inadvertently caused. So how to deal with this?I would firstly try one more time to say hello in their direct line of sight in a louder voice that they cannot possibly miss. When they respond I can work out from their manner if they were simply distracted and are in fact polite and welcoming g or if they are definitely not being warm toward me. If the first happens then all is good and I would make light humour of how they were in a bubble there !If the second possibility happens then I would probably say something like 'oops… I must have annoyed you at some point? Do I need to apologise for something, I am certain!y sorry if I have'If they refuse to engage at this point then it is time to move on. Already I tried my very best to solve whatever problem seems to have occurred. My integrity is intact. Of course I am more confident than most so this approach won't be right for everyone. You may just choose to move on past without investigation and just be sure to smile whenever you see this person in future. Smile enough and the previous complaint may fade away in their head over time.If it turns out that the person is just emotionally challenged, irrational and this seems to result in ignorance then just move on and be happy that person is not deeper in your life sucking up all your positive energy with their doom and gloom!Stay cheerful my friend and don't let the haters bring you down!Good luck!
Why are some boys/men hesitant or afraid to talk to girls/women?
It is not uncommon to have fear while approaching pretty women. Biologically, one is wired to evaluate oneself in the context of mating and fear rejection. So, there is no reason for you to feel that you are unique in your fear.Having said so, here are some points which will help you get some perspective:(1) Girls can sense fear: If you are scared of approaching them or seeking their approval, they can easily sense it. Their instincts are really very sharp! Fear can either be a turn them off or they can indulge you in a mind game and manipulate your fears. This is the reason why dating gurus emphasize confidence in a man. (2) Competition is more for average girls: Believe me, it is easier to talk to a pretty woman than it is to talk to an average woman. Men fear rejection at the hands of a pretty woman and think average girls can be easier. So, men flock towards average girls who are swamped with too many suitors. This can make them act arbitrarily or make them build walls around themselves, which you can't get past. (3) Pretty girls are usually less insecure: As much as one might underplay the importance of looks, people actually judge themselves by their looks. In case of pretty women, they know that they are good looking and are confident about it. They don't need anyone to keep complementing them constantly. Actually, many pretty girls are very nice people. Don't obsess about their looks, see them as people.(4) Pretty girls have brains too: Do not be blinded by the stereotype that says that pretty girls are dumb. It is not so. Since they are not too insecure about looks, you can have many a worthwhile conversation with them, instead of talking about what accessories match with what clothes, whether a haircut looks good, etc. Much like point three, remember to treat them as people; go beyond looks. (5) Success or Failure: If you are approaching them for dates, you can be clear they are either interested in you or they are not. If they are, good for you. If they are not, still it is good for you as you didn't have to waste too much of time contemplating. You can then move on to newer people. Hope this answer helps you understand your fears and get over them. Develop some confidence in yourself. Here's wishing you the very best.
What is the reason for people hesitating to spend a ₹50 on a good mobile app, while they don’t hesitate to spend ₹500 in KFC?
People do not buy things that they think are less worthy than the money they pay. This is the only reason why people don’t pay even a rupee to purchase mobile applications.Now the question that arises is: What are the reasons people don’t find an mobile app valuable?Less/No Brand Value: People take pride to say “I bought a Nike Shoe.” I’ve yet to see a person to takes pride to say “I bought an app from Yak & Co.” People recognize Nike as a brand. Hence people can show it off. How many android app companies do people know?Used to free products: I guess most of us have never paid for any software. When there is a free and open source alternative is available, why would people pay for it? My friend paid for AquaMall Pro android app but most of my colleagues and I still using the free Microsoft Outlook app.Piracy: Mini Militia is a famous game with both free and pro versions. There was an pirated apk circulating all over the internet. People simply downloaded and used it. People don’t have a guilt to use pirated softwares.Intangible: People like to pay for a product or a service. They like to pay to buy a product called a mobile phone. They like to pay for a service in a lodge or a restaurant. But an mobile app is not a service. It is a product, but it is not tangible like a mobile phone or a motorbike. People feel like they pay for nothing.
Why are you sometimes hesitant telling others that you attended an Ivy League school?
My father was always thrilled that I went to MIT and then Harvard Law. One time we were at a party, and he heard someone ask where I went to school, and I said "in Boston." I was very pleased when he told me that he loved my non-show-off answer. I mostly don’t feel a need to get respect or acclaim if I can’t do it by my actual words and deeds!Of course, I’m proud of the accomplishment, and there are lots of times when my record appears in a firm proposal to a client, etc. But three things stay with me:1) knowing that I did these things is enough for ME; I don’t have to have someone else say, "Gee you must be smart!"2) At work, I am surrounded by people who went to far less impressive schools and who are GREAT lawyers and make more than me. You learn that there is SO MUCH MORE to success and having a good life than getting into a prestige school. I am constantly impressed by my colleagues for things that go far beyond their academic achievements.3) I get to see people much younger than me, with great high school or college records, who through bad luck and statistics, don’t get into the most prestigious colleges or grad schools, and this always brings me back to earth that there’s more than a little bit of luck getting into these places. I’m smart enough to know that in another life, I might have not gotten in myself!
Why am I hesitant to talk with girls/women?
Interacting and mingling with others is must part of life. It's like gathering experience. When ever we meet a new person we are able to understand and cooperate as we know thier attitudeBut unlike others some teens have some issues while interacting with others,Reasonsnot used to being around peuople from childhood this is a simple fact that those who are comparatively very shy they are not much active during thier childhood they must have been avoiding gathering in family and friendsLow self esteem if you have this stuff high then according to others too much attitude, but when you have this low you think of your self insufficientNegativity, this is very harmful people who are having negative attitude seems to be a misfit as they don't seems to be satisfiedFaking, some people actually think that thier personality doesn't seems to be good such people adopt/act according to other people's attitude and think of them to be someone else most dangerous way to use imaginationsolutionbe free -Don't overthink every think just be relaxed and cool \U0001f60eAttitude - just like mentioned among the reason don't hide your self every one has an attitude and it's unique, so be your selfBe a good listener -always keep in mind that if you are in a conversation you must pay attention to what the other person is saying if it's a girl then it's because girls are likely to be interested in those who actually pay attentionBe honest - its not so rare that teenager's these days lies about things to actually talk to people . For some it works but the truth is that is most mannerless behavior if someone asks you an opinion, questions or anything be sure to say what's right or otherwise it could do a lot worse than rightBe respectful - no matter who your talking to maintain a limit always be careful with what your saying , be frank but not stupid. Always give equal importance to what others are sayingSmile ☺ - always keep a smile on your face and have eye contactIn the starting it might be challenging but in the end you will be fineMy experience :- I was shy and had difficulty talking when ever l engage in a conversation I become a chatter box which was kind of irritating, but later when I started maintaining my ways everything turned out to be fineSo be confident and have faith in your self because nothing is impossible \U0001f645
What should I do when someone asks me for my number but I'm unwilling to give it to them? How do I decline politely?
Being a person who is extra cautious about giving out my information, I have always caught my self being at an awkward position of not knowing how to react when somebody I’ve just met, asks me for my number.The latest trend of indirectly asking somebody for their number is “Are you on What’s App?” . Sometimes we feel at a loss of words, not knowing how to respond to them. Our mind clusters with thoughts of the consequences we have to face, incase they feel offended.These are the following ways in which I have tackled the issue. This is how I respond to them:Nope, I’m not on What’s app. I dislike chatting apps.I’m using my dad’s old number. I’ll be getting a new sim for my self soon. I’ll text you once I get my new sim.Give me your number. I’ll give you a call/text later.Oh God! Its my new sim. I dont remember the number and I’m low on balance. Give me your number, I’ll give you a call after I recharge my phone.I dont use my phone so much. I normally keep it away. There is no point in having my number. I’ll text you on XYZ.If these kind of excuses are too hard to frame or deliver at that moment, you can put forward your concern about not wanting to share your number with others in simple words. That will do the job.#Cheers :)
Why is my husband hesitant about having a vasectomy done?
I am 38 yrs old going on 39 yrs old and my husband is 37 yrs going on 38 yrs old. We have been married for 10 yrs happily and known each other since high school we met when we were ages 16 and 17 its a complicated story .This is my third hopefully final marriage and i have 7 kids 3 boys/4 girls who all live with me.My husband is the biological father of my 3 boys and my youngest daughter.I dont want to have to worry about pregnancy anymore but when i brought up a vasectomy?he said what if i want another child and looked offended?I dont get it he was fine with the idea of not having anymore kids till i brought up a vasectomy?